Why do people spend their whole lives in pain?

Life itself is a painful thing, and the most painful thing is not knowing what pain is. Regardless of whether you feel good or bad, pain will always exist, and life is the carrier of pain. Born is destined to be bitter, and I don't feel bitter, I am still pursuing all kinds of so-called happiness and happiness, and in the end, pain will follow, there will be all kinds of complaints, jealousy, hatred, dissatisfaction, complaining, and finally helplessly hand over life.

Getting what you don't deserve can be a disaster. What you get is not necessarily good, and what you can't get is not necessarily bad. People are self-grasping all day long:

I'm right, and no one else is right. Then you will never be able to see the truth, and to see the truth, you have to have a spirit of selflessness. Truth is manifested by abandoning the idea of self-consciousness, and the pain disappears.

Anything that increases does not matter what is perceived, and anything that decreases does not matter what decreases, because these aspects are only images of the mind and have no physical substance. Therefore, you must learn to let go of your worries, let go of your separation and go to work and study, then you will be very happy, and your pain will naturally disappear.

Because I don't have a correct mentality, when I look negatively, everything is not good, and when I look at it positively, everything is hopeful, and when I look at the point, it is not so painful.

There is no pain how to compare what is happiness.

I think your own attitude is related to your own thoughts, everyone will encounter very difficult times, if you face it positively, and if you take it as a kind of motivation, it will definitely not feel painful.

How is it that people spend their whole lives in pain? Because a person's life is bumpy and cannot be smooth sailing, it is normal for a person's life to be spent in pain.

It's painful because it's not going to be good, right?

There are too few things that can go as well as you want in life. Therefore, people's lives are often painful. Sentimental people, in particular, seem to be even more miserable.

You say that people spend their whole lives in pain, I think this sentence is wrong, a person must work hard in order to strive for a happy life.

That's because people have to go through a lot of hardships and hardships in their lives, so it is also an inevitable process, enjoyment.

Why do people spend their entire lives in pain? Because all that a person thinks about in his life is suffering, it is said that his whole life is spent in suffering. There's also a lot of good things about it. But we forgot about it.

I once thought that 30 years old was out of reach, and I was 29 years old if I didn't pay attention, and I didn't understand it before, but I couldn't understand it as a joke, but now I can understand it all, I can understand why a factory employee jumps off a building, and I can understand that some people do anything to make money.

In the past, when I heard the employees of a factory jumping off the building, I couldn't understand why I wanted to go to a dead end, at that time, I thought that I would resign if I was under pressure, and change the environment if the environment was depressed, and anything was a trivial matter in the face of life and death. Until recently, I finally understood their desperate feelings, getting older, life is stressful, and I don't know anything, and I don't have anything, I change the environment and change the job, but just change the job and the environment, and everything else has not changed, everything that should be faced will not change.

It has been almost 10 years since I graduated, and I have almost never seriously precipitated myself, I have to get by, be content with the status quo, and regret why I didn't work hard to precipitate it well, and now the age has come up, and the pressure on all aspects has also come, and I have been carrying the weight forward for a long time, and from time to time I feel that a person's life is really tired, what is the meaning of life, when I was young, I studied for my grades, graduated for work to make money, married for my family, and when I was old, for my children, and the pressure accompanies my life, All your life will be shrouded in all kinds of shadows.

I always reminisce about the past, when I was studying, there was no pressure, there was no worry, and what I did at that time were all examples of chatting and bragging now, but I regretted why I couldn't study hard and get into a good university before.

I recall that when I first started working, why I didn't work hard, work hard, and fail to join some good companies and do some promising jobs.

I am always afraid of the future, afraid that I will not be able to mix well, afraid that I will not be as good as the present in the future, afraid that I will live a mediocre life in the future, and when I finally leave, there is only one ** left.

And at the moment, I don't know what to do, I only know that time is passing fast, but I can't grasp it, and I am full of powerlessness.

This feeling is too uncomfortable, like falling into the boundless water, the water overflows the mouth and nose, suffocation, just so still, suffocating, sometimes I dare not sleep at night, as soon as I lie down, I think of these, and the night will magnify this suffocation, thinking of the past for a while, and fantasizing about the future for a while. Sometimes I wonder how good it would be if it wasn't dark, and time would be left for today.

