Why do I never forget the man who betrayed me?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-21
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Start a new life.

    Go to a new environment.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really want to forget such a man who betrayed you, then you have to draw all the boundaries with him, never get along, **, delete all WeChat for him, don't have a little intersection with him, and you have to get out of your life circle to accept a new life circle, and you have to make a lot of friends, it's okay, play a game of chatter together, be happy, and slowly time will help you forget this person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A man who betrays you is not worth forgetting because he is not qualified to be the object of your forgetfulness. It's really nothing for yourself, follow yourself, live yourself, make him regret his original choice, betraying you is a mistake, remember that you will always be unique, because there is only one you will not have a second. Your demeanor is shown by you, believe in yourself, and be unforgettable for a person who betrays you, which is an insult to yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since it is the man you betrayed, it means that he did not meet your corresponding standards, and then he wants to hurt you, then you have to forget the past and love a boy who is good to you and has eyes full of you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe you really can't see the reality until he hurts you thoroughly, you can't control it yourself, and it's not easy for everyone to help you get an idea, I suggest that it should be decided.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it may be really difficult for you to forget the man who betrayed you, because you can know from words that as long as he comes to you, you have no way to refuse, so the only way to forget this man is to stay away from this man and live in another city.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have to start a relationship again, because this relationship forgets the previous relationship, you don't think about him because he betrayed you, you have to persuade him because he betrayed you, when he doesn't exist, so you will persuade and forget him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to forget a man who betrayed you, you have to remember the reasons why he can't let you accept, try to look at other people, once you find that there are other people's merits, you will make comparisons in your heart, so that you will quickly forget this person, and even if you don't forget, you won't like it anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

    2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

    3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A man who has betrayed me, I think it's really hard to forget. You can leave the city with him, leave the circle about him, stay away from the bits and pieces about him, and slowly after a long time, you may forget it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You don't have to think about the good old days you had with him, how good he was to you, don't think about this, you have to think about how he betrayed you, anyway, you have to think about the bad things he did to you, so that you can slowly hate him, and you want to forget him from then on.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello. You have to learn to forgive the mistakes of others, and a person will always be a little wrong, unless it is a saint or a fool. Isn't he very good now?

    Why hold on to it? Your mood is understandable. You have to think about his goodness as much as possible, and you will slowly fade the unhappiness.

    See a psychiatrist if necessary.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Stay away from him, don't think about it anymore, even if you are in the next relationship, you will slowly forget the person who betrayed you, if you have been thinking about it, it will be difficult to forget.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can re-acquaint yourself with a new friend of the opposite sex and slowly get in touch with each other. If the man who betrayed you begged you to get back together, you agreed that something like this might happen in the future, and it would still make you sad and sad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let yourself always remember, improve yourself, improve yourself in all aspects, and then you work hard to become excellent, you will give up on yourself, the original you like, feel that there is no need not to care.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There's no way to forget. It can only be forgotten slowly. It can only be said that the people who betrayed you in the past will make you stronger in the future. Good and bad, the past can only be memories.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to forget about a man who betrayed you, you write down the most extreme thing he has done to you on a piece of paper, and look at the paper first after waking up every morning, and after a long time, you will naturally calm down.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you want to forget a person, that is, not forget, go with the flow, let him exist, that is to say, if this is the case, you slowly do not know when you will forget.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Forget the words of a man who betrayed you, then it means that you find a new love, start over, and the next time you fall in love, you will not think of him again.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let's start a new relationship! In this way, you will not have the energy to think about him, and if you find the right person to date, you will feel that he is just like that, and you will forget about him after a long time!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Go with the flow, do what you should do, focus on what you are doing now, and don't deliberately forget what to taste and taste the first thing I said.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When you are looking for a man, you will forget it faster When you break up, don't constantly remember the unhappy things in the past or think that he can't afford you Look forward Don't let the shadow of the past bother you!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think I want to forget about a man who betrayed you, and I think you should put some of the things you need to pay attention to in your life first, so that you can divert your attention and transfer this emotion to your life and work.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you want to forget a person who has betrayed you, then let yourself live a better life, let the other party regret betraying yourself and let him chase him again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In my opinion, the question of the other party betraying you is enough to kick the other person away. If you want to forget such a person, one is to stop paying attention to him, and the other is to know more other people.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you are a woman, it is advisable for you to give up because a man he will betray you.

    For the first time, there will definitely be.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    People can be beaten and scolded in their lives, and there is generally only one relationship to pay without regrets. If he had said that to her in the first place, he would never have forgotten what he said. In addition, men are amorous but affectionate, and he can remember every nuclear filial relationship.

    But in the heart of the revision, it is not certain how much macro branches this woman has.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think you need to be calm first. There is a very good saying: every time there is a big event, there is calm, I don't believe that there are no ancients today!

    This should be a big deal for marriage and family and life! So you have to be calm first and not get out of your hands in pain or anger. You have to think about calming your mind.

