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Encourage and praise more.
You can write with him every day, or you can find something to write as well. Be patient. The best thing to do is to tell him what time of day there is any cartoon before writing his homework, or promise him to play chess and play games with him, and when he plays, use this to motivate him to write quickly.
Well, I was like this when I was a child, and I'm not in a hurry to do anything now. I think that in this case, urging is also very knowledgeable. First of all, you should also be quick and clean when urging.
Slow-talking only made him slower. Also, don't use a reproachful tone when urging, the child should be encouraged, and it is useless to beat and scold. And then in urging is the same thing to say only once in a short period of time.
For example: hurry up, hurry up, hurry up, It's not good, and it's easy for children to lose patience.
Instead, I had to pretend that I had just noticed that his movements had slowed down, and then don't be too loud Cui to hurry up. The most important thing is patience. This is summed up from me.
I think you can do the same thing as your child in this situation, and then compete with him to do it faster (let her, of course). Or tell him that some cartoon will start soon, and if you don't hurry up, you won't be able to watch it. You can also tell him that there are not many tasks ,.. today
When you're done in time, play chess with him, play with toys with him, buy her something delicious or a toy, or just give her a few bucks as a reward. As soon as he slows down, he can use this to motivate him. But it's important to remember that don't say something like that again, just go back.
This will annoy not only children, but also anyone.
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What should I do if my child procrastinates on homework?
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First-grade children are procrastinating in their homework, don't be in a hurry first, find the reason and then solve it.
1. If the child is inattentive, you can take measures accordingly. For example, tell your child that you are almost done with your homework, and then I will take you to play, or to sell your child's favorite food. This gives the child a purpose and allows the child to focus on the homework.
2. If the child is procrastinating in doing homework because he can't sit still, then parents can sit not far from the child to read a book and accompany him, or they can take paper and pen to write or calculate some exercises, so that the child will generally be more stable for a while, and must take his time and not play with his mobile phone to watch TV.
3. Where children write homework, there is no irrelevant supplies. From an early age, it is necessary to cultivate a study habit for children not to procrastinate, and the desk where children write homework is brought to the living room except pens, erasers, and rulers. Parents then assess a time based on the difficulty of the homework and ask the child to finish on time before doing anything else.
4. Let the child act as the little teacher, and make an agreement with the child before writing with the child, and the two of us will compete to see who can complete today's exercise in 10 minutes first. Then, after that, you exchange exercise books with your children and check each other's writing. There are challenges, time limits, and follow-up grading tasks, all of which are interlocking to increase children's interest in writing little by little.
Everything must be treated both as the symptoms and the root causes, the child's homework procrastination, the habit of procrastination can be correctly guided in the early stage of children's growth, which is very conducive to children to develop a good habit of not procrastinating.
A child's procrastination in homework can also be due to the following reasons:
1. The child is not yet able to adapt to school life. Children in school is mainly book-based, children from kindergarten life to school life is a earth-shaking change, many children are difficult to adapt to for a while, children have not mastered the knowledge they have learned, each child's learning comprehension ability is different, many children can not understand the knowledge taught by the teacher, resulting in homework often be stuck by these problems, can not go on smoothly, which is also an important reason for the low efficiency of children's homework.
2. Children's living habits are not formed in a day or two, and doing things slowly is also formed for a long time. This habit will first manifest itself in his life, and if you want your child to be sharp, of course, you must start from life and teach your child to get rid of the habit of grinding. If you let your children rub their habits, how can you expect them to learn neatly?
In order to better help children change bad habits, we should pay attention to cultivating children's good life attitudes and habits in daily life and details, so that children can concentrate and concentrate on doing everything well. Many children have a bad habit of eating while watching TV, and in order to watch more TV, he can often eat for an hour. Parents think that their child has a hard day of studying, so let him take this opportunity to relax, and generally do not interfere much.
In fact, this is not good, in the long run, children will not only develop a bad habit of grinding, but also develop a bad habit of using two things.
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Children don't like to do homework in the first grade, and they always procrastinate, so as a parent, don't use scolding and punishment. Be patient with your child and guide them well, every parent wants their child to be the best person in the class. Parents should also think about their children, who need a moment of rest and relaxation after a long day at school.
If you let your child learn while they are relaxed, it is simply not possible. Parents must use gentle language to communicate with their children and see when they need to learn. <>
Children don't like to do homework, and it may be that they are focused on other things. Some children like to play games on their mobile phones, and they feel happy and relaxed. If parents see their children have this phenomenon, they should put away their children's electronic products and don't let them touch games and ** anymore.
Parents should actively change their children's habits and personalities in order to cultivate their children's good emotional intelligence. What children need to do when they are young is to learn, that is, they need to concentrate their attention. <>
If parents want their children to develop a good habit of doing homework, they must not disturb their children when they are with them. Some parents are always talking in their children's ears, which will make their children feel that learning is very boring. Parents can let their children go home and complete their study plans before going out to play.
When things are done in an orderly manner, the child will slowly develop a good habit of letting go when it is time to let go. Only by being tolerant and trusting can children be free of distractions when they are learning. <>
In general, parents are not police officers in the process of educating their children, and do not blindly choose to criticize their children. It is necessary to show their mother's love and filial piety, and don't let the family become chickens and dogs. When seeing that the child does not do homework, parents can also choose to accompany the child, and finally the child can slowly change some of his own shortcomings.
