How can I make myself heartless?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-20
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! No one can change it! It may be that the ever-accelerating pace of work or life has brought you great mental pressure, feeling psychological troubles, and need to be adjusted.

    Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries. How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

    Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

    5 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

    15 minutes, and after that, you'll feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

    You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

    You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly. You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is easy to restrain oneself in the mind, to become cold-blooded, first of all, to become quiet and not communicate with others....Let them know that you are quiet and difficult to approach....And finally.

    Turning a blind eye to everything.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The so-called heartless person is a person who is very generous and doesn't care about anything, such a person has a very good personality, no heart and no lungs, not to say stupid, no scheming, but he doesn't put all his energy on this, he looks down on it, and he doesn't take it to heart. Such people are happy. Why don't you have a heart and lungs, just don't be too truth-seeking in everything?.

    What has been lost, what grieves oneself, what gain has one been lost? , don't let it affect your emotions too much, don't take any fame, fortune, money, and emotions too seriously, and don't let him affect yourself in particular. In short, happiness is the most important thing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Living is not an easy thing to do, if you want to live a little easier, you don't need to be heartless. Heartlessness is just a kind of naivety and innocence, if you want to live an easier life, you just need to change your perspective on everything, but you must know that your personality is not like that, even if you become heartless, life will not be easy, but harder.

    First of all, we must have the courage to fly against the wind and dance the wonderful life.

    To improve quality and cultivate a firm will, we must have the confidence to dare to face it.

    Not afraid of difficulties, ideal analysis, good at planning, and have the morale to move towards the peak of vitality.

    Use wisdom to "lift" the weight of work, wipe the heart, and have an aura of worrying about the revolution.

    Be the master of your own emotions, and be domineering at your own expense.

    Because for us under normal circumstances, there will be a little bit of discrimination, but we still need to experience this happiness with our hearts, and if we always treat others or ourselves with a discriminating mind, then we will make ourselves unfair, so you need to learn this process yourself.

    Personally, I don't think there are perfect people in this world, at least I have grown up so big and there is no one I have come into contact with who can be perfect, as for how easy it is to be a man, first of all, I want to tell you, you need to baptize your own mind, how to wash yourself, some with **, some with books, etc., find a relaxed environment, let yourself relax, think about your previous things, what should be done and what should not be done, what should be said and what should not be said, you will know, Otherwise, just find a place **It's very expensive!

    It's a matter of nature to make yourself as relaxed as possible. Don't care too much about what others think, just say whatever you want.

    Kind and sincere, not hesitating to smile when facing others, willing to help others, and some thoughtful gestures often move the other party...But remember not to change yourself in order to cater to others, how can you bring happiness to others if you are unhappy...

    People have emotions at all times. Love and hate, both are emotions. The monks said that the four major ones are empty, but there are Buddhas who laugh with flowers and purify sentient beings, these are also a kind of emotions.

    Therefore, if you really want to do without any emotion, you can only enter a realm of unity between nature and man. To put it simply. If you want to be convenient, you commit suicide, then there is no emotion.

    If you don't want to die, reading more of the Tao Te Ching may help you.

    If you don't have a sure choice, you should know that you are doomed to be hurt. Forgetting is the stupidest decision. Even if.

    Time has diluted everything. Someday, someone or something will touch your deepest memories. Forget to use it..?

    A person's life·· It's not easy to remember a few people.、Instead of thinking about how to forget.,It's better to think about how to remember whatever he brought to you.。。 But he's always in your memory.

    Walk more, see more, want to open a little, like me, I haven't even found the meaning of life, but I have been trying to find, when you find the meaning of life, you will find that all this is still quite good.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How to do it without heart and lungs. When you ask such questions, do you mean that you can't do it? Just think about it, how can a normal person be heartless? That's when you should think about it.

    Syllogism Premise: What is Heartlessness?

    Small premise: Heartless and lungless is a walking dead with only skin. And you have all the organs, and the conclusion: you can't be a heartless person, and you can't do it in your life.

    All you need is to take some things lightly and see them through. Sometimes when you're really bored, then it doesn't matter. My dear.

    Are you sad, worried, afraid, angry about something? You are helpless, you don't know how to deal with it, so you want to make yourself indifferent to everything, to be a heartless person, but some people, some words, some things, you still care a lot, you don't know how to change. So you give up and get frustrated.

    Are these all unnecessary to know? You try to face those problems head-on, otherwise you will take them seriously. And even if I say more, it won't help you, and maybe you can face yourself.

    This is a knot in the heart, sometimes, you need to solve it yourself, and I can only do the role of guidanceI can't make a decision for you, my dear, you have to face everything on your own, understand everything, and the people around you who need to care about you, bosom friends, take you out of such shadows.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, people will have one thing that they are unhappy about, but they can find happiness from it. How do you make yourself heartless? Why do you fill yourself with pain in the whole process of life?

    Being happy is not for others, it is for yourself, happy and unhappy, the same day, but the result is not the same. One thing that has always been happy is more than one thing that is unhappy, why not allow yourself to have more happy days! Every day I will fight or fight for a happy life.

    Take difficulties as a tempering, and the ability to solve difficulties is lower than the ability to work on one's own work, and there will be difficulties! Is it good to have no heart and no lungs? In our ability to work across difficulties, there will be no difficulties!

    Hence the continuous self-awareness, "system upgrade"! Some difficulties are impossible to get rid of, so be sure to deal with them appropriately, have a healthy state of mind, and take a proactive view of daily life! Life is a continuous summary, keep beating, keep moving forward!

    No one is wiser than the other, only who is better at summarizing the mistakes of himself and others, so that he does not make the same mistakes as himself and others. "Only by seriously summarizing the past can people be stronger to glory. "Physically and mentally healthy and happy life, study and training, work.

    Happiness and wealth must be created by everyone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's my practice to be in the middle of it and look at it coldly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    But what I want to ask is, how to make yourself grow a little heart and lungs! Why are people so different? Don't care about anything, forget what you've done, don't listen to others. You can do what you want, and move forward one by one. That's what I'm like.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In the face of the pressure that life brings to you all the time, having no heart and lungs can make you very confident! But love can't be done with the same attitude! Because that will make people develop a mentality of not caring about the other person, and eventually evolve into a flower heart...

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    That's not something ordinary people can do, in fact, such people are caused by social injustice! For example, they encounter something in society that fills their hearts with hatred, they want revenge, and they are overwhelmed by hatred, so they will do something unimaginable!) In fact, this is not called heartless!

    At least they know revenge! So no one can do it! Those who kill people without blinking and those criminals, they do it for a reason, it shows that they still have a heart!

    People's hearts are kind, and if you can ask such a question, it means that you still have a heart, and you haven't done it yet!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Generally, it is difficult to do it by yourself, because it is very difficult for a person to pluck his heart and lungs at the same time, and if he picks his lungs first, he will soon lose his vital characteristics and will not have the strength to pluck his heart.

    In the same way, when the heart is gone, it hangs faster.

    Or wait until artificial intelligence develops to a certain extent, and it should be possible to set the degree of the robot.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, how do you do it without a heart? It's too tiring to consider other people's feelings, and it's physically and mentally exhausted during this time, people who have no heart and lungs will never have no heart and lungs, and people who help people will never be able to let go of things, don't be difficult for yourself, when you worry about others, you must remember to treat yourself first, as long as you are healthy, you can help more people, I wish you all the best! Always healthy and happy

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