    No one can calm down when this happens, and most people (both men and women) are more aggressive than you, but you have to calm yourself down. Because if you can come here and ask this question, then you just want to find a more appropriate solution to the problem. So you first have to calm yourself down.

    Secondly, I want to say that you should carefully analyze your family situation after calming down, such as family structure (problems of the elderly and children), your career, and the relationship between you, and then decide your attitude according to these factors. Now that your attitude is clear, it's only natural what to do next.

    I think you can trust, understand, and support before this, then your emotional foundation and family foundation should be good, and now that this situation occurs, if you still want to save this family and this relationship, it is best to have a good talk with him, persuade him to rein in the precipice, and turn back. In any case, it is really not easy to form a family, especially after having children, the responsibilities of both parties are heavier, so, although as victims, I think we should still be responsible for the family, responsible for the feelings, to try to save the family and this relationship, to give this family and this relationship a chance, no matter how he is outside, how nonsense, at least we must do our best, to the family, to the feelings, including to him. Love is a kind of heart, love is a kind of tolerance, and love is also a kind of forgiveness!!

    If through your efforts, one or even two families that are on the verge of breaking up can be reunited, then you will not only get a sublimation of the value of life, but also the second founder of the family. If we have worked hard, but the result cannot be fulfilled because of your tolerance and forgiveness, then there is no need to care about and cherish anything, after all, you have worked hard and done your best, and the development of things is really not satisfactory, then you can also look up and have no regrets.

    If you can't forgive such deception and betrayal, or if he still doesn't repent through your efforts, then you'd better be prepared to try your best to fight for the interests and rights you deserve, and you can't be merciful to such a man, he can deceive and betray and not repent, then he is a very irresponsible, even extremely filthy person, he doesn't think about your feelings

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I can't forget my husband's betrayal, every woman will be like this, see how you need to accept it, if it's really uncomfortable, you really can't accept it, why don't you let it go, life is short, don't embarrass yourself, it's better to let go and give yourself a chance than to be together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't experience wind and rain, you won't see a rainbow. Do your best, the journey of your husband betraying you can make you stronger. Let you face tomorrow's life with more confidence.

    In real life, the burden that many women bear should be unimaginable. Many women have a psychological breakdown or even a disease because of the pressure they are under. It can show the weakness of women.

    But life has to go on, and it should be strong. Cleaning up the garbage in your heart and bravely facing the challenges of tomorrow should be the pattern of our generation of women. So don't be afraid that your husband will betray you, you should face the illness bravely.

    It would be a big mistake to improve yourself and make him feel betrayed by you.

    Finally, I wish you a happy life, get out of the trough, and welcome the dawn of life.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If it seriously affects the relationship between husband and wife, you know, if you just can't get over it in your heart, try to relax, you just care too much about him, try to focus on work or strive to improve the quality of personal life, a wise woman will run the family and manage herself, and slowly you will be relieved that since your husband has chosen to form a family with you, it means that he loves you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Such a man is not worth forgetting, there are many good men. Wishing you happiness!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Knowing his mistakes can improve Mo Dayan, give him a chance to see how he performs in the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you betray him, you won't settle it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Then separate from him, why bother so much?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I was sent by the company to study in a foreign country, and I was originally scheduled to spend a week, but it turned out to be a day earlier. Last night, I was so happy that I bought local specialties and wanted to go home to surprise my husband. As a result, my husband was very surprised and asked me why I came back early.

    I explained it to him and asked. I went to the bedroom to take a break, but I accidentally kicked the trash can and the garbage scattered all over the floor. I was about to clean up, but my husband took the lead and asked me not to touch him.

    I'm curious, before, let him clean up, take out the garbage how many times he said it didn't move. I looked at him curiously, and he quickly swept up the scattered garbage, and as a result, as soon as the broom moved, I saw something that I shouldn't have seen. I felt nauseous, I asked him, what's the matter with this TT, and he explained to me that he used it himself, saying that he missed me too much.

    This is the reason that the devil will believe. I couldn't help but be suspicious. I looked at the bedside and found a long hair, which I had been short for years.

    I asked him, what is it? He was silent.

    Last night, I had a quarrel with him, and I never dreamed that he would take the woman home, on the day I was out. I've always blamed him for not being incompetent, not being motivated, and letting me work hard as a woman. He actually has the ability to bring people home.

    I asked him who he was, and I wondered what kind of woman liked him so much. As a result, he said frankly, I know, it is a colleague in his company, a divorced woman with children, not good-looking, but admires him, a very gentle old woman. I'm very sad, I have an annual salary of 300,000, why did I fail to such an old woman with a monthly salary of less than 5,000.

    At dawn, he told me about divorce. I didn't want to leave, but I couldn't accept it. Tonight, he slept in a separate room with me.

    What can I do to save my marriage?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

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