I know that I am ordinary, I don't know anything, I don't understand anything, but I don't want to admit that I am ordinary, I always feel that I have a promising future, and I may soar in the next second, what a ridiculous idea.

Always believe that something good is about to happen".

Now I rely on this sentence to comfort myself.

People are born, old, sick and die, they will get old and sick, and they may become sweeter and sweeter, and if you feel that it will be more and more painful, it will be more and more painful, and if you feel that life is very beautiful, then it will be more and more beautiful, and I wish you a better and better life.

People have money and health in their lives, they are very happy, no money and have to work hard and do not worry, the more they live, the more painful they are, as long as people are motivated and hard to get rich, even if it is a hard life, I believe that it will always come to an end. People live in the world for a while, eat and drink well, and have fun. I just want to be happy, and leave the pain to myself tomorrow.

Pain has nothing to do with money, not necessarily more money is less pain, there is money, others are lacking, no money is also lacking, but without money, you can only want to earn money first, you can't think of anything else, or it doesn't matter, he thinks that money can solve everything. No, I know that everyone is the same.

When you're young: You can do whatever you want for yourself.

When you start a family: It's the process of your gradual maturity.

When you start a business: you will be trapped by life, family, and relationships, and you are no longer yourself.

There must be more pain than when I was a child, because as I get older, I don't have the same cognition, I have more, of course, I lose more, and loss is accompanied by pain, and a person's life is to grow slowly in the process of losing and having, which is the only way for everyone. If the family is in good health, all other pains are nothing.

Life is always a process of ups and downs, and the uncertainty of the future is the original face of life.

A person's life should be a process of getting better and better. Our continuous progress and continuous efforts will be sufficient in spirit and strength.

Why is it painful because your strength does not match your experience.

Of course not! A person's life is a cyclical process of problems and problems. So don't encounter some problems, just feel that you can't get by, there is no hurdle in life that you can't pass, what you fight is your spirit of not admitting defeat and optimism.

The human brain is amazing, it selectively memorizes certain things, which is actually a mindset. For example, if you are depressed for a long time, you think too much, and you feel that you are living a miserable life, which is not going well, and that is not going well, and in the long run, your brain is actually used to your way of thinking. In other words, sometimes it's not that you're really depressed and feel miserable in your heart, but that your long-term thinking patterns have already acted on your brain.

Once the brain has this effect, it will cycle and repeat this brain suggestion, making you feel depressed and miserable inexplicably from time to time.

Judging from my own experience, in fact, don't think too much about life, and don't sigh too much. When you encounter a problem, face the problem, analyze it positively, find out how to solve the problem, and when the problem is solved, you will naturally be relaxed and will not feel troubled and painful. If you feel that people's lives are becoming more and more painful, it can only mean that as people get older, they have more and more responsibilities and obligations to fulfill.

If you don't have any skills, you will indeed be in a hurry and overwhelmed when facing too many problems.

But only by going through these can you grow! This is a necessary stage of life. It's not pain, it's trials and grinds. Be brave, be the controller of your own life, and don't be led by fate.

Being alive is painful in itself, and along this line of thinking, it is bound to become more and more painful.

Hello, dear. Whether a person's life is painful or not depends on the factors that are obtained through acquired efforts, and whether his own open-mindedness is big enough. We hope you are happy every day!

Of course not, there will always be failures, and there will be successes. God will only set up a passable tribulation for you, no matter how difficult the life is, no matter how sad the ditch, we grit our teeth, and it will be over. I've been hurt and cried, and then I smiled and said to myself, don't be wronged, don't be sad, this is life.

It depends on your own experience and inner opinion.

If life is high and low, don't pay too much attention to it, accept the fact that you are becoming more and more ordinary, turn your heart to the sun, and reduce the pain. If life is moving up, that's the best. Pain is actually difficult to define, but happiness is easy to define, live your life to the fullest, let yourself enjoy.

Life is a joy in life, from infants, toddlers, elementary school students, middle school students, high school students, college students, etc., to work and become parents. Relieve stress in a timely manner, exercise more, take leisure appropriately, travel, chat with family and friends, etc., and maintain an optimistic attitude.

Not exactly.

The more you know and the more you know, the less likely you are to be happy.