Why sometimes I am always timid and lack courage in my heart

You're a good student, like all good students. Carrying the same school bag, doing the same homework, looking at the awards all over the wall, thinking about how many more awards to take. I always think about going to a prestigious university in the future.

But these things are like a program that has already been written, and it has nothing to do with you. You are just playing the role of a good student under the expectations of the education system and your parents.

I think a lot of people, including me, are like that. In our youth, we don't learn to be ourselves, but we learn to be someone else.

When we grow up, we don't have our own, and we become hypocritical, just like with our parents. I don't dare to say what I like, I don't want to keep what I don't give up, and I don't have the courage to confess even if it's the end of it. We are always afraid that if we truly become ourselves, everything we are now will disappear.

You know, you don't want to be an honor student. I just want to be myself. The most we will do in the long lives to come is to lose ourselves.

In our youth, we can still run, we can fly, and we can shave our heads with the people we like unscrupulously.

There is only one real you in this world, and if you lose him, you really have nothing. No one's life is for others to see, although we can't live as we want forever, but we have to say no to the hypocritical life.

We only dare to satirize teachers and leaders, but we dare not satirize the education system.

All along, our school, our teachers, have been educating us about what kind of people we should be, and have never cared about what kind of people we want to be. But in fact, for youth, thinking is far more important than it should be.

Those who are supposed to be, are like the products of the assembly line. So, there is only one shortcut to becoming them, give up the want, put on the mask. Our education has put a thick mask on us since we were young, and when we say sensible, isn't it just giving up to be ourselves.

A chill ran out of my heart, what kind of monsters our school had cultivated, we didn't start to speak in our own voices, and we had a spokesperson living in our hearts.

He said what everyone wanted to hear. We did whatever it took to become that product. When we put on the mask, we think that excellent is just a noun, but we don't know that excellent is a kind of temperament.

It's not because we don't know what we want. It's because countless people educate us about what we should do, but they forget to tell us that wanting is more important. So we are hovering between what we should and what we want, that is, we are confused.

Actually, just be yourself. There is no standard answer in life, and if there is an answer in life, it would be such a boring thing.

So, in the end, I mustered up the courage to say no to myself who I should be, and to say no to this education system. You can fly when you want to fly, you can do whatever you want to do for the girl you like, you can go far away, where you want to say goodbye, you want to live, you want to yourself.

Hold me and hug me tight! Just kiss me, I miss you.

In fact, inexplicable timidity and fear are everyone's normal reactions, because most people are insecure, especially about things they don't know or don't know much, and they are full of fear.

Therefore, we must work hard to learn the unknown and actively exercise our ability to resist pressure, so as to enhance our confidence, courage and sense of security in the process of continuous progress.

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Timidity is a kind of psychology that most people will have, don't be too nervous, think clearly about what you want to express, and then slow down, don't worry too much about what you say wrong, people often don't care too much about some small mistakes, but often just in the main meaning you want to express.

Isn't the heart beating hard?

First of all, you have to overcome your timidity and have self-confidence.

Interpersonal relationships are indeed a university question, you don't want to improve everything and let it be, you have to have a degree in your own heart, after mastering this standard, you yourself will not feel tired.

One meter feeds a thousand people. Everyone eats the same thing but is a different person.

There are three types of people in interpersonal communication: 1. People who treat you well. 2. People who misinterpret you. 3. Inconsequential people.

For the first type of people, if you have the grace of knowing you, you can be a teacher and a friend.

The second type of person is the most troublesome, for this kind of person, you just know who he is, you don't have to fight with it, and you don't have to worry about yourself. Don't expect everyone to like you and treat you well, but remember that one more friend is not too many, and one more enemy is too many.

And for the third group of people, you have no stake, so you should treat each other well, which means that you have the opportunity to become the first type of people.

Believing in angels when we are young, expecting angels when we are in trouble, and doubting angels when we are disappointed, many of us are getting farther and farther away from angels ......When we were children, we would cry immediately when we fell, clearly pointing to the wound, hoping that our parents would run over and blow and hug the ...... hurtNow, sometimes I find that I have a purple and a blue on my body, but I can't remember how I touched ......What's even more terrifying is that these scars don't hurt at all, and sometimes we suddenly want to cry, but we can't remember why we want to cry......

I often say to myself: there is no right or wrong in everything, only right and wrong. So I don't force the approval of others, and I often look at things from other people's eyes, my life's belief in life, my life's loyalty to my friends, as long as I give, I don't care what I get?

Giving is a joy in itself! There is happiness when there is suffering, and he is a chic man. End the perfect life freely!

There will be many beautiful scenery on the road of life, and many scenery can only be appreciated but not owned. As soon as you let go and let go, you have already gone through a period of life, if you don't want your emotional life to be pale and weak, don't cling to an impossible emotion. Once a beautiful love becomes a trivial entanglement, then the beauty will be gone.

Keep a watch in the bottom of your heart, and it will sustain your life to rejuvenate. Keep that good feeling, let love be half-dreaming and half-awake, and life will be full of hope! In the emotional sky, giving up is not the same as losing, and gaining may not be eternal!

Bo Bo has endured the test of life since childhood, and I firmly believe that there is a gain if you pay.

You know, my friends, there are many feelings in this world that I can't understand. When we care a lot, hope that the ideal will ignore us, and when we don't need her, she comes again. Everyone's personality is different, some are knife-mouthed tofu hearts, and some are rhetorical but wolf-like.

No matter what kind of personality and what kind of heart he has, as long as we ourselves have a kind heart, we can turn troubles into pleasantries. The troubles of life, emotional disputes, being scolded by the boss at work, family pressure, social and mental pressure, spiritual emptiness, etc., these are not the reasons for us to complain about life. Because of them, we should cherish life more and enjoy life.

Maybe each of us has a different personality and way of dealing with others, but as long as we all have a true, kind and beautiful heart!

We will be very happy and happy to live in this wonderful life!

Change the way you behave with people and how you usually behave in your dealings with people.

Treat the people around him as good people.

When you see someone or someone sees you, you are bored and laugh!

It's okay to liven up your own vibes.

After all, I don't offend people, people offend me!

Basically, people have this mentality.

Because you look at others with strange eyes, others will pay attention to you, you can try to socialize with others, and you will be fine after getting used to them.

You have to understand that it's useless to be afraid, and it's better to overcome it if you have time to be afraid. If you are so worried about doing things, just like you always ask about a car parked in front of you, if you hesitate like this, everyone else has traveled around the world, and you are still in the same place. There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, so don't be afraid if you do it.