Can you talk about how you found your girlfriend as a programmer?

I debated with a high school teacher for 40 minutes at the English Corner event, and I was attracted to me, and then we dating.

Programmers also have hobbies, for example, I love to attend Jay Chou's concerts, and then my girlfriend and I met at the concert, and we have the same hobbies.

Introduced by relatives, it is similar to a blind date, because he is busy with his career and has a lot of work. I didn't have much time to talk about it myself, so I chose a girl from my hometown, although it was dating first and then falling in love, but it was quite compatible.

Relying on the company's organization to socialize, I found a good girlfriend, although I was a little embarrassed and shy at first, I got to know each other slowly and got used to it, and now I am living very well.

Parents introduced, because the age has arrived, parents always feel that they can't find it if they don't look for it, looking at the same age around them have already hugged their children, parents are more anxious, and the neighbors help to ask, which child is suitable.

When I worked, I simply didn't have time to talk about girlfriends, but I have been working for four years, and now the company is going to expand, and I am reluctant to leave, but my family is urging me to find a partner, so I went to the marriage company to register, paid the money to become a member, and then I met my girlfriend who is about to get married now.

I found a female colleague who worked in the same department as a girlfriend, as the saying goes, fertilizer and water do not flow into the fields of outsiders, the same work, the same habits, it is still quite good.

Let your classmates help you pay attention to what you are looking for, because you are usually very busy and don't have the time to take care of these things, so you can only rely on the strength of others to help you find your other half.

You emphasize programmers, which means that in the eyes of you and most people, programmers are what you say is honest and wears glasses. The life of programmers is characterized by stable work, and the daily life trajectory is the unit, the family two points and one line, most of them are more homely, and people who love sports and life like the subject are very lively in this group.

There are two sides to everything, programmers seem to be boring, but most of them graduated from high-quality universities, they are smart and love to learn, have a sense of family responsibility, have no bad hobbies, and there is still room for promotion in their careers. Such a group, I think all girls with a normal view of marriage will like it, and it is a high-quality resource in the "marriage market".

As programmers, as a high-quality resource in the "marriage market", their "publicity" is not enough, and the narrow communication is the biggest disadvantage. There are two ways to do it, one is that there are many aunts and aunts around who are very keen to draw red lines for young people, you can tell them about your situation, and they will naturally match you; The second is to join some hobby groups, especially groups composed of college students, graduating single graduate students, if you have something to talk about, you can take the initiative.

Of course, it is more important to improve your connotation, expand your horizons outside the field of work, and correct your three views. Be a person who is affectionate and righteous, contributes to society, and has a sense of responsibility for the family.

Generally speaking, UI design is the first link in the product development line, and there are more girls than boys. Girls will have some advantages in color and aesthetics. Girls are more able to get the visual point of a product, and at the same time, girls are more patient and can accept the process of changing the picture.

The front-end, as the second link of the product development line, is generally more female than male. Three of the front-end of our group were all girls, and one of the boys later switched to back-end development.

Generally speaking, the back-end development is indeed dominated by boys, and the appearance of girls is rare. One of my female classmates is a back-end developer and is a standout in their project team.

The test group is also generally dominated by female students. So as far as the entire R&D line is concerned, there is almost a similar proportion of male and female students. However, few people talk about office love, and it is easy to break up and leave the company.

The male programmer around me also has other friends to help introduce me, and I find a girlfriend by adding friends.

Didn't you say that you rely on an annual salary of one million?

There is a high probability that the programmer will not be able to contact many girls after work, so it is better to use the best program ** to chase girls. Many girls don't understand this, when you use the program to write some small games, develop a small program for her, you can instantly capture the heart of the girl.

Programmers looking for girlfriends, can ask friends and relatives to help introduce, can also go to the blind date platform, these can be, if you are lucky, you can meet the person you like.

1. The criteria for choosing a mate should be in line with reality.

It is necessary to determine a more appropriate mate selection standard according to one's actual situation and requirements.

Don't overestimate your actual ability to bear it, and set too high standards for choosing a mate;

Don't look down on your own ability and quality, and set too low standards for choosing a mate.

In real life, why are some "leftover men" and "leftover women" unable to find a partner, and they worry about their other half every day?

