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Now adults are under too much pressure, and they don't want to reduce their quality of life because of their second child, and some because there is no one to help take care of the children.
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Because of the pressure, raising a child requires a lot of cost and labor, so many people don't want to have children.
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Because the pressure of having a child is too great, not only to take care of the child, but also the cost of mortgage and car loan, so many people are reluctant to have children.
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For now, there are not many families who only have one daughter and no second child. It's just that you may have just given birth to your first child, so you don't have that much greed, and the second child may wait a few years to see.
But if many people's family economic conditions are okay, they just can't help but listen to the persuasion of others or want to have another child, and it doesn't matter if they want another little boy and a little girl.
All in all, as an only daughter, they still hope that there will be another person to accompany him in the future, and the only daughter who cooks for each other is more squeamish and fragile, or they hope that the only daughter will have a partner, and everyone is also very active in giving birth.
What's more, now the third child is open, so the second child is a thing that many people consider, unlike when the second child was first opened, everyone still had a lot of concerns, but after the third child was opened, everyone saw that the people around them were born continuously, and the children felt that the pressure of childbirth was not so great.
Moreover, if the current parents are only children, he may feel more realistically some of his inner fears and uneasiness as an only child, some worries about the future, and know some difficulties faced by being an only child.
Sometimes I envy other people who have sisters, like I heard that their sisters and sisters buy things for each other, I have never felt the feeling of my sister buying things for herself.
It's very greedy, it's the kind of friendship between families with many children.
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Now there are very many families who only have one daughter and do not have a second child, because everyone is under great pressure, so it is already very stressful to have only one daughter.
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Now there is only one daughter left, and there are many families who do not have a second child. Because now the patriarchal mentality has become lighter and lighter. So many people only want to have one child in the family, whether it is male or female.
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I think there are many families that only have one daughter and don't have a second child, but it's not too much. Because after the relaxation of the two-child policy, there are many families with one daughter who have given birth to one.
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It's quite a lot, because most fathers like their daughters, after all, daughters are their parents' little padded jackets.
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There are many families around me who have only one daughter and do not have a second child.
I don't know much other than the people around me.
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Many, because house prices and car prices are rising, the quality of education also needs to be improved, and the pressure is too great.
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Not to mention having a second child, there are many families who don't even have a child, and now the cost of raising a child is too high, and life is difficult, so there are no children.
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Now there are still many such families, and many people are cultivating a single child for their children's education, after all, it is very energy-consuming to have more children. The fact that we have raised this child well is enough to prove our vision.
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Hello, glad yours. It's still a lot. It's all up to you to volunteer.
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Now there will be more families in this situation! Then there are a lot of families where you only had one daughter before! Mainly because people's concepts have changed now!
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Nowadays, people rarely want a second child, mainly because the pressure of life and education has increased, resulting in the satisfaction of only one child.
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Now I think more and more people are choosing to have a child, regardless of whether a boy or a girl wants one, mainly because the social pressure is too great and the competition is too fierce.
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I have only one daughter in my family. I don't want a second child. I let my daughter grow up like a princess.
I give him all the care! My daughter is the pearl in my hands. I don't want a second child.
I don't want a second child. I'm going to part his love! My daughter is a treasure in my hands.
I really don't want to have a second child, it makes my daughter sad!
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This also has to distinguish that place, if the south is such as Shandong, it is necessary to have a son, so in the north there are generally more children, because life is stressful. No one dares to have more children.
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1.I have only one daughter in my family, I don't want to have a second child, I let my daughter grow up like a princess, and I give him all the care! 2.
My daughter is the pearl of my palm, I don't want to have a second child, I don't want to have a second child, and I separate his love! 3.My daughter is the treasure in the palm of my hand, I really don't want to have a second child and make my daughter sad!
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Why do some people not want to have another daughter after only giving birth to a daughter?
Open-minded, think that having children is the same.
It is not excluded that there are still many parents who still prefer sons over daughters, believing that only by giving birth to a son can they be regarded as successors, and the incense can be passed on.
However, there are also some parents who are open-minded and believe that giving birth to children is the same, and children are a gift from God, so cherish this rare fate.
Therefore, the first child is a daughter, and they do not have feudal thoughts, and give all their love to their daughters.
The cost of parenting is too high.
There are also parents who don't want to have a second child, whether the first child is a boy or a girl, they want to have two children, so that they can accompany each other, love each other, and enjoy brotherhood.
But now the cost of raising a child is too high, it's not that you don't want to give birth, it's that you don't dare to give birth, you can't afford to give birth, in addition to spending money, time, and energy, you also need to educate, one child is tired enough to choke on his parents, and two children don't dare to think about it.
There is no strong backing.
Although it is now advocated that their children be brought by themselves, and that they should be born and raised by themselves, the elderly have no obligation or responsibility to help bring their grandchildren and grandchildren.
But now that the pressure of competition is so great and the price of goods is so high, it is really difficult to raise two children without the help of the elderly, and a woman who raises two children without the help of the elderly is destined to be a housewife, and it is difficult to balance the time and energy in work and career.
