In marriage, some women have a very high status in their in laws family, what is the reason?

Why is the status of women getting higher and higher in the in-law's family, but I don't know why it is caused by these 3 reasons.

The reason is that such women are especially able to carry things clearly, they do not speak too much when dealing with things, and keep a good distance, so that their status is easy to increase.

I'm very good at dealing with people. Generally, women who will deal with others will not be low in status, taking care of everyone's feelings, so that the people in the in-laws are very admired.

A woman has a very high status in her in-law's family, generally this woman's family is more powerful, and her family has great prestige, so her in-laws respect her very much, or this woman herself is more capable, independent and does not rely on others, and her words are more weighty.

If the in-laws can't respect themselves, then they will definitely not be mad on the spot for the first time, so let's find the reason first.

One: Think about whether you have done something wrong.

There must be a reason why the mother-in-law is disrespectful to her daughter-in-law, and there are not many mothers-in-law who deliberately provoke trouble, most of them hope to be able to live a good life. But if you say that you didn't do anything wrong, it was deliberate, then it's another matter, and you're not easy to bully.

2: Patience first and respect for the elders for the first time.

If it's the first time, no matter how disrespectful you are, as long as you don't touch your bottom line, you can still bear it, after all, it's an elder, and you need to understand how you don't do it. If you say that you endure it once, and then you still do it later, then you must change your track and go crazy. Otherwise, the other party may think that you are a bully, and they are looking for your business every day, and they are very happy to watch you work, and they are busy before and after.

Three: Look at your husband's attitude.

The key to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to see whether his husband will deal with it, and a man with high emotional intelligence can handle the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, because he knows that his attitude determines the status of his wife. The big thing is that if your husband is also accusing you when you are wronged, then such a family can leave.

Therefore, when a woman is looking for a husband, she should also look at how the other party's family is, after all, she will have to deal with his family in the future, if the family is not good, then she must not have a good life in the future.

After a girl gets married, she has to marry into her in-law's family. I need to get along with my husband's family. When you can't get along with most of your husband's family, it's a very troublesome thing, because it's related to the foundation of a family's happiness, and we can think about and solve it from the following points?

First, we can't get along with most of my husband's family, we have to realize that different families have impure cultural values and lifestyles, and we can't ask others to respect them with our own standards, and understand each other's practices and ways of thinking, and learn to empathize. For example, I and my husband pay more attention to hygiene, but my husband's family may feel that it is not necessary to clean every day, so we can appropriately relax the requirements. In this way, the loss can get along with the husband's family.

Second, I can't get along with some of my husband's family. It is very important to learn to communicate and compromise communication between family members, not to let the problem remain lurking, and to solve it in a timely manner. Of course, when solving problems, we should pay attention to ways and means, try not to hurt the other party's self-esteem and emotions, and if the things you insist on are not very important to the family as a whole, you can compromise appropriately and make concessions to each other.

As the saying goes, take a step back and open the sky. In this way, you can get along with each other amicably.

Third, we should pay attention to the cultivation of emotions. The relationship with her husband's family needs to be cultivated slowly. In addition to getting along with each other, you can participate in more family activities and strengthen emotional ties, such as traveling together, watching movies, participating in sports dinners, etc., in these activities, you can take the opportunity to understand each other with your family, enhance your feelings, and find resonant things, so that you can get along with your husband's family.

In short, it is very common to not get along with your husband's family, but with the above suggestions, we can try to solve the problem from the aspects of respect and understanding, communication and compromise, emotional cultivation, etc.

After getting married, a woman with ability and emotional intelligence has a higher and higher status in her in-law's family.

In life, many women complain that her in-laws don't treat her after getting married, for example, some mothers-in-law don't respect her and call her around.

However, this is not the case for all people. After some women get married, her status in her in-laws' family becomes very high, and her parents-in-law respect her very much, and they have to ask her opinion on everything. I think that women who will have a higher and higher status in their in-laws' family are generally like this:

A woman who works well and can bring benefits to her in-laws' family will have a higher and higher status in her in-laws' family after she gets married. I believe that most people will value their daughter-in-law's ability to work and see if she can bring benefits to the family. For example, some mothers-in-law see that their daughter-in-law is lazy, and they don't feel anything after seeing their daughter-in-law and son get married.

