How to tell a friend tactfully that he is beyond his means?

It is recommended not to say anything that is beyond your strength, but to give him ideas and give some advice! Life is an experience, and you can't have a deep experience without experiencing something. I remember that the third uncle of the southern school said that if you have not really faced death together, when you are separated, you can't realize how much it feels like to say "the green mountains do not change, the green water flows forever, and there is a period of regret".

Many people know what it means, but only those who have experienced it know how painful it is. Even if you told him this time, he didn't do it. In the end, he will do something else because of his inability, even more serious than this one.

Euphemistic? It doesn't exist, it depends on whether your friend is the kind of person who listens to what he says, anyway, it's hard to persuade around me, and your question is too general, if you want to ask for advice, then you have to describe the problem clearly, 10,000 kinds of people have 10,000 ways to persuade them, 1,000 kinds of things have a thousand ways to do it, come up and say how to persuade? It is impossible for me to write you an answer that covers everything, only a targeted answer.

But I'll still give you a very stupid answer, that is, in the places he often goes, often sees, locations, signs out, "you can't", that's all.

Or choose not to tell him, only let him go his own way, and wait until he hits a wall he will turn back, if you tell in advance, even if the tone is tactful, it is not very good, it will make friends have a kind of illusion that you are not optimistic about him, some roads only know that "this road is not passable" only after they have walked it, and some things can only be understood by their own experience, and they cannot live forever in "heard" and "said".

It is advisable not to interrupt his self-esteem, no matter what you say, how tactful will he listen? It's better to let him fight on his own, maybe he knows his own inadequacy, or maybe he succeeds, or maybe he finds other ways, what you need to do is to give him some comfort when he or she fails.

He has his own things that he wants to challenge, as long as he does not violate the law, does not violate morality, and does not cause harm to others, why should he say that he is "beyond his means"......My personal rule of thumb when making friends is: don't interfere with ideas you don't really understand (as long as you don't touch the bottom line), and don't comment on them.

Perhaps, his judgment of himself may not be accurate. Demanding too much of yourself. I know that I can't do it, but I will try hard, or after a little time of running-in, I hope that I can have the ability to do it in the future.

Or, you know you can't do it, but you don't want to do it.

If it doesn't exist, don't persuade it, people are a little attached to their own ideas, and sometimes it's not good to experience the lesson in person. If it were my friend, I would support him to try it at a low cost first.

I don't think anyone else can understand this euphemism. It's too hurtful to say it directly. But it would be much clearer to put it bluntly. It's not all in a situation where you can't see through it.

Find a suitable time, calmly and unjudgmentally, tell him directly that his attitude makes you feel uncomfortable, the reasons and reasons for the discomfort, and communicate well. If it's a good friend, he'll accept your reminder.

Since he doesn't value you as a friend, why should you be wronged and must be friends with him. It's not bad to cut off contact.

Friend, you have to know that your friend perfunctory will make you hurt a lot, he will also perfunctory others to make others hurt, you have to find an opportunity, calmly tell him, you tell him that you can't be perfunctory like last time, give him reason, if he doesn't listen to your reasoning, you will get straight to the point.

Such friends can only be said to be friends in the real sense of the word, and true friends are affectionate.

Why should you be tactful when you are wronged, you directly express your feelings, tell the other party, not to hurt the other party, you don't need to be tactful, be brave.

This can't be considered a friend, real friends understand each other, help each other, and talk about everything

In fact, if you are a friend, you can tell the other party a little directly, I hope the other party is punctual, and if your friend is often unpunctual, tell the other party euphemistically, the other party will not care, only if you clearly express what you care, the other party will pay attention to it, and will get rid of the habit of not being punctual.

You just said, you still have something to do, and you will be busy later, if this friend knows in his heart, he should understand that you have been waiting for a long time.

Let's just say it, they're all friends anyway! If you are not familiar with the friend, you can politely say that you have something to do and are in a hurry to leave, etc., just find a reason and wait!

The euphemism lies in the art of speaking.

The humorous and polite words are as follows.

1.I bought you ice cream and it feels like it's getting better.

2.My little jio and I said, if you don't come again, maybe it wants to kick 3I have come from spring and summer, to autumn and winter, your face, I am ready to put it in my heart and wait.

Just say it's best. I also have this kind of friend who is used to grinding everything to do, and I can't stand it for a long time, and I can be half an hour late for the appointed time. The family has arrived, and she is still washing her hair at home unhurriedly.

You can just find a reason and say that I still have something to deal with, so I won't wait for you.