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Parents should spend a lot of time in tutoring their children with homework, formulating some reward and punishment systems with their children, studying with their children, not playing with their mobile phones during tutoring their children's homework, and telling their children about the importance of completing homework.
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Parents should give their children this rule, if the child does not complete the homework within the specified time, to give the child some punishment, you can also let the child write more notebooks or copy books, you can let the child punish the station, to strictly implement the rules, do not look at the mobile phone or watch TV when the child is writing homework, parents can accompany the child.
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You can encourage your child to accumulate children, and you should also reason with your child and tell your child that if you can complete your homework in advance, you can take your child out to play, and you can also take your child to some places where your child likes to eat. There could have been more time. Go do something else.
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1. Create an environment: If parents want their children to be quiet and complete their homework well, they must first give their children a quiet and stable learning environment. It is better to have only one person at home to accompany him in his homework.
If there are too many people in the family and you can't go out, it's best to let the child stay in a quiet room, and the other members of the room should try to keep it quiet.
2. Formulating principles: In the case of a good environment in the first step, parents must make rules with their children before writing homework. Elementary school students don't have too much homework, and if they concentrate on writing, they can basically complete it in 30 to 40 minutes.
Then you have to make a reservation with your child, start doing your homework, and you are not allowed to leave your seat until you finish your homework.
3. Do a good job of rewards and punishments: All children hope that they will be affirmed and rewarded in their hearts, so tell the children that as long as they complete the specified manuscript tasks within the specified time, they can get the corresponding rewards, otherwise, there is no reward for the key group.
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1. Let children have the concept of efficiency.
Whether it is the efficiency of learning or the efficiency of doing other things, the first thing to let children know is to concentrate on one thing and strive to do it well in the shortest possible time. A lot of kids are there.
When you are seven or eight years old, there will be a problem of rubbing, in essence, most of them are used to asking questions and preparing questions, or there is no concept of "efficiency", and you are used to procrastinating when you can do things, and you can be lazy when you can be lazy. Parents should first instill in their children the concept of concentrating on something and pursuing efficiency.
2. Strengthen children's concept of time.
Parents also do this because they want to reinforce the concept of time. For example, when children write math homework, parents can complete the homework within 30 minutes according to the amount of homework. And every 10 minutes, parents should remind their children of the time, so that the children know in their hearts.
In this way, the child will have a string in his heart when writing homework, instead of doing what he wants, distracted and playing while writing. When the child completes the math homework within the specified time, parents can give the child a certain reward, and if the child does not complete the homework within the specified time, the parent should also give the child a certain punishment.
3. Cultivate children's habit of making plans.
Let the child make his own daily schedule, such as what time to get up in the morning, what time to have breakfast, and what time to write homework after school, so that the child will have a sense of ownership, will also have a sense of time, and will be more self-disciplined. Let the child make his own daily schedule, such as what time to get up in the morning, what time to have breakfast, and what time to write homework after school, so that the child will have a sense of ownership, will also have a sense of time, and will be more self-disciplined.
4. Don't judge children with the eyes of parents.
Children's rhythm of life and physiological rhythm are different from adults, they eat slower than us, wash slower than us, not because of deliberate rubbing, but their ability is nothing more. Judging whether a child is grinding should not be based on the pace of the parents, the real criterion is the speed of children of the same age.
Respect the child's rhythm and don't demand the child with the standards of adults; Allow your child to be slower than you, and don't blame your child for being in a hurry. They may have tried their best, but they just don't meet your requirements, so don't be too your favorite child.
5. Don't always rush your child.
For children with slow temperament, parents must not urge, incessant urging will make the child become restless and become more "perfectionist"; You can take their erasers first and let them learn to believe in themselves. Some children are not slow, but more because they are too perfectionist. And this awareness is invisibly imposed on children by parents and the surrounding environment.
Because of the fear of not being able to do the best, the child has no self-confidence and always doubts his own behavior.
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1. We should create a good learning environment for children and try not to interrupt children's attention.
Try not to interrupt or interrupt your child's homework. Children need a quiet environment to learn. Smart parents should know how to create a quiet and comfortable learning space for their children, which is more conducive to cultivating children's attention, and answering questions is often more efficient.
When your child is studying, it is best not to disturb him and not to hang around him all the time.
In fact, what children hate most is being supervised, persecuted, criticized and blamed, and nagged. Parents should pay attention to their own behavior and let their children consciously control themselves. You're bound to get a lot of trouble at first, but if you stick with it, the problem will slowly get better.
Let the child be autonomous, you can start with some small things at the beginning, and give the child the opportunity to complete independently. For example, let the child pack his school bag before going to bed, let the child be responsible for tidying up his room, etc.
When the child has a certain sense of responsibility, we can slowly let the child write homework independently. Parents remember to allow their children to make mistakes, as long as they make mistakes within 10% of the time. Don't blame your child for one or two small mistakes, as this will only make your child more distrustful of himself and less willing to write homework independently.
3. Mobilize children's interest in homework.
Many times, children in the first grade are struggling with homework because they are not interested enough in learning. Interest is the best teacher, once a child is interested in writing homework, writing homework will not be delayed. Parents can think of ways to make their children enjoy homework, such as creating an evaluation form for homework in their child's room and evaluating it with star ratings.
Set a time for writing homework, draw one star if it is completed on time, and two stars if it is done quickly and well. You can also mark the time when the child completes each homework on the evaluation form, so that the child can watch his homework completion every day, step by step, until the child corrects it and develops good study habits, and parents can let go.
4. The head of the family chain should be synchronized with the child as much as possible.
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