In addition to some very rare special circumstances, the high standard of mate selection is also a reason that cannot be ignored.

When determining the criteria for choosing a mate, we should pay attention to five elements in order from high to low:

The first is the "three views"; the second is character; the third is family background; fourth, the ability to live independently; Fifth, appearance.

The first of these five aspects.

The second element is the most important, and the other three aspects can change positions with each other.

Second, you should pay more attention to yourself.

That is, you should pay more attention and observe more in your work and life, and take the initiative to find a girlfriend who meets your mate selection criteria.

When it comes to finding a partner, men should be active, enthusiastic, and active.

After discovering the other half of your heart, you should take the initiative to cast a peach at the right time.

As for whether the other party can repay one Li, it depends on fate and your charm.

For your life's events, you must be tempted, attentive, and attentive.

3. Ask others to help more.

It is to ask colleagues, friends or family members to pay more attention to the people they have contacted who meet their criteria for choosing a mate, and help them find a girlfriend.

Looking for a target is to investigate in many ways and choose the best of the best.

Make the most of all your human resources and ask colleagues, friends, or family members to help you introduce people to increase the success rate of finding a girlfriend.

Intentionally planting flowers and flowers will not succeed, and unintentionally planting them will become shady.

Sometimes an unintentional word, or an inadvertent thing, can make a beautiful marriage.

Although programmers are very busy, mental work intensity, may not be so handsome in appearance, there is a risk of premature baldness, and they may not have time to spend with their girlfriends, but their ability to create value, correct ordinary people to be stronger, more able to provide a rich material life, all the ideas are used in the development of programs, so there will not be so much effort to win safety, so turnip greens have their own love, there will be people who like the character of programmers, so what programmers want to do well is to do their jobs well, It is very easy to find a partner who can provide good material living conditions for the other half, and then be able to care for each other with all your heart.

Participate in social events more often, or check online to see if there are like-minded people of the opposite sex, if there is a common topic, it is easier to move the relationship forward.

Blind date is a good choice, you need to talk to your family, friends or colleagues, if you have the idea of a blind date, they will arrange it, but the general premise of the blind date is to get married, you say that you can do it, I don't know. If you go on a blind date to try love, it is recommended that you can explain to your family and blind date first, which is convenient for everyone to help you find a partner and give a blind date a bottom.

There are many ways to be introduced by colleagues, friends, blind dates, and many ways to join some groups by yourself.

I don't know the specifics!

Programmer is just a job, there should be more contact with the Internet, and the Internet and real life work together!

I think it's a bit far-fetched to say no. As the saying goes, time is like water in a sponge, if you squeeze it, there will always be. The key depends on whether the individual has the heart to find it.

In fact, programmers are usually very busy, so they can take advantage of the fact that the project is not very urgent, go to make friends or participate in blind date shows, etc., so that their lives will be enriched.

Of course, programmers also have time. There is personal time for any job, and it's up to you how you use it. I think the job as a programmer is still good, and the job pays a lot. Finding a girlfriend is certainly not a problem.

Does Yu Yuan have time to find a girlfriend? Programmers have time to find a girlfriend, because this is looking for a girlfriend, whether you are a programmer or not? Or is it something else, is it all a thing?

So the rain has nothing to do with finding a girlfriend, usually after going out to make some people and things, and also make a girlfriend, in general, there is no time, but I think you should create time to find a girlfriend, because this is a lifelong event of a person.

Of course, as long as you want to find it, there is time to find a girlfriend.

Programmers aren't actually that busy, but sometimes they spend a lot of time debugging.

Of course there is time. Work is work after all, and it can't replace love no matter what.

As long as the company is big enough, there are enough friends, and you are bold enough. There is no shortage of girlfriends. O&M, operations, products, customer service, and testing in the same company. There are a lot of young ladies.

There must be. It depends on how the time is arranged. No matter how busy you are at work, you must also distinguish between work and life, and you can't mix them.

The programmer's time is indeed a bit busy, but if you want to find a girlfriend, I don't think it will be delayed, as long as he can find a time, he can find a girlfriend.

After all, programmers are now paid so high, it's still easy to find a girlfriend, earn so much money, don't find a girlfriend, don't let your girlfriend spend, what do you earn him?

It's all up to you.

Functional positions are different, and not all programmers work 996 hours.