The elderly in rural areas like to be alone at home, so why don t they want to go to a nursing insti

The elderly in rural areas like to be alone at home and are reluctant to go to nursing institutions, which the author thinks may be caused by the following reasons.

1. Go to a pension institution for fear of wasting money

In rural areas, many people live to work until they are old, and they are usually frugal and are reluctant to spend money to go to pension institutions.

Moreover, unlike the elderly in the city, who basically have a pension, the elderly in the countryside basically have no pension, and if they can't do it, they can only live on the savings of their youth, and some of them have little savings, and they may have to pay for the living expenses of their children. If you go to a nursing institution for the elderly, your children will have to spend a lot of money, and they are reluctant to go to a nursing institution in order not to burden their children.

2. Nursing homes do not accept the elderly with children

In rural areas, there are fewer private pension institutions, many places do not, only some public nursing homes, and public nursing homes generally have restrictions on the objects of residence, and the adoption objects are mainly the elderly in rural areas, if there are children and daughters, many nursing homes do not accept.

3. I feel ashamed to go to a pension institution

In rural areas, many families have multiple children, as we mentioned above, many public nursing homes do not adopt the elderly with children, and only a few nursing homes will adopt. Moreover, in everyone's traditional concept, the elderly who have children should not go to the nursing home, if the children send their parents to the nursing home, they will think that it is very unfilial, many people will gossip, in order not to listen to the gossip of others, the general children will not easily send the elderly to the nursing home, unless there is really no other way.

4. The service level of pension institutions is uneven

Nowadays, the service level of many nursing homes is average, and we often see news of abuse of the elderly by some nursing home staff, so many people are reluctant to go to nursing homes.

5. The elderly are not suitable for the life of the pension institution

In rural areas, there are indeed many elderly people who live alone or together, but if they are allowed to go to nursing homes, most of them are also unwilling. Although the elderly in the nursing home do not have to worry about three meals a day, nor do they have to take care of all kinds of housework, it seems to be quite easy and good. But for many elderly people, leaving their familiar living environment and entering an unfamiliar nursing home will be uncomfortable.

Moreover, the living and living environment of many nursing homes is not very good, and the elderly will feel worse and worse when they live in them.

People are old, their bodies are weakened, their functions are declining, and the relationship between people has changed from "attack" to "defense" when they were young. For example, when I was young, I went to the street and put my money in my pocket casually, and I was afraid of deliberately exposing a hundred yuan in front of the squad leader, so I was not afraid to shop with swagger. But you observe the older ones.

The wallet is carefully removed from the layer of underwear. When paying, if the inner and outer layers are opened, paste saliva, pull out a trembling finger of RMB, and continue to turn the page, afraid of sticking a sheet on the back.

In rural areas, when people are at home during the day, the door is generally left open to ensure indoor ventilation. I remember three years ago, before the Spring Festival, my family bought fireworks and put them in the living room after getting out of the car. I wanted to wash my hands and move to the roof, but when I came out, I suddenly saw a young man from the same village walking out of the gate, counted them, and found that two fireworks had been lost.

Although it is more than a dozen yuan, I believe that no friend can let others steal things under his nose. Mom told me to visit her when I wasn't at home, and it seems she was right. Another time, I was carrying a bowl to the kitchen and came out silly.

A neighbor's dog ran away with chicken on the dinner table in his mouth. My family also has a dog, cooking after a meal, pouring vegetable juice, sandwiching a handful of wild vegetables on it, dare not go into the dining table, unlike the current dogs, even vegetables and rice do not eat, on the table to steal food. My mom used to tell me to put the lid on when I finished eating.

I thought it was nagging, saying that I really had to tidy up the table after dinner.

The elderly sit at home and have nothing to do, their children stare at their mobile phones all day long, listen to the elderly, have no time to talk to their children, can't talk about a single topic, and don't have much common language. It takes a long time to look at it, and the eyes can't stand it, and the hair is also lively. When you sit still, you want to get confused, and you sleep during the day and can't sleep at night.

