How do you tell if a boy is a scumbag?

If you don't know if the boy you have been ambiguous with recently is a scumbag, I can tell if this boy is a scumbag in one sentence. You tell him directly: I have a crush on you, and I think you are very good.

Note, it's okay to say this, we clearly express our affection, but don't confess, just see what this boy does.

The biggest characteristic of a scumbag is that there are countless women around him, and he likes to step on two boats when he is dating women, and his mobile phone doesn't let you see it. The scumbag's heart is a woman, or a particularly bad woman. They don't have as many male friends as female friends, although they always say that this woman is my buddy or brother.

There are two kinds of faces before and after, people are reassuring in front of people, (for example, the mother's family) after people are poison, sugar-coated cannonballs, some are very good to girls before dating, and after marriage, there is no good boy like this before, it must be a scumbag!

1 Draw flatbread.

Coax you around with sweet words, and make a mountain alliance and sea vow, promising you a better future, so that you are addicted to illusions and difficult to extricate yourself.

3.**Air conditioning.

There is no sense of boundaries, and it is very good to all interested girls, even if there are blind friends in the female bureau, they can't stop shouting at other girls.

4 Lies are rife.

In the eyes of a scumbag, promises can be said casually, and even when lying, you can do it without blushing and without blinking.

5.Duplicity.

Scumbags are often "ruined on the outside", for them, it is not the same on the outside, one on the surface, and one on the back.

6.Create an affectionate character.

Scumbags often win your sympathy by setting up affectionate personalities, and you must not trust him, this is just a means for him.

7.Move relationships forward quickly.

There is a kind of scumbag who has only known or gotten along for a few days, and he wants to quickly advance the relationship with you, and he wants to win you within a week at a fast pace.

8.Mind Manipulation (PUA).

By suppressing, belittling, distorting your emotions and weakening your feelings, you can establish your own superiority and achieve the goal of controlling you.

9.Do not take the initiative and do not refuse.

Never take the initiative to look for you, nor will I refuse you. The scumbag in the ambiguous period will cast fishing nets wildly, and he will only treat you as one of the many fish.

10 Delay in indeterminating relationships.

Many scumbags are crazy and ambiguous but are reluctant to determine the relationship, because he may treat you as a spare tire and need to weigh the pros and cons before making a choice.

11.Makes you think you're special.

Scumbags will often use sweet words and create an illusion for you to mistakenly think that you are special, wake up! It's all a proper routine.

12.If you want to catch it, you can indulge in hot and cold.

The purpose of the scumbag is to make your heart itch and take the initiative to attack him. If you say something, then he will succeed in his scheme, and if not, he will say goodbye.

"Scumbag" usually refers to the kind of words and deeds that are not.

1.I often like to call, send messages, and chat with each other, but I am unwilling to communicate face-to-face, or always prevaricate at an agreed time and place, or even break my promise.

2.Emotionally inattentive, always contacting multiple members of the opposite sex or having multiple girlfriends, and giving explanations or excuses such as "just friends" or "just eating".

3.Not keeping promises, arriving late or missing appointments without reason, not valuing your own time and that of others.

4.Often tell some lies or boast about their achievements, unscrupulous for the sake of what they like, or lie that they have money and want to suppress the other party.

5.Don't do what you should do, such as pushing yourself to study or work, not taking your own responsibility, and getting used to pushing things to others and making others responsible.

6.Swearing or belittling women on the Internet or in social situations, showing disrespect for others.

7.Giving up one's principles, values, and attitudes, hoping to be recognized by the other party, and losing one's own position and attitude.

Of course, the above are not all indicators, brother you Huichen also need to interact with this boy to understand whether his thoughts and behaviors have continuity in his long-term behavior pattern, etc., and comprehensively examine his personality and character to judge whether a boy is a scumbag.

I remember an English teacher said that there are more scumbags in the two professions of fitness instructor and clay teacher.

From a psychology professional point of view, a "scumbag" refers to a man who uses violence and abuse in intimate relationships. When it comes to violence, the first thing that comes to mind is physical abuse such as punching and kicking.

Yes, this is for the physical. But there are five forms of abuse in intimate relationships: physical, sexual, emotional, discursive, and financial.

Here are a few things to keep in mind, most likely:

1.He often calls you frequently when you are at work.

2.He stops his bad behavior only after you make a compromise.

3.You feel like you're not doing the right thing for him.

4.Apologize at every turn, say I'm sorry, and kneel down and tell the woman to give me another chance.

Practice makes sense.

Some people look at scum, but they actually like this kind of interpersonal relationship. But it won't really sit on the scumbag.

Some people are good men on the surface, innocent. In fact, they are always looking for prey. and will try to sit on the scumbag, or scumbag again.

Don't listen to what he says, watch what he does.