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Once upon a time there was a king who went out on a boat with a large number of commoners in order to understand the people's feelings. On the ship something happened that overwhelmed the king:

A slave from the interior had never seen the sea, let alone been on a ship. Because of his fear, he cried incessantly along the way.

The king, disturbed by the slaves, ordered the people around him to calm him down. Many people on board managed to comfort the slave, and tried all means to no avail.

The philosopher immediately had the slave thrown into the sea, and he struggled in the sea for a while, and just as he was about to sink, the philosopher ordered him to be pulled out of the sea to the side of the boat. The desire to survive caused the slave to cling to the rudder with both hands, and the philosopher, seeing this, ordered the men to drag him to the ship.

The philosopher's words were fulfilled, and when he got on board, he sat in a corner and made no more sound.

The king, perplexed by the philosopher's actions, asked, "What is the significance of your actions?" Why can he listen to you and stop making noise? ”

That's because he didn't try the greatest pain of life, he didn't understand how painful it was to die, and he couldn't think of the value of being in a boat. ”

In fact, in real life, there are many people who are making the same mistakes as that slave, and they do not know how to cherish the good life they have now, so it is difficult to be at ease with what happens. If a person has not experienced calamity, he will not understand the beauty of a happy life. Only after experiencing the test of setbacks and hardships will you understand the true meaning of "being at peace with what happens".

I also want to "be at peace with what happens", look at the changes of everything indifferently, and look at the ups and downs here. Writer Yang Daxia believes that indifference is the most precious.

To live a lifetime is to have a lifetime of cultivation, to be a person to know how to be grateful, and to learn to forget the Kaichang type. Each of us aspires to be the joy and happiness of life. Perhaps, there is no perfect thing in this world that is the most beautiful.

When all the prosperity fades, when all the enthusiasm is lost, all that remains is loneliness and loneliness. Take all of your life, and the rest is just a tiny blessing in the middle. I never regret it, I am grateful and resentful, I can only do everything to build all personnel.

On weekends, rush back and forth.

After getting out of the car, I walked down the green, whistling north wind and the yellow leaves all over the mountains, giving people a cool and cool feeling.

A person's path will not be because there is no barrenness, when all the attachments are finished, most of the consequences and results are superfluous. Too much sobriety, let the mind go to zero. In the inadvertent years, I got rid of all the bitterness, in fact, it was the hope for the past and the future.

If it is said that when a person's path becomes a reality, then it is actually time to open some clear paths. All attachments are actually for oneself to choose, for oneself to choose. To be a guest of life is to be a guest of life, and you can't leave any regrets for others.

The scenery is still there. A lot of times, we're playing, but a lot of times, we have to learn to be at ease with what happens.

There is a lot of excitement in this world, and each of us just wants to do this, and there is no absolute regret for ourselves.

A friend told me: I don't have any lofty ambitions, just go with the flow.

I have a question, do you really like the self-satisfaction of going with the flow?

Being at peace with the situation means being able to adapt to various environments and be satisfied in any environment, which can be understood as contentment.

Indeed, people cannot be mercenary, and contentment is a way to put a good attitude.

But beware of mistaking what happens as an excuse for not working hard.

Knowing a person, making money to build a family, he is not there, smoking and drinking is his favorite. In the name of contentment, it is said to be content and happy, "happy with encounters", but in fact, it does not seek to be motivated, and is willing to fall.

In contrast, some time ago, a friend cried and complained about walking on the road of house slaves, and I had a very uneasy feeling, and later found out that the mortgage was actually 1500 per month.

With a monthly payment that only accounts for a small percentage of his salary, can't he say to himself that he is at peace with what happens? Of course, you can, but what is uneasy is not the monthly payment, but the uncertainty of the future and the dissatisfaction with yourself.

Stephen Chow said: If people don't have dreams, what is the difference between them and salted fish.

Some people also say that they want to be a salted fish, and it is normal to eat in the bowl and look at the pot, since they have chosen to be a salted fish, they must accept the "beating" of life.

Why do you have to be motivated?

You look down from the 80th floor and it's all beautiful. But when you look down from the second floor, it's all garbage.

If people don't have height, all they see is problems. If people don't have a pattern, all they see is trivial.

Just like the recent Li Jiaqi mansion incident, don't just sour.

The season of flowers is not long, and it will be thanked when it is late, so flowers cannot wait for anyone. - Barkin.

Time is like a flower, but for decades, if it is wasted, it will be "thanks", so time can't wait for anyone, don't just look at it.

Slowly in the usual dull work also learned to make fun in suffering, maybe the meaning of life is very simple, and the person you love to live a dull life, in fact, it seems that life does not need too much applause, the process of their own silent efforts is the most worthy of memory and nostalgia.

I am now in the most ordinary position, although it is not formal but I still have a stable income, but I still have a lot of ideas, thinking that I shouldn't live such an ordinary life, repeating the previous day's work and process every day, as if I can really see my life in the next few decades, thinking that I want to enrich myself every day, but it is very easy to give up, and I only have "three minutes of heat". After going on and over for a long time, sometimes I will just give up on myself, not wanting to do anything actively, like a walking corpse, as if my mind has long since died. But occasionally I see that others are very good, stimulate my own sense of existence, and I will actively do something, but in the long run, I will not last long.

I don't know what my concept of persistence is, insisting on a life that is at ease with what happens? Stick to that "three-minute heat"? I feel that every time I beat myself is a lot of external factors, and then I slowly found out that I just lost to my own inertia, but now I think that as long as I like it, I will strive to do the best, which is also an expectation of myself, in the ordinary life and post, I hope that you and I can live an ordinary life with the encounter and stick to what you like.

If happiness is based on certain idealized conditions, you may never be happy, and the idealized conditions are difficult to achieve in the first place, and even if they are achieved, they will definitely not be the same as you think. So the first thing is to live in the present, live in reality, everyone's environment and conditions are concrete, acceptance is the basis for change, if you don't accept it, you can't see the reality clearly, you live in your own fictional reality, if you can't objectively understand the real situation, how can you deal with it reasonably? Everyone has their own pursuit and fate, respect their own heart, and do what they feel is most meaningful, most interesting, or most loving.

The test of being at ease is the ability to adapt to changes, because the world changes, it is impossible for all conditions to remain the same, so we can't wait for all conditions to be ripe. Thinking about it now, doing it after you understand it, it's that simple, and correcting it in the process of doing it is not immutable.

Good and bad are relative, the key is how to judge the situation and deal with it reasonably.

To be at peace with what happens is to face life head-on, without excuses. Life is caused by habit, and if you develop the habit of making excuses, then the false and rapid disturbance will inevitably lead to a failed life. Developing good habits is tantamount to giving wings to success.

Being at peace with the situation is a kind of life attitude, and it is more calm, calm and free in the face of life. The more relaxed you are, the better you can play. Only those who have really lived can really be fearless, and bad attitude determines everything, because that is an inner driving force.