What regrets do you have for your first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-02
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The biggest regret in the first love is the first love, we don't understand the love, we don't know how to tolerate each other, we don't know how to accommodate each other, and we break up after hurting each other. When I first fell in love, I was very willful and domineering, and I was very possessive, and I always thought that I couldn't hate him if I loved him and couldn't dominate him 24 hours a day. Did he go?

    What are you going to do? Who you are with, you want to know clearly, and if there is a slight disturbance, you will get to the bottom like a Sherlock Holmes, and you will never give up until you figure it out. Now that I think about it, it really makes the other party very tired, and I am also very tired, and I know later that true love is proper letting go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Can I say that I have no regrets about my first love? Although I was very young at that time, I seemed to have a lot of ideas about what I wanted at that time, although I liked each other very much, and I couldn't resist the romance and excitement he brought, but I knew in my heart that we were not all the way, and we would not be together in the end. So I won't ask for anything from each other, just happy together, and then naturally separate after graduation, many years later, he came from out of town to participate in the reunion again, and didn't deliberately say a lot of words, just like an old classmate, and walked to me when they parted, and asked me in front of everyone, "Did you meet the person who was like me to you at the beginning?"

    Tears ran in an instant. But if there is no result, you are not destined to be the one who can accompany you to old age. Everyone is well, thank you for your first love, thank him for giving him such a pure and beautiful memory, and wish him happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I regret that I didn't let go of my heart at the beginning, I thought too much, and I did it myself! I waited for ten years without results, tried, inquired, and was unwilling, but so what? No matter how much regret you have, you can't make up for it, but you can't let go of it in your heart, and it's good to bury it silently after a long time, because the reality still has to live, and it's too illusory to live only in fantasy!

    still has to face reality, because he has almost forgotten the girl he once had a crush on

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Thinking back to my first love, there are really a lot of regrets, when I was young, life experience, social experience, including love experience, are all a blank slate, although purity is very precious, but the price paid is very expensive, regret did not insist, return to his hometown, return to my hometown, work hard together, for the future of a family, regret did not convince both parents of the courage, for love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For my first love, I am more grateful to him for teaching me a lot of things and responsibilities, and shouldering my own responsibilities! Left me the happiness of my youth, with the gradual passage of time, the passage of age, I have learned a lot, read a lot of things that I did not understand before, for the first love, more thanks, thank you for teaching me to drive a motorcycle at sea, thank you for teaching me to play the guitar.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Together in the year of graduation. His parents strongly objected, and they still secretly stayed with him. He has a high emotional intelligence, has a wide range of friends, has countless admirers, and always knows what he wants.

    Make the most of your college time to go where you want to go, do what you want to do, and enjoy life. I asked him: Why do you like me when you are so good?

    He said: Because you are very simple, you don't need any pretense to be with you, you can be very relaxed, and you can say whatever you like. Under his pressure, I rebelled against my parents again and again, and finally convinced them to accept him and let us be together.

    He urged him to get married immediately, because he was about to start paying off the mortgage, and he was too tired to bear the monthly mortgage and car loan, and he wanted to find someone to share it with him. I was chilled. I have just graduated for more than a year, and I have just passed the period of confusion, and I have just begun to know what I want, where I want to go, I just want to pursue what I want, and I want to enjoy life.

    So I rejected his offer. In the end, it ended in a breakup. I think the biggest regret is that I completely lost myself in this relationship, and I have no self.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The year I graduated, it was the last chance to meet him, because we all knew that we would have to go our separate ways after graduation, so we still chose to let both parties have a happy end on the last day. I was a little reluctant to separate, but after all, I was separated, I wanted to be together, but my goal was not on the same idea, she wanted to go to Beijing to develop, and I went to Shanghai, I really wanted to go to Beijing with her, but if I think about it from the perspective of my parents, it must be a refusal, because my parents are doing business in Shanghai. So when I left at that time, it is also the most memorable meme now, and not going with her is my biggest regret.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When I first fell in love, love was also very fragile, I wanted to have a future, and I was afraid of the arrival of that future, and I didn't escape after graduation when I broke up, I still loved each other, and maybe the other party still loved myself, but I just couldn't pull each other's faces, and first extended an olive branch of reconciliation to each other, at that time, I really felt that love was very fragile, and the four-year relationship could not withstand the fear of the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I have so many expectations, so many regrets, you know?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. The first time I tried love, this is the first time a boy tried love, tried **, but neglected to give, to love each other, to meet each other's needs 2, too pure, love is too pure, I think you should only belong to me, but I forgot that love itself is an independent but interactive thing 3, too longing, everyone's first love period has paid enough sincerity, and they have sworn to each other, but in the end it is a separate and two wide 4, give too much, will not how to manage a relationship, will only give the best to each other, but ignore whether the other party likes it, so in the end love becomes a burden 1, the first time to try love, this is the first time a boy tries love, try **, but neglect to give, to love each other, to meet each other's needs 2, too pure, love is too pure, I think you should only belong to me, but I forget that love itself is an independent but interactive thing 3, too longing, everyone's first love period has paid enough sincerity, and they have said to each other that they have sworn to each other, But in the end, it is one separate and two wide 4, giving too much, will not how to manage a relationship, will only give what they think is the best to the other party, but ignore whether the other party likes it, so in the end love has become a burden.

