It s very tiring to think about it, and my husband can t make money? 10

Your husband doesn't earn enough money to use, you say he is incapacitated, he has no physical strength?It's annoying.

2.Now the cost of living is large, and there must be difficulties in life, but I don't understand that I still owe a lot of money

3.Although your husband can't make so much money, I admire you and still love your husband. Coarse tea and light rice, diligent and thrifty, husband and wife live a plain and warm life.

If you really think that your husband is incapable, his body is only average, he still owes a lot of money, and he really often has no money, then you should divorce him.

The basic condition for two people to be together is the basic attitude, the same attitude towards money and life, so I think you can consider divorce. My husband is a local rural village, and in the eyes of outsiders, it is me, a foreign daughter-in-law, who climbed the high branches, and when I returned to my hometown, I married a city person.

His income is estimated to be problematic even with his own expenses, and his academic qualifications are really hard to lose!I worked on my own and now I'm doing interior design and decoration, which is kind of freelance.

Now we have a car and a house, and my income has always been the main source of the family!But many times I feel really tired, I feel that I can't see hope, maybe I am too demanding, but this society is like this, if you want to live a better life, you can't work hard, your children have to go to school, your car has to be refueled, and you have to support your family!From simple to luxurious, from luxury to simple difficult!

Several brothers around my husband have left, in fact, they are all caused by money, and the woman feels that life is too depressing (poor), in my heart I have been independent since I was a child, I just earn it by myself!Hey, I still feel tired after a long time, but in fact, I still have complaints about my husband in my heart, and I don't want you to be blessed.

It's expensive, at least it should be able to maintain the family's current basic life!Don't talk about being well-off, if I don't work, our family's life will be greatly reduced!I've talked to him many times, and I actually know that it hurts my self-esteem, but he seems to have a weak heart ......Still as indifferent as ever!

will also refute me and say, if you have the ability, you go to the ...... who has the abilityMaybe I really should go to like-minded people!But look at the lovely son, I feel uneasy!Poor people are not worthy of talking about feelings, they are past the age of love and not bread!

It is said that men will become bad when they are rich, maybe, the reason why my husband is honest now is actually because he can't make money, really, I really hope that he will become ...... if he is developed and bad

It's already like this, and it's really hard to get into such a family. If it weren't for the child, it would be better to leave and pull it down. But if you have a child, you can save some of your own money, and if it's not enough, let your husband figure it out by himself, and if you can't do it, you can go back to your parents' house to live for a while, and some people don't force him to do it.

As for the in-laws, don't expect to change, just treat them as your nominal in-laws, which sounds a little inappropriate, but others are not something you can't understand. To put it bluntly, such a family can only be independent on its own. If you have the conditions to let go of your child, try to go out to work, but if you can't let go, there is really no good way.

There are actually quite a few such families.

There are many parents in the world, there will always be some strange fathers, to be honest, such parents are very headaches and tired, but there is no way, who makes him the husband's parents, he can't ignore it, so I want to open a little, my husband has done his best to earn money, don't complain anymore, it will only increase the pressure on the husband, one day I can't stand it, it will collapse, and the pressure will be even greater at that time, so it's good to be safe, healthy, and harmonious.

You can't take him if you have the ability, you don't like it if you don't have the ability, so people want to meet, I have a husband who can make money, but often quarrel and finally divorce, and now I just want to find a good me, good temper.

People are more popular than people, I envy that woman when you ask questions, everyone's life is different, your husband can't make money, you can do it, others say that your husband is blessed, find such a capable wife. You can't afford to find a husband who can't make money, that is, you didn't have vision before! Now that we're together, don't blame your husband!

Two people can live a quiet life when they work together and work together.

There is no perfection, they are all chosen by themselves, if you love him, it will be over, and if you are tired, you want to end it, and you have to think about it yourself, life is very helpless. Except for being able to rely on himself, no one else can believe it, and no matter how great the kindness is, it is only temporary.

In fact, it's quite helpless to meet this kind of in-laws, and your husband will just do it.

Summary. Hello, I'm sad to see this information. There are generally a few options:

1.Work on your own to earn money. In this way, you can not only improve your abilities in all aspects, but also improve your quality of life.

