I feel that I am easy to be soft on people when I do things, what should I do?

In fact, I am also a soft-hearted girl, I think soft-hearted will not bring any trouble to myself, I don't think I have to be hard-hearted, because soft-hearted sometimes brings benefits to myself, not only gives others a chance to atone for their sins, but also brings us more people's acceptance, will win more recognition for themselves, make their friends more, soft new, one day your enemies will find your good, and make friends with you! If you want to have more friends and fewer enemies, you can do that too, because it's a shortcut!

Every time I'm always soft-hearted to others.,No matter how angry you are.,As long as the anger disappears, it's fine.、But,It's easy to suffer.。。

I've eaten it once, and it's very serious.

So, now it's not so soft-hearted.

As long as others do too outrageous, I will listen to others and not be soft-hearted...

You can listen to other people's opinions yourself.

Or think that being soft-hearted to others is cruelty to yourself, and will others treat yourself like this again?

And then decide for yourself ...

You are prone to softness of heart

Are you just embarrassed to refuse? 、、

Pluck up the courage to refuse、、

With the first time、、、

It's good slowly、、、

Sometimes soft-heartedness is good

Don't worry too much、、

This shows that you have a good heart

A soft-hearted person is a kind person who is unwilling to hurt others; A person who is easy to be soft-hearted is also an honest person, he is straightforward, simple and refreshing, and does not play scheming or routines. But what is often hidden is that it will be yourself who is hurt, and the choice of forbearance and concession is too much, which will make others gain an inch.

It's a good thing to be soft-hearted, but you can't hurt yourself because of soft-heartedness.

Soft-hearted people don't know how to reject others, and people who are too soft-hearted can easily feel guilty, and even rejecting others feels that they have done something wrong.

Always think of others as too simple and beautiful, stupid to give, stupid not to ask for anything in return.

It is precisely because they are too good at taking care of other people's feelings that they often ignore their own feelings, and they are often wronged in the end.

Soft-hearted people are less likely to blame, and they always blame themselves more than others.

They rarely hold grudges and are always easy to forgive others for their mistakes.

In their world, tolerance has long been a habitual habit.

Being strict with oneself and being infinitely tolerant of others is probably a characteristic that every soft-hearted person has.

Soft-hearted people are actually people who attach too much importance to feelings, and it is precisely because their minds are too sensitive that they are always tired.

cares too much about others and believes in others, but in the end it is yourself who is hurt.

Soft-hearted people are actually too kind people.

It is precisely because he is too kind to others and too cruel to himself that he always lives a hard life.

In life, you must also learn to harden your heart.

Soft-heartedness must be used against the right person, soft-hearted when it should be soft-hearted, and refuse when it should be refused, don't die to live and suffer from shame!

Being a man is sometimes a little colder

There's nothing wrong with being ruthless, and it's only when you can protect yourself that such kindness makes sense.

1.Always think a lot for others.

Soft-hearted people can't really love themselves because they need to worry too much, they want to take care of many people's emotions, they want to make a good impression in the hearts of others, and they even sacrifice their feelings for the sake of considering the needs of others.

Soft-heartedness means kindness to a certain extent, but kindness also depends on the situation. People often have to be kind to themselves first in order to face others better. It's not terrible to be soft-hearted. What is terrible is blind indulgence and loss. 2.Highly sensitive.

Soft-hearted people are generally afraid of hurting others because of themselves, so they are highly sensitive to all kinds of small things or details. They tend to make connections between various things, and some experiences or feelings can affect them inadvertently. At the same time, soft-hearted people have really strong empathy skills.

Although it feels different, it does bring soothing emotions to the other person.

Soft-hearted people are highly sensitive, but they are also the ones who are most likely to capture happiness and tend to have a simple and pure heart. It is precisely with this power that we can better protect the peace of mind.

A person who is too soft-hearted is not easy to refuse others, she is ruthless to do something, she is easy to get hurt, and she is easy to be liked, there is no good or bad.

It's just that you don't stick to your own opinions about anything, and you believe what others say.

Hello, I'm Linlin, I hope mine can help you. It seems that you think you are a soft-hearted person and want to change this personality, what is it that makes you think this way?

Asking questions and being soft-hearted hurt me too much.

Thinking too much about others is hurting yourself.

Understand, since you have developed this problem, have you tried to do something for yourself, are you unconsciously thinking about others and wronging yourself, or dare not refuse others?

Ask questions, consciously think about others, and wronged yourself.

You can see that you are a kind person, but if you are too kind and think too much about others, you may lose yourself, and you need to face up to your own needs.

Some habits are not formed in a day, when did you start to have such habits? Need to find the cause and adjust your behavior?

The question started when I became a mother in 09.

Well, your child is 13 years old, do you think this change in yours has anything to do with being a mother?

Soft-hearted people will hurt themselves the most.

If you are always susceptible to soft-heartedness, then you need to develop your ability to judge right from wrong. After all, if something really doesn't meet our bottom line, it needs to be explicitly rejected.

If you don't want to do something, refuse generously, don't always think too much about others, and then wronged yourself. Don't always compromise, learn to say "no", and resolutely don't do what you shouldn't do.

Force yourself to change. When something happens, don't make a decision so quickly.

Do you feel like a soft-hearted person?

There is a saying that "soft-heartedness is a disease that must be cured", many people can realize their soft-heartedness, but some people are not aware of their soft-heartedness at all, and even hurt themselves with soft-heartedness. Everyone thinks that they are the ones who know them best, but in the end, they find that the person they are least familiar with is themselves.