And how does a woman lose her job, for a long time, then it will be derailed from the outside world, which will lead to increased suspicion, and even become a resentful woman, and these are and affect the relationship between husband and wife, but whether you give birth to one or two, son or daughter, the most important thing is the education and love of children, only a loving family can cultivate grateful children, of course, women after giving birth, even if they don't go to work, they should read more books to recharge themselves, and they can also do some exercise appropriately.
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Because one daughter is enough, if there are too many children, it is very unfair for the daughter, and if there are too many children, the parents will be very tired, and the financial pressure will be very great.
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Because it is very troublesome to raise a child, there is no time to take another child, and nowadays people don't want to have children at all.
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Because the pressure of society is very great now, some women need to work, and having children is a very big blow to their careers.
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<>First of all, we must know that in the old society, many people would have the idea of preference for sons, so they thought that there must be a boy in the family, so it would lead to a lower status of girls, but with the progress of society, girls are now rarer, and they are also very popular, so many parents do not want a second child after giving birth, because having a daughter can make them very satisfied. Secondly, many traditional families still have the idea of preference for sons, at this time, if you have a second child, you are afraid of giving birth to a son, so that your daughter will not be loved, and you are afraid that there will be certain psychological problems in the child. In addition, many parents do not want to have a second child because it is too difficult to raise a child, not only to pay a certain amount of money, but also to pay a certain amount of time to cultivate, a child has to spend a lot of money, if there is another child, then there may be a fight between the two children, and parents will also have eccentric second child, which will cause some damage to the boss's psychology.
In addition, for female friends, the reason why they don't want a second child is because the risk is relatively high, although a second child can make other children in the family have one more brother and sister, many female friends will only consider having a second child after the eldest goes to elementary school, at this time the age of female friends is relatively old, and if they are pregnant and have a second child, the risk will be more, and there may be other complications during childbirth, so there will be such thoughts.
Finally, young people are under a lot of pressure, not only the pressure of life, but also the pressure of work, and finally struggle to improve their quality of life, if they have a second child, then they will reduce the quality of life, and after giving birth to a child, there is no one to help take care of the child, so many people are unwilling to have another daughter after giving birth.
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Because many people's families are under great economic pressure, the society is constantly developing, the economy is constantly improving, and sometimes a daughter will not be able to raise it.
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Because many people feel that the cost of having a child is particularly high, and it is easy to be out of shape after giving birth, many people are only willing to have one child.
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Nowadays, young people are under a lot of pressure, and their lives are also very poor, so this situation occurs.
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You're right, and you're right, that there are situations in our lives. If the first child is a daughter, I will basically consider having a second child; If the first child is a son, I don't think much about having a second child. Here's why:
1.Patriarchal causes.
2.The cost of raising a daughter is low.
3.Family planning.
The above is the first-born daughter, fight; The second son, not fighting, two reasons.
Let's talk about examples from life!
1.I have a friend, her consciousness is really high, when she was pregnant, she knew that it was twin sons, so she discussed it with her family, and she was ligated directly after cesarean section, and she didn't want to get pregnant and have children.
2.The downstairs neighbor has a son, and the conditions at home are not bad, and she decided to have a second child after thinking about it for a long time. However, the second child is still a son, and now when I see my two daughters, I say every day that I envy me, how much pressure she has, and so on.
In short, I think that since there is a plan to have a second child, why should it be so difficult to think about it, it will only increase the trouble!
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Because the first child is a son, if the second child is a son, then the pressure is very great, and now the family of two sons is under a lot of pressure, if the first child is a daughter, it is different, and the family with both children is perfect.
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The traditional idea of having both children and daughters, and in the face of life pressure, the first child is a son and the second child is also a son. The first child is a daughter, and the second child is a daughter, and the son is very good.
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In our lives, there is indeed such a situation, if the first child is a daughter, the basic will consider having a second child, if the first child is a son, do not think much about having a second child, these are caused by patriarchy, the daughter marries someone else's, the son is still his own, so I want to have another son, the family with both children is perfect, and in the early years, family planning regulations, the first child of the rural household registration gave birth to a daughter can have a second child, However, regardless of whether the first child is male or female, the urban household registration cannot have a second child.
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Many families have such thoughts, which is a psychological effect. The daughter marries someone else's, and the son is still her own, so she wants a son.
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It has always been more expensive to marry a daughter-in-law, and if the conditions for marrying a daughter are good, more will be given, and if the conditions are poor, less will be given. For a first-born daughter, when waiting for a second child, whether it is a man or a girl, she will feel less pressure. One child is a boy, and if you add another one, the pressure will be doubled....
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Because of the influence of traditional concepts, patriarchal preference is preferred, believing that sons can be passed on to the next generation, and daughters grow up to marry outsiders, as the saying goes, the married woman spills out the water, so the first child is a son is like taking a reassuring pill and does not want to have another child. If it is a daughter, it must have another son.
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Because if the first child is a daughter, there is no psychological burden when you have a second child. If the second child is a son, it would be better to have both children and daughters. If it's a daughter, two little padded jackets, and the sisters also have a companion, which is not bad.
But if the first child is a son, then most people dare not choose to have a second child. Because if you want to have another son, the two sons will have to go to school, find a job, get married, buy a house, buy a car, and think about how much money it will be, and I am afraid to think about it. Therefore, many people feel that the pressure is too great, and they dare not regenerate.
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