What should I do if I have trouble getting along with my roommates?

Updated on educate 2024-03-03
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What was it like to be a particularly warm college roommate? I think it's a very heartwarming experience to have roommates, because in college the dorm is almost our home, and our roommates are our family. I have a good relationship with my roommate, and of course there are times when we have conflicts and arguments, but they always work out in the end.

    For students, roommates may be the closest people in your college life, and you can't avoid letting them help you solve and come up with ideas when you encounter troubles, so try to be friends with your roommates and learn to solve problems when they arise.

    In daily life, everyone will form their own habits of work and rest, and they will inevitably bring these habits to the dormitory. From our own point of view, we try to correct habits that may affect others, such as snoring and talking in our sleep. After all, the dormitory is a place to rest, and snoring and talking in your dreams is really unbearable for many people.

    But we can try to go to the hospital to find out the pathological causes, even if there is no effect in the end, the roommates will not blame you much when they see that Zheng Zheng is actively changing.

    If your roommate has any bad habits or is different from you due to regional factors, we must also learn to understand and tolerate, after all, college roommates come from all over the world, whether it is daily eating and drinking habits or ways of doing things for others, but these Zheng Tan is not high or low, just the difference brought to us by culture. Of course, if their habits interfere with your normal routine, you can kindly remind him, and he will usually correct them.

    We also do not rule out irreconcilable conflicts between roommates. Everyone has their own bottom line and principles, and in the face of behavior that touches their bottom line, they can tolerate or remind them once or twice, but if he is still reckless, we don't need to tolerate it. At this time, we can ask the counselor for help, give him a warning or transfer him out of the dormitory; If you have the conditions, you can simply move out of the dormitory, and it is much more comfortable to live on your own than to look down and see the people you hate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Stay away, there's no need to make changes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. Frequently rummaging through other people's things.

    College students are basically adults, and everyone has their own privacy. There are many things that even your parents don't want them to know, let alone roommates. Besides, even if there is no privacy, no one wants others to make a mess of their things.

    Some students feel that rummaging through their roommates' things is nothing. He may often rummage through his roommate's drawer or open someone's computer to look through it.

    2. Love to take advantage of roommates.

    Some college roommates usually have the habit of taking advantage of others. Sometimes he asked someone to help him cook and buy a drink, although it might be a matter of a few dollars, and he remembered it himself, but he just didn't pay it back. There are also people who take other people's daily necessities to use without the permission of others, so that the thing of taking advantage of others happens once or twice, it is estimated that many people can accept it, but often like this, other roommates may not want to have too much interaction with him.

    3. Self-centeredness.

    There is indeed such a person in life, especially ego, who thinks that everyone wants to revolve around her, listen to her for everything, she is right for everything, as long as others do not follow her wishes, she immediately turns her face, but she never thinks about others, and the most obvious feature of getting along with such a person is that she has lost herself, and it is better to stay away.

    4. Not paying attention to personal behavior and influencing classmates.

    The dormitory is a collective, since living in a collective, we must consider others, and doing things by ourselves can not affect the normal life of others, but there is a kind of person who moves very much, never closes the door casually or closes the door loudly, litters and so on, and there is a lot of such a person in the dormitory, so we must change it, and encourage it if there is none.

    Maintain a good relationship with your roommates, college life will be more comfortable and colorful, if you really meet the above types of roommates, you can hide, and it is the best way to be quiet, don't have conflicts, and you should also review your bad habits.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Hello dear, glad to answer your <>

    Hello dear, if you are not comfortable with her, you can avoid her, reduce communication with her, don't say too much, and don't communicate with him except for that kind of necessary thing. I really can't stand being able to play with other people more and play less with him.

    What to do if you don't feel comfortable with your roommates.

    Hello dear, glad to answer your <>

    Hello dear, if you don't feel comfortable getting along, you can avoid her, reduce the ditch and shout with her, don't say too much to the type of Yuno, and don't communicate with him except for that kind of necessary thing. I can't stand it, I can play more with other people, and play with him less.

    What to do if you don't feel comfortable with your roommates.

    You are so dear, if you don't get along, you can avoid her, reduce communication with her, don't say too much, and don't communicate with him except for that kind of necessary thing. I really can't stand it, I can play with him more and play with him less.

    He turned me off.

    Honey, is there something wrong between you?

    You can talk to the teacher.

    He doesn't love hygiene, his body smells very strong, and he doesn't know how to respect.

    If that's the case, then try to ignore the other person, baby.

    Avoid contact on it.

    But he annoyed me.

    At 23 o'clock in the evening, he was still playing with his boyfriend ** loudly, and he didn't call him quiet at all.

    If that's the case for you, baby, you can communicate with him and tell him that it's not good that this matter is affecting others.

    If he insists on doing this, you can tell the other person, and if it keeps going like this, you can complain about him.

    I've talked to him many times, and he's done the same, and I've reacted to the counselor, but it's no use.

    If that's the case, my dear, then you can also explain your situation to the teacher, or you can ask for a change of dormitory.

    My dear, I see that you don't have the number of times, if there are still problems, you Changqiao can buy this service, and then I can do a better analysis of your problem Ennaha. It's not easy to meet, I wish you a happy brother.

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