2.Don't have too many requirements for your husband, you can earn a little is a little, and you can spend the money at home. In this way, too many quarrels are avoided and affect the relationship.

3.If you are sure enough about yourself, you can choose to leave for a while.

Hello, I'm sad to see this information. There are usually several options:1

Work on your own to earn money. In this way, you can not only improve your abilities in all aspects, but also improve your quality of life. 2.

Don't have too many requirements for your husband, you can earn a little is a little, and you can spend the money at home. In this way, too many quarrels are avoided and affect the relationship. 3.

If you are sure enough about yourself, you can choose to leave for a while.

My dear, life is full of ups and downs. Now your husband is earning less, that is, he does not meet your expectations, or is he not able to make money?

It's a very interesting thing. Look for yourself and talk about the diligence of the Chinese. But this diligence does not use wisdom.

Diligence does not use other people. Wait. See for yourself what you need to do to be a boss.

It's not just my subordinates who have done it. You can do other more important things yourself. And many, many more.

Successful men are sculpted by smart women, and the process of sculpture will encounter a lot of unhappiness and frustration, the key depends on what you think!

Are you distressed or are you complaining about him?

There are several possibilities for not making money after working hard:

1. Lack of ability and experience;

2. Bad luck, there is no most suitable platform for his development;

3. I don't know how to be flexible and miss the opportunity to make money;

4. You expect too much from him.

You and your husband can find a side hustle, so that the family will have an extra income and a better life, and you must spend money carefully.

For such cases, there is an option to lower the standard of living, and both spouses need to work hard to earn money.

Summary. Good evening, dear, do you mean that your husband doesn't make much money? In fact, the two of you can have a good discussion, one inside the Lord and one outside the Lord.

Good evening, dear, do you mean that your husband doesn't make much money? In fact, the two of you can have a good discussion, one inside the Lord and one outside the Lord.

If you think you are more capable, you can choose the main business and let your husband share more of the family's affairs, after all, a family always needs expenses.

I've been separated for seven years of marriage, and because I earn more than him, I've been working, but I can't stand the tiredness of working every day, and I hope to have a support.

I can't hold on anymore, I live like a single parent.

Dear, are you separated because you work in a foreign country? Indeed, when I come home from hard work, I must hope that someone can warm me and encourage myself, and even when I get home, I can hear each other's voices and see that the other party has cooked a meal for me, maybe this is more like a home.

However, the reality is not so rosy, a family needs to spend and has various burdens, so it is not so wishful. In fact, when you want to be understood, you can also think from the other party's point of view, the other party has done everything well at home, including the education of children and the care of the elderly. It's not easy for everyone.

You are really sad now, from your point of view, you are also very tired and hard, I feel that no other woman is happy, and your current emotions really need to be vented.

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Said, "Men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", women are most afraid of marrying the wrong man, the meaning of this sentence is very wide, such as the subject said that in this case, men are diligent before marriage, lazy after marriage, have no sense of responsibility, no responsibility, the heart is higher than the sky, always all kinds of unrealistic fantasies, mouth and feet do not move, hands do not move, lazy to do ......If this is the case, it will be miserable.

In this case, women need to be self-reliant, they need certain means, if they don't have children yet, it is recommended to leave him, and they must be decisive, they can't drag the mud and water, they want to go and don't want to go, or they are soft with two nice words. Of course, the way husband and wife usually get along, when such a thing first happens, the woman must first understand what kind of thinking her husband has, communicate with her, and then prescribe the right medicine, what he is most afraid of, stab the knife in the place he is most afraid of, and it must be accurate and ruthless. It is best to give him a certain amount of pressure at the same time, from the side to assist him, to help him regain the confidence of work, after he takes the first step, in addition to encouraging him, giving him confidence, you also need to give him a certain amount of pressure, these methods are not effective, the last step is to leave him decisively.

Because if you continue to get along, you won't have a good life, and the long pain is better than the short .........

If you have a child, then the situation is worse, women need to be more self-reliant, women themselves need to be strong, have their own careers, have their own income, let him have an unattainable touch, if he has changed, then forgive him, if there is no change, then there is no need to waste time on him, on the contrary, he will have nothing after leaving you, nothing is good, and you yourself become strong, the loss will be very small, because you are self-reliant?