People are social individuals and don't like to be alone. Going to the door to talk to someone seems very close to reality. Although Zhang's family is very short, looking back on the past time, the day passed quickly and the mood was very happy.

It is to go to the door and sit once, exercise while chatting, exercise, digest and digest food. Elderly people often sit on the door of their homes with chairs or small plates. I hope that after a year, especially when the lonely elderly lose their spouse, they will always feel desolate and lonely, talk to people, establish a dragon gate array, exchange feelings, and forget the distress of loneliness.

Children work outside all year round, and in order to survive and earn more money outside, they often rarely go home, and can only come back once a year for the New Year, watching the old and young of the family, and spending a year. This is the best time for the elderly and their families. So the old man always thinks about this time, always sits outside the door and opens the door, hoping that the children will come back soon.

The outside world is great, sitting outside the door, Zhang's family, Li's family, there are a lot of interesting things and a lot of fresh things. There's no way around sitting at home. As a child, I was busy with work, but often used my time to go home to take care of my elderly and lonely relatives.

Because in the countryside, he can move around, and the air is good, and the environment is good. If you go to a nursing home, it's not convenient to go out, and you stay in a nursing home every day, which is really boring, and you don't eat freely.

Because there are many people in nursing institutions, they have reached old age, they don't want others to disturb their lives, and they feel that their children are not willing to support themselves, how can others take care of themselves, it is better to stay at home, at least comfortable.

Because many rural elderly people feel that going to a nursing home is still very boring, and they are also very restricted, and they feel more free and comfortable at home alone.

In recent years, the countryside has changed dramatically. Therefore, in order to revitalize the development of rural areas, the state has introduced many preferential policies for rural areas, which have not only improved the lives of peasants, but also brought great convenience to peasants. Why would the elderly in rural areas prefer to go to a nursing home by themselves?

What are they worried about? Now, with the increasingly serious problem of aging, the problem of old-age care in rural areas is gradually becoming prominent. In rural areas, young people have gone to work in other places, and there is no one to take care of the elderly.

Therefore, considering this problem, the state has built nursing homes in rural areas, and then let those elderly people who have difficulties in providing for the elderly be provided for in a centralized manner. In our opinion, this is a very good thing, but after the construction of the nursing home, most of the elderly are reluctant to go. Why?

1.The concept has not changed, and I don't want my children to be gossiped about.

In rural areas, there has always been a saying about raising children to prevent old age, so in order to provide for the elderly, rural people generally give birth to a son. Because in the past, rural people would let their sons support their old age when they were old. If there is no family with a son, they will hire a son-in-law to support the elderly.

But now it's different. Young people in rural areas have gone to the cities to work, and there is no time to take care of the elderly. Therefore, it is a problem that the elderly have no one to provide for them.

After the establishment of the nursing home, the elderly have a place to care for the elderly, and the children do not have to worry too much about the life of their parents. But in the eyes of the elderly in rural areas, the nursing home is a place where the lonely and widowed elderly live, there are children and girls, and they don't want to go for the children, otherwise people will gossip that the children are not filial.

2.Considering the financial situation, I don't want to burden my children.

Generally, nursing homes will have special people to take care of the daily life of the elderly. Usually when people are bored, they can get together to chat, talk and laugh, at least they won't be lonely. However, living in a nursing home is not for nothing, and you have to pay money every month.

If you don't say anything, it will cost six or seven hundred a month. This is a significant expense for the elderly in rural areas who do not have pensions. If they don't have money, they can only let their children out.

Therefore, in order not to drag down the children, the elderly are reluctant to go to nursing homes.

3.Living at home, there are not so many rules.

Rural people often say that no matter what is good, it is not as good as their own home, so even if the conditions of the nursing home are good, in the eyes of the elderly, it is not as comfortable as their own home, because in the past, many people lived in nursing homes, and they had to consider others while making it convenient for themselves. But in your own home, you can do whatever you want, it's very comfortable, and there are not so many rules. So it's much happier at home than in a nursing home.

