I m very upset... Very lost...

How to put it, in fact, it is normal for couples to quarrel with each other, don't take it too extremely. Since it's late, I'll talk about it briefly.

First of all, you have been talking for 4 years, in fact, you should make this relationship public, that is, let your parents know. After all, 4 years is not a short time, if you plan to get married, you should let your parents know in their hearts, even if the impression is not good, it is better than when you plan to get married and then disagree with your parents about this matter.

Secondly, your parents have a bad impression of him, and if you want a good result between you, then you ask him to change his bad impression in your parents' minds.

However, I have a doubt, that is, I don't know if you are studying or working now. If it's work, you really should tell your parents about you. If it's studying, it's a different story, after all, parents still want their children to focus on their studies, and it's not too late to talk about it when you graduate.

Again, it's a bit too much for your boyfriend to ask you to go out so late. Ordinary people would not agree. You don't have to blame yourself for that. When a girl goes out so late, even with her boyfriend, her family won't be at ease. It will also affect the next day's work and study.

In the end, you don't have the problem of connecting with each other, I don't think anyone has to give someone a ** first, as long as you love each other, don't worry about small things. This time you give in first, and let him make you better next time. Moreover, there are many things that need to be communicated, so it is better for you to have a good talk.

Sometimes, the Cold War does not solve the problem, but rather sharpens one's patience and disappointment with the other. Perhaps, he is in the same mood as you now, and I hope you will give him a **.

You were reconciled before your birthday, and your birthday won't be dark, won't it? Even if you don't have a good friend by your side, with the company of the person you love the most, I don't think you will be lost.

Happy birthday to you.

In fact, to be honest, you haven't made your relationship public for 4 years, and anyone will be unhappy. Parents don't like it, you can try to make them like it. Hiding it like this doesn't seem to me to be a sign of not caring.

I think that's what you should think of as well. Boys care about this. Your object is already very tolerant, I didn't tell my parents about the object for half a year, and my partner is always angry.

I see my parents because I care about you, don't you? I think you should be soft first, real feelings don't need to take care of face. Don't wait until you've lost it to cherish it.

Think about the things you used to be happy with together, what is this contradiction? You don't have to be afraid to tell your parents that if you truly love each other, your parents can't stop you. Isn't their daughter's happiness important to them?

I wish you a happy 21st birthday and a good mood in advance

That's what you're wrong with! He will actually be very sad if you do this, because he will feel that you love him hard enough! Since you love you have to be firm, why should you care what others say?

It is you who love him, not your parents who love him. So your relationship must be open so that he doesn't get sad! Got it?

Women have to be kind to themselves!

Love is a matter for the two of you.

Why let the 3rd, the 4th, the 5th, the 6th, the 7th ... Wait, how dare you?

Let it be: It's not interesting to hear what you say.

There's nothing to lose There are a lot of people who don't have a birthday when they're so old.

Like me, I always eat some noodles by myself, and I just finished the first two days, and it's fine.

Go to the mall and buy something you like, go out for a walk, and let everyone calm down.

I don't even know how to get over my birthday, but I'm going to work anyway, so there's nothing to say.

I also encountered the same problem, my parents also complained that my girlfriend's height was not high, and they didn't agree with us being together, for this reason, my girlfriend always said this problem in front of me, I was also very uncomfortable, on one side of my parents, on the other side was my girlfriend, I didn't want to hurt either side, I had to tell my parents that they were also young, and they also knew that love was not easy to refuse after it came, besides, loving someone is not about loving his beauty and figure, I hope my parents can understand the love between us, and at the same time explain to my girlfriend, saying that my parents are also a sign of love for me, everyone wants their parents to love him, you are a reasonable person, you shouldn't blame the parents who love their son so much, right? Now that they're all gone, I think you should also make it clear to your boyfriend and parents, everyone understands things, and there's nothing wrong with it.

The one above should be for Mr.,Girls won't think you think so.。 I can understand that these two days, it should be very sad, as a woman, you should sometimes learn to be rational, you have to think about the problems with him, first, your parents are against it, which adds a certain obstacle between you. Second, you have to think about whether you can live happily ever after, and can he take care of you?

Third, is there a so-called love between you, "You can sacrifice everything for each other for love?" "If not, then wait for the person who really loves you to show up. Fourth, think about how to live without him by your side and how to take care of yourself.

Here's a happy birthday to you in advance, friend.

This is a normal emotional manifestation of people, everyone is the same, seeing friends leaving, going their separate ways, feeling that all the good things in the past are slowly withering, will be melancholy, will be melancholy.

What I'm trying to say is that life is always scattered and scattered, in fact, sometimes if you lose it, you will get it in another place.

Everyone has their own piece of the world, relax, plan your life well, slowly make new friends, slowly adapt to the surrounding environment, and you will be happy.

Actually! It's normal, I'm often like this, and when something doesn't go my way, I always think like this, but if I suddenly encounter something happy, I immediately feel that it's not so pessimistic! Hee-hee, be happy!

It's normal.

People don't experience feelings only once in their lives, and every time they will be rewarding, no matter who is right or wrong. Everyone is sad when they lose, but as time goes by, you will find that slowly everything fades. One day, when you look back, you'll know that it's really nothing, it's just an episode in our lives.

Learn to be good, and we will meet better people in the future. We must also learn to be grateful, to thank those who come and go in our lives, who enrich our lives and make this part of our lives colorful.

