When you pretend not to care, do you actually care?

Find out the source of the problem and try to avoid it.

It is normal for everyone to have a reverie in their lives. Don't worry too much.

You can change the environment and find something to do that appeals to you. Distraction.

The shy roses, the quiet and pretty blooms, what is the situation? If you like it, please say it out loud!

But there are indeed some people in life who like it very much, but they have to pretend that they don't care, why is this?

There may be several reasons for this.

Self-protective.

I have a crush on you, I'm afraid that once I say it, I'll be embarrassed to be embarrassed by each other, and I can't get along like I used to, and I'm afraid of being discovered by you, so the more I like you, the more I have to pretend not to care; Or have strong self-esteem, good face, and are afraid that they will be laughed at if they like it, so they have to pretend not to care.

Rational and affectionate.

Maybe he understands that not all likes can be fruitful. Some boys are not particularly good, they may feel that they are not good enough to be worthy of you, they are afraid that they can't give you a better future, but they like you too much, and it is enough to see you from afar, so why let you know that it's just like that, just pretend not to care.

There is also a kind of person who knows that it may be the wrong time for you, and he is the wrong person, so put this love in a corner of his heart, but he is afraid that his secret will be accidentally discovered and cause all kinds of misunderstandings and hurt you, so he must pretend not to care.

Tsundere jealous type.

Don't think that only girls are jealous, some boys often lose their minds in front of the people they like and become jealous, because tsundere, in order to hide their likes and cares, they will also pretend to be chic and pretend not to care.

Sullen and childish type.

This kind of boy is the cutest thing! It makes people feel angry and funny.

When you talk to him about something, he pretends to be careless or pretends not to hear, but in fact, you hear every word clearly, and you keep everything you explain in mind, and from time to time give you some surprises, some surprises.

Sometimes he deliberately disagrees with you, often hurts you, makes you anxious, makes you angry, and looks at your awkward appearance, he likes it even more, he doesn't say it, he doesn't care on the surface, but he is actually secretly happy in his heart.

Sometimes when you buy something you like, you pretend to buy it for fear that you care too much, and you can keep it if you like it! When you see the happy appearance of the things you like, he is really sorry for the sullen little look.

Hope it helps.

I think I cared at first, but pretending that I didn't care, over time, it may be that I haven't paid much attention for a long time, or it may be a habit, and as time goes by, I don't care about the feeling I used to have.

It's that you obviously care a lot, pretending that you don't care. After a long time, until the end, if you keep pretending not to care, you really don't care. For example, if you are not confident, you want to pretend to be confident, and you keep pretending to be confident, and in the end, you are really confident.

1, some people, obviously miss but pretend not to care, obviously care but don't contact, obviously want to contact but don't have the courage, obviously muster up the courage but still choke back, just because they don't know what to say, afraid of perfunctory answers, afraid of the embarrassment left with a full screen.

2. In everyone's heart, there is a person who misses him very much, but he doesn't dare to contact him. It is painful to leave a loved one, but the feeling of missing it and not daring to contact the other person is even more painful. It's not that I don't connect, but I don't dare to contact, it's not that I don't love it, but I love it deeply.

It's not that I don't want to talk to you like I used to, but I have scruples and can't bother you. Thinking of you, I can only hold back crying quietly, and I have to silently put it in my heart when I miss you.

3. You endure it for a long time, waiting for him to take the initiative to contact you, but it often backfires. It turns out that when you don't contact someone you thought was important, he really stopped contacting you. In fact, I miss it very much, but I don't want to take the initiative to express my inner feelings, I was once as low as dust, humbly praying for your mercy and care, and in the end I lost myself and you.

4. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is not perfect; There is a kind of love that knows that it is going to give up, but it is unwilling to leave; There is a kind of love, which knows that it is torment, but it can't be flashed; There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart has long been unable to take it back; There is a kind of love that knows it will hurt, but is unwilling to let go; There is a kind of love, knowing that you have to wait, but you are stupidly wandering alone and lonely, there is a kind of love, which is obviously not in touch, but it will search your stomach and miss it.

5. Some people, just want to miss, don't contact. Hiding in the corner, I can't escape the prison of missing. I've missed you, but I'm still missing you.