I have seen such a story before, there are three children in the family, the eldest and the second are girls, and the third is a boy, the eldest and the second birthday are not very far apart, and the parents always celebrate their birthdays according to the eldest birthday. Almost all the money in the family is for the eldest to go to school, and the delicious food is given to the third child, and the second child is sandwiched in the middle, and gradually becomes a person who "can do anything, anything can do", and others always say that she "Why don't you have a little bit of your own character?" ”。

The softer a person is, the more he has these three characteristics, how many have you hit?

Always think a lot about others.

Soft-hearted people can't really love themselves, because they have too much to worry about, want to take care of many people's emotions, want to make a good impression in the hearts of others, and can even sacrifice their own feelings in order to consider the needs of others.

To a certain extent, soft-heartedness is kindness, but kindness also depends on the situation. People often have to give themselves kindness first, in order to better face others, soft-hearted is not terrible, what is terrible is to blindly accommodate, let yourself be lost.

Highly sensitive. Soft-hearted people are generally afraid of hurting others because of themselves, so they are highly sensitive to all kinds of small things or details, and often establish connections between various things, and some experiences or feelings will inadvertently affect them. At the same time, people who are soft-hearted are really strong in empathy, although they do not feel the same way, but they can really bring soothing emotions to the other party.

Soft-hearted people, although highly sensitive, are also the ones who are most likely to capture happiness, and often have a simple and pure heart. It is precisely with this power that we can better protect the peace in our hearts.

I hate my soft-heartedness.

What kind of person is the most painful, not a soft-hearted person, but a person who knows that soft-heartedness will make him unhappy, but still soft-hearted, has a helpless mood towards himself. Probably this is the way to accept that you are soft-hearted, soft-hearted is part of human character, and the more you reject this part, the more you will torture yourself.

People's energy is limited, and people who often consume themselves in this area are people who are strong in their hearts, eager to become excellent, but if they want to become excellent, they must first learn to accept themselves. When you can see your soft-heartedness correctly, you will no longer compete with yourself, and you will get more and more positive feedback.

Is it good to be soft-hearted? What do you think, friends?

Soft-heartedness is the nature that people should have, soft-heartedness is the goodness of human nature, since you are kind, then your heart is more open-minded than ordinary people. The weakness of the heart is mainly due to the lack of understanding of rejection, the lack of a clear mind about the complex people and things in society, the lack of coping with complex interpersonal relationships, especially after being hurt, the lack of defensive ability, and the lack of how to protect themselves.

Hello, soft-hearted people talk about proportion, but they never grasp the specific scale.

Because they are easily influenced by human sophistication, they lower the standard of proportion that they think is right when they do things until they seem more favorable to others. This may seem like doing the best of your ability to help others, but in fact, it is a compromise based on serious damage to your own interests.

Hope it helps!

A soft-hearted person shows that she is a sensual creature, and it also shows her kindness and gentleness, but soft-hearted people must also divide the occasion and things, and maintain a trace of rationality in the emotional world.

Maybe you are like this, and many people are not like this, and it depends on the situation, soft and hard are both choices.

01.Kindness is the most valuable quality in a person, no matter when, we should maintain a kind heart, kindness is not because of others, but for yourself, because your kindness is your blessing, your kindness is your back road. Please keep a kind heart and be kind to others, that is, be kind to yourself!

02, in life, we will encounter all kinds of people and things. Maybe sometimes we will be wronged a little because of kindness, but we can't lose our sincerity because of these grievances. Being a kind person and warming others is actually warming yourself!

03, your kindness, people don't know, God knows. Remember: good deeds are rewarded!

Kindness is a virtue, kindness is a kind of foresight, kindness is a kind of self-confidence, kindness is a kind of spiritual strength, kindness is a kind of calmness to work at ease, kindness is a kind of culture, kindness is a kind of happiness, kindness is a kind of optimism. Kindness and virtue are like gemstones to metal, and the two complement each other to add brilliance.

04, your kindness has made Fengbi suffer a loss, but as long as it doesn't cause harm to yourself, don't take it too seriously. People are good, although the blessing has not come, the disaster is far away. Giving to others and kindness, planting blessings, planting is sown by yourself, naturally, there will be your own harvest.

What you give, you will eventually come back to you.

If you don't want to do this, every time you are soft-hearted to help others, you have to consider your own ability, whether you can help others without hurting your own interests.

Why are soft-hearted people more likely to be let down?

Soft-heartedness and hesitation are the same, except that one is for others and the other is for oneself.

It's not accurate to classify it as emotional, but it should be said to be a way of dealing with feelings.

In fact, it's not necessarily bad, after all, it's part of the character, but you have to understand when to be soft-hearted and when to put an end to it. This issue varies from person to person, and there is no uniform standard, and it needs to be judged according to each person's situation.

People who value feelings are generally soft-hearted, regardless of his or her superficial words and deeds.

A person who does not pay attention to emotions only lives for him or herself. Soft-heartedness, in general, refers to a person who has a good heart, and such a person is very kind.

That's a woman's greatest asset.

But soft-heartedness should have a range.

It can't be said that the lover child made a mistake.

Thou shalt be soft-hearted before their cries.

At this time, you have to show them the color.

Otherwise, soft-heartedness will only harm the woman herself, and if she is too soft-hearted, she will be connived and will burn herself.

Because humans are sentient animals, our emotions are often swayed by some touching behavior! When our hearts are fully touched, our hearts will be soft! Maybe you'll regret it later, but you can't control it at the time, unless you're cold-blooded!

Maybe it's because people have a kind heart! Some people are not kind.

At the beginning of man, nature is good. There is a softest place in everyone's heart. Even the worst people have it. That's our cover door.