What would a truly sensible person say to a breastfeeding mother?

A person who is really sensible will not say something to blame the mother when the baby is injured or sick. The mother's concern for the child is meticulous, but it is inevitable that she will be negligent, but a reasonable person will not blame, he knows that it is not easy to be a mother.

I won't say: When are you going to have the next child? I was born and got out of bed the next day to do things! Why are you so hypocritical! Isn't it painful, everyone will experience it, but you are the only one who can't stand it?

The first point is that you will never say anything like a lactating mother who says that you are really too stupid to even bring a child, and the second thing that you will never say is that you will not take a child at all, and you are lazy every day, and you will not say this about your mother.

1. Complaints.

Don't complain about God's injustice all over the world when you encounter a little thing. It's okay to whine occasionally, but you can't complain all day. It is useless to understand that complaining is useless, complaining about one day is far less rewarding than working hard for a while.

So, go for it! Turn all complaints and dissatisfaction into motivation and show others how powerful they are.

It's better to laugh than to complain.

2. Nonsense. Some people love to think crankily when they encounter things, and the more they think about it, the more sad they become, and under the control of this pessimism, it is easy to say some nonsense without thinking. These words may just be venting, but for the listener, they can have a huge impact. The best way to solve problems is to quickly find the problem and then solve the problem.

It's better to review than to talk nonsense.

3. Gossip. When someone sees the people around him achieving good results and success, they start to talk about it, and even say some sarcastic things, and everyone has a problem in his eyes. Such a person cannot focus on his own career, and will focus all his energy on paying attention to the every move of others, and it is himself who will be hurt in the end.

It's better to gossip than to do more.

4. Crazy talk. Many people can easily lose themselves in success, applause, flowers, compliments, ......Since you can succeed, it means that you are excellent, but you can't lose yourself because of some flattering words, let alone crazy words. "There is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the world", the real master has always been quiet. Smart people know how to restrain their light.

It's better to introspect than to talk crazy.

Why are you so useless. You can't do this little thing, what else can you do? It's your own reason.

People who are truly capable will never say how great they are, nor will they suppress others, say anything nasty, and most importantly, they will never say anything unrealistic.

For example, this kind of thing is wrapped up in me, that person is not capable, and this kind of problem has nothing to do with me.

People who are really capable will not say big things, nor will they say bad things about others, nor will they say things that harm themselves.

People who are really capable will never say that they are very good, they can't do it, and they won't help you.

For people who are really capable, they will never say these three things. The first is wild talk, the second is big talk, and the third is a lie.

A truly cultured person, the following three things he will never say. 1. Don't take into account the feelings of others and don't say things that hurt the other person's self-esteem. Second, it is unrealistic, and the lies of the heavens and the earth will not be said. 3. Arrogant and self-righteous will not be said.

Negative energy words will not be spoken, because many times they will easily belittle themselves when they say such things, and they will not deliberately slander others in life, and it will be easy to leave a very bad impression on others when they say such things, and they will also appear to be very uneducated.

Abusive, sarcastic, cultured people don't use abusive ways to solve problems, while sarcasm is one of the manifestations of jealousy, and cultured people don't vent their emotions like this.

I won't say bad things about others behind my back, I won't say nosy, and I won't say anything that belittles the strength of others. I won't say something in public that makes others very embarrassed, and I won't probe into the privacy that others don't want to say.

I don't swear, I don't say anything funny, I don't mock others, I don't mock them. And I won't make some very excessive jokes with people I don't know.