True friends should be in charge of whatever they say! Just tell him that the daylilies are cold, and there is nothing that can't be said between real friends.

I am a true friend, so you can tell him how you really feel.

Sometimes when you go for a walk, you don't want to move at all, you just want to walk quietly. But your friends may be chattering and talking. At this time, you keep quiet, and when your friend sees that you don't reply, he should understand that you don't want to talk.

And then he won't bother you.

It can be said that the two of us compete, go from here to **, don't speak, and see who can hold on. In a game-like way, it's appropriate. If you are a friend, just say it directly. Just say that I don't want to talk now, the ideal will accompany me quietly, and I'll talk to you later.

It is to be able to tell your friends that you are in a particularly bad mood, hoping that you can be quiet for a while, hoping that it can be by your side, and then as long as you say this, your friends should be able to understand their own meaning, and they will accompany themselves and say a few words to themselves when appropriate, to comfort themselves.

You can tell your friends that the surrounding scenery is so beautiful, let us quietly enjoy nature, listen to the sounds that belong to nature, I believe she will also feel this way, two people feel the beauty together, or wear headphones by yourself, so that friends feel that you can't hear her, and naturally it will be a quiet walk.

Sometimes you can tell him inadvertently: look at the person next to you, they have been walking silently, or we will try it too, see how this feeling is, I believe he may understand some of your meaning, after all, the two of you are already friends, she will understand your every move.

If my friend is too noisy, I will bring it up, and the two of them will walk separately, and I will tell him very calmly, let's go for our own walk, I want to listen to the song slowly. If it's your good friend, he'll listen to you.

I think this should be a manifestation of a person's unconscious psychological pressure. I'm like that sometimes, and I suddenly feel so depressed that I don't want to pay attention to anybody, and I feel like they're in a different world from me. However, it is important to adjust your mindset and try to communicate with your best friends when you feel that kind of mindset, so that you can solve your depression in time.

I think if it's a friend, you don't have to worry too much about it, you can tell your friend that I just want to be alone tonight, or you can tell your friend. I've been under a lot of pressure lately, but first I want to take a break and talk to you about it, okay?

It's useless to be tactful, it's more misleading to say it than to say it directly, since it's a friend, it's okay to point it directly, just don't go overboard.

Let's just say that I'm very busy right now, and I'll talk about it when I have time.

If it were me, I wouldn't talk about him, you said that he would only make him angry with you, and even think that you were jealous of him, so that the relationship between the two of you would go to the freezing point, it is better to let him hit the wall by himself, touch more, he will naturally know it himself, there are some things we can mention, but there are some things we better not touch.

For example, you tell him that you have not yet reached that level to strengthen something, and directly help him analyze the problem and tell him how to improve. Instead of saying that you can't do it right away, you might as well give up, it is much better to encourage him than to despise him.

As his friend, I don't think you should hit him directly, you can tell him in disguise that the challenge he faces is 1 huge, and he must be careful and fully prepared, in fact, this indirectly shows him that he has to consider his own ability to accept this challenge.

There are a lot of friends around, maybe they want to do something, but they are all fans of the authorities, and then you see it very clearly, at this time you need to remind your friends.

You can tell him how long do you think you can do something that even Jack Ma hasn't done, and it's better to spend your time on something meaningful.

I hate people like you, why do you use your own eyes to evaluate whether others are not self-sufficient?

Everyone has their own obsessive pursuit, when Jack Ma founded Alibaba, many people said to him, "You can't do it", but in the end, he still succeeded.

So, don't say this kind of frustrating thing to your friends, maybe you will kill a future richest man!

I think I want to find someone who wants to tell you tactfully that he doesn't know what to do. You can help him analyze how difficult it is for him to do something, and then analyze how strong his current ability is, and then you can tell him that this thing is impossible to succeed by euphemistically telling him.

I suggest that you don't tell him, don't influence others if you feel bad, don't let people see your cowardice, okay? Don't think you can't do it yourself, you have to mock others, what kind of heart do you have? Let him do it, not afraid of failure, afraid of not daring to do it, just like you, understand?

Don't try to tell the other person. This is wrong.

No one is perfect, and everyone has some shortcomings that they don't know, including ourselves.

The requirements of today's society for how to look at people and things are: see through it and not break it!

Since he is your friend, you must know his shortcomings, just as he knows your shortcomings, what you can do is to enter your own efforts to influence him in your own way, so that the other party gradually improves! Rather than a direct verbal inform.

Hope it works for you!

We may not be as good as others, but we can try!