But no matter what they say, nursing homes are still the best way to solve the problem of rural elderly care, so what we can do is to emancipate the minds of the elderly and let them slowly accept this new trend. Of course, nursing homes also need to develop slowly. If it were you, would you choose to go when you were old?

Many elderly people are reluctant to go to nursing homes because they don't want to delay their children's lives and don't want to add a burden to their children's lives.

It's because it's still very convenient to live alone, but if you go to a nursing facility, it may cause a certain burden on your children, and they don't want your children to spend money indiscriminately.

Because the cost of pension institutions is relatively large, the elderly in rural areas have no savings at all, and there is no pension insurance

Because the environment of the nursing home is very bad, and the diet there will be very bad, so many elderly people are reluctant to go.

Because they have lived in the countryside all their lives and have become accustomed to such a living environment, they are reluctant to go to a nursing institution.

Because the elderly have lived in the countryside all their lives, they can't do without this land, and it is rare for a person to be quiet and free.

Because the cost of going to a pension institution is particularly high, and they can't do what they like, and they have to be controlled by others, they don't want to go.

It is because after going to an elderly institution, the elderly will feel very empty and have no sense of security.

Because rural people can't adapt to the life of nursing institutions, and rural people don't want to increase the burden on their children.

We are very unfamiliar with nursing homes, and there are many rumors that they will abuse the elderly, and people will miss their homes very much when they are old.

Because going to a nursing home will feel that it is not in your own home, it will be particularly uncomfortable and uncomfortable, and the mood will be bad, so you are reluctant to go to a nursing institution.

Why do the vast majority of the elderly not like to enter nursing homes and care for the elderly but prefer to care for the elderly at home? I think this is a habit of life of the elderly, and at the same time, in today's elderly people, that is, the elderly over 70 years old, they are about 1950 years old, in their era, there is basically no so-called nursing home, to stop the concept of pension, so most of the elderly do not agree with the nursing home to provide for the elderly, or do not like the nursing home to stop the elderly, this is very normal.

And the old people who were born in their time. For example, today's 70-year-old retirees over 70 years old to over 80 years old, it is necessary to enter the nursing home to live, after all, the young retirees under the age of 70, in practice, his physical condition, and other aspects are complete under the premise that he can take care of himself, in fact, there is no need to enter the nursing home to stop the elderly. Therefore, the children of the local elderly are usually not one, but several, so through the way of home care for the elderly, they can also complete the care of their own pension life, at least for the vast majority of the elderly can do it.

So in this way, there will be a lot of choices for me, and it can choose both home care and nursing home care. Even if their children are not around, they are actually reluctant to enter nursing homes to stop caring for the elderly, because many communities now have Japanese food care centers for the elderly. After such a Japanese food care center, it can basically meet the needs of the elderly for three meals a day.

So in the end, if you don't enter a nursing home, you can actually live the same as a nursing home.

And after entering the nursing home, one thing is for sure, I am definitely not so comfortable living in home care. The advantage of entering a nursing home may be that there are professional nursing staff and continuous care, but at the same time, if there are comparable hospitals around your community, you can also achieve such an effect, so choosing home care is after all my traditional way of caring for the elderly, and it is also the preferred way for many elderly people.

More importantly, I think it is necessary to deal with this problem from the practical will of the old man himself. Since the elderly are indeed unwilling to enter the nursing home, we, as children, should not be forced, if the parents of the forced person are unwilling to do this. I believe that your parents will not be very happy, so let the life of the elderly become very bad, this is something that I don't believe I want to see as a child.

There are many ways to show filial piety, and it is not necessary to enter a nursing home, and in practice, many communities now have this kind of community-based elderly care, and day care centers are set up within the community. There are many thriving cities, and the service form of this day care center is becoming more and more abundant, so we can choose a better way of service, and it is also able to allow parents to enjoy the same life as the nursing home, but it can still reach the state of semi-home care, in fact, I think that more choices will become more and more generous in the future, so everything must be decided according to the wishes of my parents.