In today s normal society, we must remember a few pieces of advice for women

Facing up to the real situation of women, how high are the requirements for women in modern society? I think that modern society has too high requirements for women, and modern society requires women to be all-round womenThe reason why I think that modern society has high requirements for women is because women must be all-round women in the social environment in order to gain a firm foothold in society. What is an all-round woman is to have excellent grades when studying, to compete when looking for a job, and to be born after marriage, and even to be required to have two or three children.

And during this period, they even have to realize their self-worth.

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Modern society requires women to balance their careers and families, which is really too hard. Some people may say, then you give up one and become a stay-at-home mom or a working woman. But who wants to be looked down upon by the whole society in front of a stay-at-home mother.

And being a full-time working woman is bound to be said by her family that she doesn't love her children. So in order to balance the role of a mother and the role of work, modern women must be all-encompassing, and their daily workload and hardship are not comparable to men.

Modern society is more harsh on women who have dreams and want to succeed, because society requires women to work harder if they want to succeed, which is a harder road than men. Because women's success may be tied up by childbirth, family and other things, so to succeed, they must be prepared to work harder, and they cannot succeed if they can't endure hardship.

Modern society has extremely high requirements for women, including having a formal job, having an independent economy**, being able to control the balance between family and work, and being able to maintain the relationship between relatives and so on.

It is very high, and it is very demanding not only for women to be good in their careers, but also for taking care of their families.

I don't think it's very demanding, because many professions have preferential treatment for women, and there are even many professions that only recruit women.

It is very important for society to affirm that the lack of wheels is to promote the development of culture and economy. There are some unique qualities of a woman that make her important in some areas.

In terms of family, not only the economic and behavioral foundation has been improved, women have their own unique careers, and they are often more confident, and it is undeniable that a large number of independent women's families are happier and more harmonious!

The embodiment of self-worth, independence, and struggle at the individual level make women more proud and beautiful. The perception of life is also more open-minded and cheerful!

The social value of a woman is greater than her biological value.

Whether it's a female star or an ordinary woman, in the final analysis, your value lies in social value rather than physiological value.

For example, Da S, if she was just a vase, the Wang family would not choose her, even if she was 10 times more beautiful, it would be useless.

The simple white beauty is much more beautiful, and it is not so easy to marry a little better, let alone a wealthy family.

For example, if Guo Jingjing is not a world champion and a well-known sports star, can she enter the family? Guo Jinyi's family also relies on his own social value.

Physiological value (young and pretty) is worthless, because of the high substitutability. But social value is irreplaceable, irreplaceable means value!

That is, in the final analysis, no matter what class you come from, women have to work hard, work hard, the higher your social value, the stronger the irreplaceability, the more calm you live!

Of course, if you can't use your brains to develop every relationship, you can at least ensure that your hard work will not be wasted.

There are not a few women who can live their own lives in the history of our country, in the traditional sense, Wu Zetian, who has the highest status, and the lowest famous prostitutes, such as: Sai Jinhua.

Women with their own unique ideology, whether they are in the noble royal family or the poor people at the bottom, can live the life they want through their own abilities.

Women are physiologically inferior to men, since ancient times, women are dependent on men and exist, the meaning of a family is nothing more than to have children, take care of housework, and then try to get male love, which has become the meaning of women's existence in society.

In today's new era, although we advocate equality between men and women, may I ask, is it really equal? Whether it is a big city or a small ravine, the idea of patriarchy has always been deeply rooted in everyone's body, and women are in the position of a disadvantaged group whether they are at home or at work. If there really were no such prejudices in society, there would be no such calls for respect and concern for women and for equality between men and women today.

You can think about it again, why is there a Women's Day and no Women's Day?

From the conception of a baby, the first thing everyone wants to know is the gender of the child, and women who are okay like to judge the sex of the child by her posture, the position of the pregnancy, and the post-pregnancy reaction around a pregnant woman. Many people spend thousands of miles to find miracle doctors to diagnose and determine men and women. There are even people who know the sex of the baby through some channels, and go to the hospital for labor induction because they do not achieve the desired results.

Bright red and cruel data show that most of the genders are female, except for the unhealthy.

When a child gives birth, most of the family, including the mother-in-law who has been a woman and has experienced childbirth, is only concerned about the gender and health of the baby. As for the mother, it doesn't seem to have much to do with her. When the child's gender was revealed, the family's reaction was another big show.

If it's a boy, the whole family will be happy, and if it's a girl, look! Although I don't say it, I can see the sense of loss in my heart at a glance. The mother-in-law said that she is old and in poor health, and the child is still taken care of by yourself by yourself.

The father-in-law stopped talking right now, pretending to be happy, angry and not good-looking, forget it, don't say anything!

It is said that women should be embarrassed by women. But in fact, if you don't embarrass me, I'll embarrass you. The most difficult thing for women is the first few years after giving birth. It is a blessing to meet your in-laws who know that you love you. If you can't meet it, you can only suffer by yourself!

Therefore, women, if they want to be themselves in such a realistic society and stand on their heels, they have to be ruthless. Only when you become stronger, those things will become nothing, and those who once looked at you coldly will no longer be your stumbling block. Who is the most loved and respected person in the world?

Is it weak? No, on the contrary, it is the strong, the strong will always be attached to the weak, in order to be attached to you, to get the benefits he wants from you, he will definitely respect you at any cost and care for you.

What is the presence of women in society? There is no answer, only as a woman, you define yourself, and your life is up to you.