This situation will make the mother-in-law angry, and such a situation will also make her disrespectful to her daughter-in-law. But if her daughter-in-law is very capable of working and can earn more money for the family, or if her daughter-in-law has a decent job. Such a daughter-in-law can bring face to her mother-in-law's family, and such a daughter-in-law's status in her mother-in-law's family will become higher and higher.

A woman with high emotional intelligence and the ability to handle all kinds of relationships will have a higher and higher status in her in-law's family after she gets married. Some women have high emotional intelligence, they are very good at handling various family relationships, for example, she can make her parents-in-law very happy, and she can also make her husband respect her and like her.

After such a woman enters marriage, she can make her in-laws like her, so her status in her in-law's family can also get higher and higher.

A powerful woman in her mother's family, after she gets married, her status in her in-law's family will become higher and higher. There is also a type of woman whose maiden family is very powerful, and no matter what happens, her maiden family will support her behind her back. Such a woman will generally be valued by her in-laws.

After marriage, if a woman has her own economic ** and has her own opinions, and has the support of her husband, her status in her in-law's family will become higher and higher.

The economy is also independent, the mind is independent, and she will not rely on men, her mother's family is too strong, and the status of a woman with a stable job will be higher and higher in her in-law's family.

After getting married, the husband has special respect for his wife, and can maintain his wife in the in-law's family, and such a woman's status in the in-law's family will become higher and higher.

First of all, it is an independent girl, and then it also includes a stable economic income, and there is a strong strength in all aspects, and then the three views are also more positive, and the ability is more outstanding, very honest, and does what she says.

I think it's a woman with high emotional intelligence. A person with high emotional intelligence can be recognized by others, and her status in her in-law's family will become higher and higher.

I think that after marriage, girls with strong work ability will have a higher and higher status in their in-laws' family, and these girls can create a certain value for the family. Therefore, the in-laws will also have special respect.

I think that a woman who is knowledgeable and respectful to the elderly will be more popular in her in-law's family, because all people like sensible women.

A woman who has principles and a bottom line, and knows how to respect and love herself, will have a higher and higher status in her in-law's family, and such a girl knows what kind of life she wants.

A woman who is independent and has her own bottom line will have a higher and higher status in her in-law's family, because such a woman can go up and down in the kitchen.

Very prosperous, and very respectful of her mother-in-law, a woman who treats her husband very intimately, and a woman with high emotional intelligence will have a higher and higher status in her mother-in-law's family.

A powerful woman behaves as follows in her in-laws' house:

1. Listen to your own ideas in doing things.

If a woman marries into an unhappy family, then her status must be very low, and whether she speaks or acts, she will consider the thoughts of her mother-in-law and husband, rather than acting according to her own wishes. But people who do things according to their own ideas and don't need to think too much about them should have a very high status in their in-laws' family.

2. Be financially independent and have the ability to live sufficiently.

A financially independent woman can truly have her own capital and confidence, and she will not be looked down upon by others at any time. Therefore, after getting married, it is best for a woman to maintain financial independence, and only by holding the money in her own hands can you have a real sense of security. You need to have your own job, have your own income**, and you don't have to reach out to men to ask for money, this is your dignity.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship

The mother-in-law is the mother of the husband. Traditionally, the mother-in-law was the highest status among the women in the family and had considerable power to decide on the distribution of household work, manage the household finances, and so on. The husband and wife's family have many economic and labor obligations to the mother-in-law's family, and the wife is a daughter-in-law with a lower status to the mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are prone to disputes. Such disputes** include differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in terms of age, experience, education, health, personality, habits, language, ethnicity, etc. In addition to personal factors, a large part of the dispute comes from the conflict between the in-laws and the couple's respective development goals.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a major issue in the family.