I m running away from her, he s running away from me, what should I do?

Someone has to take the initiative.

What should I do if I always want to escape from difficulties?

Turtles can't stop.

When I was in my second job, because of poor sales performance, I chose to resign, during which there was a job of customer service, but I chose to escape and resign because I was not happy with my colleagues in the company, in fact, the last customer service job, there was a teacher who planned to train me to be a lecturer, but I felt that I couldn't overcome my inner fear, I was worried that others would say irresponsible things, and finally chose to give up.

So before I always encountered problems or difficulties and wanted to escape, I didn't dare to face and solve, so I missed a lot of opportunities, and now I think about it a little regretful, but regret is irreparable, so I have been working in my current unit for more than three years, during which I also wanted to give up many times, but in the end I persevered, and I no longer escaped.

Slowly understand that you can't always run away from things, this time you don't know what to do, and the next time you encounter this kind of thing, you still don't know what to do, it's better to calm down and think about how to solve this problem, so that you can solve the same problem again. It's the same with people, sometimes when you meet someone you don't like, you just don't want to say a word to him, and you want to escape from the environment where you have him, but what you encounter in your future life must be what you like, the answer is obviously no, even if you don't like it, you should learn to understand this kind of person, to think about how to get along with this kind of person.

It's the same at work, because I don't get along well with my colleagues, the leader is not the leader I like, and there are all kinds of intrigues between colleagues, so I want to escape from this place as soon as possible, but the next place must make you completely satisfied, not necessarily, so it's better to learn to let yourself grow, adapt to the environment, and make yourself stronger under the premise of ensuring that you don't have a different flow of pollution.

We don't know what to do when we don't have any contact with a lot of things or work, for experienced people, we are always laymen, but everything has a first time, even if we do it wrong this time, we can find a solution from the mistake, and the mistake is not wasted, so I always feel that mistakes are sometimes opportunities for growth.

In the past two days, I have been reading Teacher Han Meimei's book "Never Look for Others to Have a Sense of Security", which also mentioned that no matter how difficult things are, they will pass, there is no need to escape, some things do their best to solve, if they really can't be solved, they will accept the facts. In it, Han Meimei also shared some of the characteristics that successful people have, and shared them with everyone:

Always escaping from things in real life, which will make people not like, try to change your current situation.

You can keep running, but think about what happens to you when you have no way out.

It is the instinct of living beings to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. But humans are primates, they can think, they can progress, and that's why humans are at the top of the food chain.

If you continue to run away, the result is either perish in the escape or explode in the escape. If you don't push yourself, God knows what you'll be capable of.

There is no shortcut to this problem, it is to learn to be brave, learn to face it, and increase the ability to solve problems.

In a word: strive to improve your courage to face life.