Upstairs is right, it's too pessimistic. There must be gains and losses in a person's life, and we must see more of the gains.

Normal, do people have joys and sorrows, hehe, a good spring sighs about this, was it dumped by a lover?

The normal way to express sadness, people who have negative emotions in their hearts and do not vent them, basically end up with insomnia to brain lesions, and then live in a nursing home

Normal, but I think you're a little too sad. Life is hard to get confused. Every age has something to accomplish. It may also be that social life is too stressful, often busy on the go, and sometimes taking the initiative to be an active person will make a different life.

The heart is very lost, generally frustrated, such as: falling out of love, falling off the list, relatives leaving, etc., irritability is some people who look down on themselves and complain about others, such as: feel that they are not good-looking, have no talent (singing, playing), average family background or poverty, etc., resulting in irritability.

Falling out of love, falling off the list, and leaving relatives can be a slump and depression, or (he) she doesn't belong to you after all, there is someone who loves you who has been waiting for you, and you have to continue to pursue her; It can be to do your homework and prepare for the next onslaught; It can be a farewell to leave, take on the responsibility of taking care of those who stay, shoulder the responsibility and work hard, worthy of yourself and others. The right attitude is especially important, the ups and downs of life are what people have to face, and only in this way can they have the resilience and patience to face life, so as to get out of the haze and face the light.

Parents have made us, in the future, it is on our own, those who have no hands can become pianists, and those who have amputated limbs can become Olympic champions, I believe that your physical condition is better than theirs, less complaining, more effort, I believe that you can, live a good life, better.

When a person who was once inferior to you slowly catches up with you, and the people around you gradually lose confidence in you, you will feel lost, and at the same time, you will ask yourself why this is the case, and you will find that it is caused by yourself from beginning to end, and all this cause and effect comes from yourself. Stemming from their own laziness, relaxation. When the person who was inferior to you tells your friends and relatives that you think you've been caught up, and you don't know it, you feel cheated for a moment.

At that time, don't feel that the world has deceived you, you will feel cheated because your own strength is not enough, no one will stop moving forward for you, no one will stop waiting for you, life is like this, this cruel and beautiful world, if you don't move forward, you are already lagging behind. Because the pace of others never stops. When life forces you to breathe and you are embarrassed, you have to come to your senses.

There is a saying that people are forced to do anything. People who seem to be easy-going and indifferent are more serious than anyone else. People who love to laugh are more angry than anyone else.

So, if life forces you to breathe, then accept him. Change yourself for reality and accept your reality. Your life will be very different from then on. Come to your senses! Accept yourself and fly higher from now on!

Your heart is empty....For the sake of not being fulfilling....You have to find what you love to do and make yourself full....No matter what irritability you encounter, as long as you fill your heart, other problems are not a problem....

No matter how impetuous the world is...It's good to settle down and enrich yourself...

Every encounter in life is fate, there is no right or wrong.

Every morning in life, we should work hard and not procrastinate.

Life is always a dilemma, no matter how persistent and unwilling you are, you have to learn to accept that you are no longer pure.

From crying and complaining, to smiling, in the end, it was just a casual encounter.

Life is all about to face, and although we are all afraid, think about the environment you are familiar with now, and it was once a strange environment for you, and you still adapt to it.

How the mood is not something we can control, but we must solve the troubles after the good thing, life in the world, everyone has unsatisfactory times, encounter anything, relax the heart, the road of life will suddenly open up, there will be mountains and rivers without a way, the willows and flowers are bright and a village of open-mindedness, the mind is relaxed and not so tired.

It's okay to make a comeback, it's not a big deal, we live for tomorrow, and we don't want to think about yesterday all the time.

LS. People are still reading, how can there be a concept of **. If you feel depressed when you fail the exam, it means that you are still very studious.

Unlike in our time, it was not good if the grades were not good, the rice was still eaten, and the fat meat was still chewed. The boys went out to drink, the girls had a meal together, and nothing happened.

Since you have been deceived, you have to settle accounts with him. At least expose his true colors, so that he will be ruined and there will be no way to deceive others.

Loss is normal and temporary. Just be bitten by a dog and remember this lesson.

Song Title: Lost and Depressed Song.

Singer: My Little Airport

Lyrics: My Little Airport

Composer: My Little Airport

Duration: 2 min 27 sec.

**: "Just because I was too nervous at the time".

Lyrics: I'm on my mind again.

Since watching Osamu Dazai.

I asked no one who cared about the meaning of death.

The world seems to be falling apart.

There was no cure for either of us.

I just want to fly away and start all over again.

May you write me a poem.

In memory of the six times we went on a date.

I can't imagine it.

Fairy tales that I have seen.

Sometimes growing up is just the beginning of a tragedy.

What I've done.

Not much makes sense.

I know that no one will be happy when you approach anyone.

May I become an angel of laughter.

We will see each other ten times a day.

May I be a psalm of grace.

Then you will be willing to watch it dozens of times.

As long as you do your best, even if it is not good, it is not more frustrating than being depressed, everything is not smooth sailing, only after going through the process, the next time will be better! Just take it as an experience! Good luck!

If you've been in pain and crying, you'll be fine!

What is to be separated will always be separated, you should be clear"There is no feast in the world"

No matter how much you keep it, you can't keep that past second...

Next time, take care of your mouth, there is no other way, and I do this often.