    The regret of first love is to remember the past self and miss the past.

    When you have not experienced the pain of love, because of love, you may give all your body and mind, and you may also truly realize the sincerity of a relative who gives all to you.

    These are the most valuable, often only once, but they are often missed.

    Sometimes when you recall the past of that person, those things you have lost or missed, and the comparison with your current bad life, is regret.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The most regrettable thing about my first love and me is not because we are not together, but because I have always liked her after many years, but she has become a different person.

    The years are in a hurry, and we feel that the years are in a hurry at the same time, and we have grown up slowly, far away from the once ignorant era, and the first love I once liked has never changed in my memory.

    After meeting one day, I realized that time is the most unforgiving thing.

    The years have spared no one.

    My first love and I met in junior high school, and we were at the same table at that time, and thanks to the teacher, I was able to walk with such a beautiful table mate and had a lot of happy times.

    Because of being able to have such a beautiful tablemate, I became the jealous object of all the boys in the class, as the so-called near the water is the first to get the moon, although the school repeatedly refused to let the object, and the parents were also very strict, but I couldn't stop this hazy heart from falling in love with that beautiful girl.

    I am grateful to God for giving me such a time full of joy. If God had to do it all over again, I would treat every second as if it were a day.

    If life is only as it first seems.

    However, we can't turn back the clock, and the two of us didn't end up together, and after many years we were both adults and had families of our own.

    Although we have our own lives, there is still a pure land in our hearts that is prepared for her, which does not mean that I do not love my wife, but the shadow of the girl I fell in love with for the first time has never disappeared.

    However, one day at the class reunion many years later, we met again, and this side was not as good as not seeing, and the good memories after meeting him had disappeared.

    The girl in front of me, who I used to dream of, has become a middle-aged woman, with a bloated body and no beauty at all, and my former dream has been shattered like this.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I feel like the most regrettable thing between me and my ex is that the two of us didn't go on all the time. I think this may also be the reason why people miss their first love more, because it is very beautiful, but because of some external conditions, the two of you did not go to the end, which may also be the most regrettable thing in your life. The two of us met in middle school, and one day the most amazing thing was that the two of us barely said a word before we were together, maybe it was what others said about being together by feeling.

    I remember the teacher said that people who are together in middle school may not be able to get together in the end, and it will affect the learning of the two of us, and the two of us don't think that the two of us falling in love can affect the learning between the two of us. We also really felt at that time that no one could separate us unless the two of us didn't want to. But things are always a little bit worse than we think.

    When we were in college, the two of us were admitted to two different universities, two completely unfamiliar cities, and the future was a great challenge for the two of us, and during that period of time, the two of us quarreled more and more, and we didn't know how to deal with these conflicts between the two of us. Maybe it's also because of the long-distance relationship, both of us can't hug each other when we quarrel, maybe it's a small contradiction but it's a lot of trouble, and in the end we both got tired and chose to break up.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The end of first love is always broken up, and the reason is not how to cherish it.

    People who say that their first love regrets are often after the age of thirty, and often the relationship is not smooth and the marriage is not satisfactory. Everyone has a common temperament, that is, if you don't cherish it, you love to reminisce when you lose it, and say: "If God gives me another chance, I will say to her that I love you, and if I have to add a deadline, I hope it will be 10,000 years."

    People who don't know how to cherish the person in front of them will not only have their first love as a regret, but even the current one will become a regret. The so-called regret is just that I feel that my current life is not what I want, or that I feel that I am unable to manage my current life, so I began to find reasons for myself, thinking that it was the social reality that took away my love for life, and when I fell in love for the first time, I was so simple and pure.

    Why do they always say that first love is the most beautiful.

    For people who are in a first love complex, they are likely to fall in love with themselves. Everyone's understanding of love is different, and imaginary love is projected into reality, so first love will be very beautiful. Boys, the beauty that attracts them to the pants may be just a swaying ponytail, maybe just a fluttering skirt corner, and a bowed shyness.

    It's a feeling, it's an atmosphere. They may not be able to rationally analyze whether this girl is suitable or not. He just had such a spiritual sustenance in his repressed adolescence.

    The love between boys and girls, the curiosity about love, and the ignorance of beautiful imagination may give their first love a very beautiful aura.

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