How to cultivate students self governance and self care ability

Do your own things, do your own things, be positive, lively and optimistic.

1. To cultivate children's self-care ability, parents should first update their educational views.

Figure out what true love is. Love is scientific, and loving children without science, and blindly soaking children in sugar water is not true love for children. In addition, if parents have different opinions when educating their children, they can communicate with each other in private to reach an agreement, and do not fight in front of their children.

2. Be good at cultivating children's initiative and independence.

In family life, parents should pay attention to educating their children to consciously, actively and independently regulate their own behavior, rather than relying on their parents' supervision and management in everything. Children should be taught to be clear about the purpose and tasks of their own activities, and gradually cultivate their children to learn to plan and check their own learning and activities. Because children's ability to self-regulate and control their behavior in primary school is still very poor, it is not enough to educate children to be independent in a reasonable way, but must combine abstract truths with concrete and vivid facts in order to achieve good results.

3. Let children participate in labor more, especially service labor.

Let your child participate in self-service work and let him learn to take care of his own life, such as dressing, tying his shoes, combing his hair, washing his face, eating, tidying up his school bag, tidying up his room, etc., and parents should try not to do it for their children. Parents should also let their children often participate in some household chores, such as helping parents wash vegetables, buy items, clean up, etc., which is an effective means to cultivate children's ability to deal with life.

4. Parents should set an example for their children.

Because primary school students are still limited in their ability to make self-judgments, they like to imitate the behavior of others without considering whether a certain behavior is correct and appropriate. Therefore, parents should provide good role models for their children, lead by example, teach by example, tidy and tidy at home, and work independently, cleanly, so as to set an example for children to learn, and children will gradually develop the habit of self-care in a subtle way.

Children will have to leave their parents sooner or later and live independently, and cultivating their sense of independence and self-care ability from an early age is the duty of parents and is also responsible for their children. Of course, the cultivation of children's self-care ability can not be too hasty, to be gradual, as the child grows older, gradually put forward higher requirements, the child can do not do what the child can do.

1. Excavate the connotation of teaching materials and arouse the resonance of self-care and self-reliance of students with poor academic resources. Through these activities, students learn to care for others and take the initiative to help parents do what they can.

2. Build a bridge of the soul with understanding and love, so that students can establish the belief of self-care and self-reliance. Students' self-care and self-reliance are not only reflected in life, but also in learning. For some students who feel struggling in their studies, have unsatisfactory grades, are not strict in discipline, often cause trouble, and are regarded as students with academic difficulties and special needs, teachers should use correct and appropriate methods to help them, and build a bridge between hearts and minds with understanding and love.

3. Let students learn from the role models around them. For those students who lack self-confidence, trust them, give them something to do, and when they complete the task, they can get a sense of satisfaction, so as to establish the confidence to be self-reliant.

4. Contact more with parents to jointly cultivate students' self-care and self-reliance ability. To try his best to find their merits, to praise and encourage those insignificant merits from the heart, so that his soul can be shaken, just like the shouts of the cheerleaders on the green field, the skin can inspire them to fight.