Why is it boring to be with the subject for a long time?

There are many factors:

1, you unconsciously demand more from him, this is a common problem that girls will have, girls will never know to be satisfied, so, if he is trying his best, there are some things you don't want to be so demanding.

2. At the beginning, he was in a state of liking you very much, so everything he did was actually not usually done, and he would help you do it when you were there. After a long time, he feels that you should learn to deal with many things by yourself, because after all, you also love him, so you should be willing to do some things for him, that is: what you can do, do it yourself, and share some for him.

After all, boyfriends are also human beings and only have one head. In today's society, boys are under a lot of pressure, and if their girlfriends can be sensible, they will cherish this kind of girl more. (But don't go overboard, or they'll be spoiled).

So, the bottom line is, you have to be on your own, you can't rely on him too much. Because if you don't expect him to help you, you don't actually complain so much about him. Then he will take the initiative to help you, and if you will feel that he is hurting you and caring about you.

If your boyfriend only knows how to quarrel with you and won't let you at all, don't want this kind of boy. Because when a guy who really likes you encounters a problem, he usually tells you first, and if it doesn't make sense, he will let you. But let you for a long time, they will be depressed in their hearts for a long time, and then their feelings for you will slowly decrease, until they become no feelings for you.

However, in this state, if you are still arguing as before, they will get tired of it and fight back.

There are only two reasons why a guy would lose his temper with a girl:

1.His mind is not mature enough. I won't let anyone else. It's the same for everyone.

2.He doesn't care about this girl anymore, so he doesn't care about the image in his heart.

Of course, if the girlfriend is too unreasonable and forced to the point where there is no way out, everyone will lose control, but after this happens, usually the boy will choose to give up, because it is difficult to have the kind of girlfriend in this society who is so bad that he will still love the boy who can't extricate himself. ）

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Here are six beliefs that have an impact on relationships and make couples not get along for long:

Clause. 1. Quarrels are destructive. People who hold this view think that arguing means that my partner doesn't love me enough, and if we love each other enough, then we shouldn't have an argument about anything.

Second, it is very important to "have a soul". People who hold this notion believe that people who truly love each other should be able to intuitively know each other's needs and preferences without being told. If I have to tell my partner what I want or need, it means that he doesn't love me enough.

Clause. 3. Partners don't change. People who hold this notion think that once things get bad, that's the way it can be. If my lover hurts me once, he'll hurt me again.

Clause. Fourth, the standard of sex life should be perfect every time. People who hold this view believe that if we love each other, then every sex life should be wonderful and satisfying. We should always aspire and be ready for life.

Clause. 5. Men and women are different. People who hold this view believe that the personalities and languages of men and women are very different, and it is difficult to really understand each other.

Clause. 6. A good relationship goes its course. People who hold this idea believe that there is no need to deliberately do anything to maintain a good relationship, and that people are either destined to be happy together or not.

There is a large number of facts that it is these ideas that lead to distress and dissatisfaction in people's intimate relationships, which can lead to damage to relationships, because these ideas are unrealistic and immature. When there is a disagreement, those who hold these ideas will think that the situation is serious. Any controversy would imply that the love between them was imperfect.

Worse still, when problems arise, people with this perception do not behave constructively. Believing that people don't change and that true love comes naturally, they won't try to solve the problem, but just avoid it, and they may prefer to end the relationship rather than try to make it up. As a result, it costs more to maintain their relationships and they invest less in cruel feelings than those who hold more adaptive ideas.

The personalities of the two are incompatible, one party always wants the other party to accommodate him, and such a boyfriend and girlfriend cannot last long. Because such a relationship is very tiring to maintain, it is easy for both parties to quarrel over a small matter.

Values are incompatible. There is no way for such people to get along, after all, you will have disagreements on many things, and there will be some contradictions.

Especially selfish people, because this kind of person does not think about others, only thinks about himself.

Because they have been together for a long time, they have understood each other; The curiosity about the other party has gradually disappeared, when you see others, you will be curious about others, you want to get close to him, understand him, be interested in him, over time, you will have no feelings for your object, you want to be separated from him, but you don't want to hurt him, you can only treat him in the same way as your relatives, only family affection remains, but when it comes to breaking the last resort, you must separate, otherwise it will make the other party very painful and not happy!! ～

Summary. The first scenario: the girl breaks up tentatively.

This situation happens often, and it often makes boys at a loss, and girls either want to test the boy's sincerity to themselves, or they are on the verge of danger, try and break up wrongly, and quickly solve the relationship problem. The opportunity for a girl to suddenly break up is a very small thing, but behind all behaviors, it is the result of long-term emotional accumulation. A tentative breakup shows that the girl has been trusting the guy for some time, and may have accumulated a certain amount of dissatisfaction and disappointment.

The person used to get along well, and suddenly you couldn't let it go, what should be going on?

Is it the woman who suddenly wants to break up with you?

Yes. Did you do anything to be sorry for her?

No, I don't. Under what circumstances did she bring it up?

There is no situation, and it is proposed to break up when we have dinner together.

The first situation: girls break up tentatively This situation often happens, and it often makes boys at a loss, girls do this either to test the boy's sincerity to themselves, or to test on the edge of danger, try to break up if you are wrong, and quickly solve the relationship problem. The opportunity for a girl to suddenly break up is a very small thing, but behind all behaviors, it is the result of long-term emotional accumulation.

A tentative breakup shows that the girl has been trusting the guy for some time, and may have accumulated a certain amount of dissatisfaction and disappointment.

What do I do now?

Pls my question.

Hello. Please don't worry too much about it now.

Only communication can solve problems.

If you don't contact me, how can I communicate? Please advise.

Ahh You ask her out and go to her house to find her.

1. All of them will be, which is the so-called husband and wife.

Husbands and wives get along day and night, have the same life patterns, similar life concepts, and most of the same dietary structures, so they will become more and more consistent in physiognomy. In particular, this feeling will be more obvious for couples who have a particularly good relationship.

Couples who can get along for a long time have roughly the same three views on life, and most of them have the same attitude towards things. In real life, a selfish partner, the partner of the other half will not be so selfless. Couples with a peaceful mentality are mostly approachable and easy to get along with.

Therefore, this kind of resemblance is mostly in terms of spiritual temperament, not the similarity of facial features. Now that I have been with my lover for a long time, my friends have seen us, which also means that we are becoming more and more husband and wife, and we look more and more alike.

In short, there is a certain truth in the heart.

The object will not look like the other half for a long time, and there are often husbands and wives who say that it is because the husband and wife eat the same, the living environment is the same, the family problems encountered are the same, the same joy and anger, and the time will become more and more imaginative, but the object is not so.

No. It takes half a lifetime to be like, how long has it been like just being in a subject. Twenty years?