How do you keep yourself from hating someone?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-27
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hatred arises from the heart, try to open your mind, accept some things that you think are bad, the world is not because of a certain person, learn to be tolerant, appreciate others more, find more advantages in others, you can also learn a lot, and this kind of life is also beautiful, you will find yourself a lot happier

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The mood of loving a person and hating a person is not the same, what is the benefit of hating a person for you, and what is the harm of a person you suspect and hate, you must learn to let go, don't often think about the disadvantages of the other party, but also think about his benefits, learn to be tolerant of others, maybe he hurts you and has no bitterness, use love to tolerate these unbeautiful things, I believe that others will also appreciate your tolerance!

    Remember, there is pity for those who hate them. So understand that he is just a poor man...And hating him will only remind you of those bad pasts over and over again, so let it go and forget it....Think about something happy, or keep yourself busy, you don't have time to think about it, and after a long time, you will forget it, and you won't hate it anymore....

    Time will slowly make you forget the hatred of a person.

    Time also allows you to be thankful for the people you once hated.

    It's those people who teach you a lot.

    When you fall in love with another person.

    1. Fall in love with him.

    2. Forget him.

    3. Fall in love with another person.

    It depends on a person's state of mind. His mindset leads to his actions.

    If you don't want it, you don't want it, and if you don't hate, you don't hate. But it is not easy to completely eradicate it from the heart.

    Therefore, it must be able to hold it and put it down. Do as you want. Everything depends on your own mentality.

    Hate will only increase your troubles, but it will not change anything, the greatest virtue in life is forgiveness, and forgiving others is also liberating oneself.

    Tolerate others, understand others, people are selfish. Everything is for the sake of Sui Huaikai's own or family's court.

    Everyone should be like that.

    I think you would too, so why hate others.

    1.It's hard to say.

    2.Don't try to make contact.

    3.The more you want to forget, the harder it is to forget.

    4.You can take a look at inspirational books, humorous books, etc. to adjust your mentality.

    As long as you think you're doing the right thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, how can you make someone hate you? There are many ways to make someone hate you: such as cheating on his feelings, speaking ill of him in front of his friends, tricking him into marrying you, and cuckolding him later......There are many ways to make a person hate you to the core, but I hope you don't do that, it's harder to make someone hate you than to make someone love you!

    Moral kidnapping of others, when standing on the commanding heights, is like a person who can't wake up, no one can wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and this person is not without morality, not with distorted views, but just insisting on his stubborn dignity, no one will be willing to admit mistakes. Don't argue with people, because you can never change a person unless the person is willing to be changed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The practice of eliminating hatred towards a person:

    1. Shift your attention, focus your attention on what you like, and don't let hatred blind you;

    2. Use time to slowly forget, time will dilute everything;

    3. Go to the gym, vent your emotions on the sandbag, and put aside all the unhappy things;

    4. Delete all memories of the person you hate, and no longer recall;

    5. Find a loved one and use the love of the lover to slowly eliminate the hatred for a person.

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