Fate steals the if, leaving only the result. How important you are to me, I regret not letting you know. Time can only heal wounds, but not erase scars.

6. I don't contact you because your coldness tells me that I have disturbed you; If you don't take the initiative, it's because you can't be impressed at all. Forgive us for our duplicity, and we miss it but don't want to see each other.

You are still pretending not to care about the sentence, I think if a person cares a lot, don't let people misunderstand, you don't care about him, because if you continue like this for a long time, people may really leave you.

You can show that it's all her in your eyes, but you pretend you can't see it, you pretend you don't care.

I really don't care, it's not my business if it's good or bad.

The sentence that you obviously care about but pretends not to care is just to look at you, but fall in love at first sight!

This means that I will not react in any way to your actions or words, and I will not feel sad or affected by it. I'm going to pretend I don't care about you, that is, I'm going to ignore your presence.

obviously likes it very much, but they look at each other with tears in their eyes, and stop at the rivers and lakes;

I obviously grit my teeth with hatred, but I can't hate it, and I regret it for life!

Human desires are endless, unpredictable, and so profound that they often can't figure it out themselves!

Why did you choose this way at the beginning, why does it seem that you regret the things and feelings that you didn't have at the beginning, and you just didn't understand what it meant at the beginning!

Why do we often encounter this is right, that is good, there is no absolute right or wrong, hesitation and anxiety!

Why do I care so much, but I always can't show that I care very much, but always complain a few words, so that the other party feels my impatience?

Human nature is a thing that I can't figure out, I can't understand, I can't touch! It has always been like an invisible gripper, always affecting our lives, concepts, behaviors, and it cannot be separated from people alone!

It will only often jungle and do seemingly incredible behaviors, but in fact, if you think about it, you can still find clues, traces to follow! I didn't realize this before, and I always felt that I must think differently from others, and maverick thinking will only happen to this situation! In fact, no one can escape the weakness of human nature.

It's just that some people's weaknesses can be met earlier, and some people's weaknesses are good at camouflage.

The thinking behind all actions is generated by ideas, and the most important factor that dominates ideas is human nature! Put yourself in the other person's environment or situation to think about the problem, maybe you get the law of consistency, or maybe it's a matter of human nature! The same thing, everyone will encounter the same choice, everyone will make the same choice, surely this is human nature!

And for excellent people, it is just a chance to use human nature to make money! Such as pornography, greed, profit......What seems to attract your attention and what I am willing to stay in, there must be something worthy of my study of human nature!

I've never thought about this topic so seriously, and it's only when I write about it here that I realize that human nature seems to be very powerful!

It is indeed the case, like excellent managers, outstanding cadres, and enterprise CEOs, all outstanding people are estimated to understand people's psychology, and know how to use these methods and skills to select talents for their own use. If we can study human nature well, we can also refresh ourselves for our ability to deal with people and personality!

How many people <> who obviously like it, but they forcibly refuse.

Some people's refusal is "restraint" knowing that there is no end; Some.

People's refusal is a "concern" for fear of injury; Some people's rejection.

It is a "helplessness" that has some suffering. Especially in a relationship, a this.

The person who rejects you may also like you, but because of it.

For various reasons it has to stay away from you. I often hear people say that if you like it, you can't hide it.

If you live, even if you cover your mouth, it will leak out of your eyes.

Some people may think that there are so many bloody things in life.

Indeed, the story of dog blood is always a minority, but it should never be because of a certain one.

If it rarely happens, its existence is not recognized. Just like those.

People who reject you for various reasons. Many people may find it unpleasant.

Huancai refuses, if you really like it, you can resist thousands of difficulties.

But as Han Han once said:

Like is presumptuous, love is restraint.

Only. It is simply when you have a good impression of a person, maybe you behave very presumptuously, think.

Confession is confession, and if you want to get closer, you can get closer. But if you are really excited, you will not dare to approach. So, don't always feel that the person who rejects you just doesn't like you.

Everyone rejects another person for a reason, and only by finding the original.

Because, knowing the true intentions of the other party, you will not miss the right one.

Maybe they don't think they deserve you, or they don't like you very much, because people who like you don't pretend not to care.