Please first understand that a sense of responsibility and making money are completely different things, since you dislike your husband for not making money, what age will you return.

If you can't do it, don't complain about what's wrong with your husband, now the society is very free, marriage is free, divorce is free, and you can decide at will.

Leave early, don't hurt the child, because I'm a victim

If you don't have anything to worry about, leave quickly.

Divorce, he has no sense of responsibility for you, and you will be the one who suffers.

Are you better off if you're divorced? If you don't have to look forward to it, you can't leave.

If a man is poor, temperamental, moneyless and willful. Then I think divorce is the best option, if a man is aggressive, I feel that two people can work together to improve their lives now.

You first have to understand that the money you earn is not only for their family, but also for yourself, and you will continue to make money in the process.

2. Reduce the time in the existing negative energy environment. With more money, more overtime and more business trips, you will have to spend less time at home, and it just so happens that you don't have children now, and you don't have any psychological expectations to stay at home longer, you can use the career as a fair and honest reason to keep you away from the family environment that is now making you depressed.

Secondly, when you have a certain strength in your career, and at the same time, you have a relationship and then leave the existing family. The last days are your own, the future is also your own, and whether you live well or not is your own. Other people's opinions are just a matter of putting pen to paper, touching the skin up and down, and you have to make your own decisions and actions.

You should encourage your husband and give him spiritual support.

Wake him up. No one will be incapable of making money, it depends on whether he wants to make money or not, a disabled person knows how to do his best to make money, how can he say that he is incapable of making money with his hands and feet?

Let him improve himself, learn more skills, and you also have to work hard, and the two of you can earn money together.

You also work hard to earn money yourself, a family depends on the joint efforts of two people.

Divorce can't give the rest of your life to a failed man.

As a man, except for the fact that he has no ability to earn money because of physical reasons, it is understandable, and everything else is not an excuse not to work to make money! Have a serious talk to your husband about this.

Then you go to make money and take the role of a man to support your family.

He doesn't have the ability to make money, don't you just have it?

If you work hard to earn money, a woman can also earn money to support her family!

First, control his spending.

If your husband doesn't earn money, then it means that he has no money himself, and his expenses come out of your salary. Then, you have to control his expenses well, so that he knows what it feels like to have no money to spend if he doesn't earn money. A family, old and young, needs to spend money on everything, everywhere, just rely on a woman to earn that little money to maintain the expenses of a big family, but when she returns home, she has to endure the bad temper husband who doesn't make money, I think, no matter how beautiful and powerful a woman is, she will not be able to bear it.

For such a husband, you have no obligation to get used to him at all, you are husband and wife, not mother and son, even if it is a mother and son, when the child is older, you need to support yourself and honor your parents. "Governing" him starts with controlling his spending.

Second, unite with your family to urge him to do his best.

Sometimes one person's inertia cannot be changed by relying on another person alone, at least the process of change must be very, very difficult. Since your husband is married to you, he is still lazy, does not go out to earn money, and has a bad temper, which is not a habit developed in a day or two, so the process of correction must be very difficult. You might as well make an appointment with your in-laws, your children, and change your lazy husband together.

Keep urging him, "educate" him, so that he can hear these things no matter where he is, he will feel annoyed at first, but after a long time, he will generally think about this matter. It is said that a big man, wherever he goes, is said to eat his wife's soft rice, which is not good, isn't it?

Third, agree on the "division of labor" of the family with him.

Don't want to go out and earn money? Okay, then the husband and wife divide the labor and do their own work. You have your job, then, leave the rest to your husband.

Housework, laundry, cooking, mopping the floor, grocery shopping, taking care of the children, serving their parents, personal contacts, etc., are all left to your husband. In other words, this set of survival is also busy enough, for a big man, it is better to earn money outside. Then, if he objected, he would ask him to go out and earn money and pay his salary on time every month.

Your roles will be reversed, inside you and outside of you. If he agrees, then he must do it well, if he is cheating and cheating, then he can't get used to it, either re-divide the labor, or ask him to do what he should bear without going out to earn money.