What do you think of people who reject you and then come after you?

This kind of person is not worthy of love, there was a woman before I tried a lot of effort to chase her and didn't catch up, and then I thought forget it, people have calmed down a lot, and after a few months she came to me again, I thought to myself what you did earlier, you couldn't do it when I chased you, and now you want to I can't do it.

I have such an experience, I used to like you a boy very much, I want to do anything for him, but he doesn't like me, and rejected me fiercely, and then somehow, he came to chase me, but thinking of how he treated me, I directly refused.

I will accept it, in my heart, it must be my love for her that has been accepted by her, it is my love that touches her, I like her, she likes me now, I must be ecstatic.

Of course, I will behave naturally, not too happy, not too pretentious, and generous to meet his like. To be honest, my heart is still very happy, but I can't show it too much.

I have accepted, I have had such a story before, I like a girl for a long time, he just doesn't agree, but I didn't give up, or as always good to her, later, I was afraid of affecting her life, so I didn't chase her, I didn't expect that she was moved by me, and she turned around and began to chase me like I chased her, of course I gladly accepted.

I have such an experience, when I was in college before, I fell in love with a girl, but he didn't like me, he ignored me, I chased college for four years, but I didn't succeed, I think I should be poor. Sure enough, after I graduated, I got a good job, but I didn't expect her to start texting me and asking me to dinner, but I really don't like this feeling, you see that I have developed and come to chase me, I can't accept it.

What was she doing when I was chasing her, it wasn't time for her to reject me, my heart was dead, it wouldn't be open for her, I would reject her, just as she rejected me.

There are many similar examples, such as an old love coming to the door again, or meeting a more suitable one. When I like you like you madly, you are cold, and when I pour all my love out, you come back to chase me, it is no longer meaningful. It's hard to say if he wants to trick you, he didn't have a heart to chase you before, if you don't chase you, he is moved, is this possible?

<> he thought it would be a wise choice for him not to be with you. After it was done, he was always denied because of various requests, **, cell phones, letters, kind words, and all kinds of attention. He can't accept all your kindness right now, and what you've done is superfluous to him.

If he doesn't pick up your **, you'll wonder what he's doing. So you can't stop thinking about bad results. The more you think about it, the more your confidence hurts, and the more you think about it, the more negativity you feel, and you don't anticipate it.

You don't want to be sad.

At first, because she really didn't like it, she didn't agree and chose to be with someone else. Later, when she was twenty years old, she broke up and the other party confessed again. She still loves her, but she hasn't agreed yet.

Although she still doesn't like each other, she is still a little touched when she sees that the other person has liked her for eight years and is worried about her during that time, so she thinks they are together.

It looks quiet on the surface. In fact, their inner game is enough, they have a lot of ideas, but they will never say those thoughts or let you know. But feelings are uncertain, and you can't wait for the fate you want.

Or those they love, but they are separated, and if they don't make an effort, they can only walk away. I find that I am surrounded by a lot of people with melancholy personalities, especially those who come to seek **. Most of them are melancholy.

Actually, I think if I didn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend at the time, I would have chosen to accept it. After all, I used to like it very much, although we weren't together at the time.

Don't dare, I don't think there's any need to chase it.

Personally, if you don't dare to go at first, how can you dare to believe you?

Whether you dare to continue or not, no one can decide for you, and no one can say that if you continue to persevere, there will be the results you want.

If he really gave a lot of sincerity, and you think it is worth it for you to spend time and energy to make it clear to him word by word, and if you want to appreciate his merits, then don't just give a perfunctory good person card, but specifically cite everything he has done for you, and what are your corresponding feelings, the details should be clear, and the feelings should be sincere, but don't be a little ambiguous.

Some may really be a comparison axis, really chasing for several years, and even incurring your disgust, don't send any card, don't leave any chance to give the other party hope, be resolute, don't accept anything. But don't say too much, this number of people recognize something, and if they are not satisfied, they are likely to go to extremes.

Some people may just cast a wide net and confess that the information is ** There are dates and no dates to play three poles This person doesn't need to give a good face Just say reproductive isolation, just decide.

If you want to refuse decently, you need to know the fact that a boy's confession begins when he approaches you, asks you out, and gives you gifts. In addition, one thing you need to know is that many girls don't mean to hurt the person who confessed to them, and they want to refuse with dignity, but the confession scene is actually similar to a quarrel scene, both parties are nervous and impulsive.

Knowing the above two realities, in fact, as long as you sincerely refuse, leave no room for it, and protect yourself, you can do it.

If the other party says it explicitly, just: I'm sorry, I have someone I like, you're late, I'm sorry. If the other party is still on the verge of temptation, then tell him your criteria for choosing a mate when chatting with him again.

For example, if he is particularly handsome, has a particularly good figure, is particularly good at studying, is particularly good at work, and can break eggs with one hand, as long as he is not up to standard, you like it.

It's okay to be indifferent, don't give the other party any hope, if you want to try to accept, you can also accept that others are good to know this search for you, if you don't want to, just refuse. In fact, there is no need to refuse. After a while, I saw that you didn't react and flashed on your own. Nowadays, people are very realistic.

I will refuse, although he may have spent a lot of effort chasing me, even touching, but he can't deceive his heart, don't like it is not like, even if you accept that the two of you will not be happy when you are together in the future, so I shouted that it was better to reject Qi Chun Oak, but it couldn't be too hurtful to refuse.

Yes, since you don't like the other person, you shouldn't deceive, but you should give the other person a clear attitude.

Will refuse because I don't want to give hope to others and I don't want to waste other people's time and my own.

Yes, because you don't like the other person, you should refuse, which is a responsibility to the other party.

Probably not, because in a relationship, most people are afraid of rejection.

People who have a chic emotional outlook and a strong mentality will continue to chase.

Because, in their opinion, liking you is my business, of course you have the right to refuse, and even if you reject me and love me more, I generously pay for my heartbeat, continue to chase, because I like your process, my own feelings are great, if one day I don't like you, then I will stop chasing and let go freely.

This kind of emotional outlook, which seems to be unrequited love, has nothing to do with the other party, but it will not affect one's mentality because of the other party's rejection and coldness, and it is easier to grasp the initiative in the relationship, and it is more likely to be happy.

And most people can't.

Because we are afraid of rejection, afraid that we will show our sincerity, but the other party will regard it as a mustard and abandon it like a clog, afraid of the psychological damage after rejection, feel faceless, and have frustrated self-esteem, so we don't want to, don't dare, don't want to take the initiative, and would rather miss it than be humble.

Why do some people not affect their mentality at all after being rejected, while some people never dare to try again?

Because, everyone has a different sensitivity to "rejection".

Some people have a cold attitude, they feel a strong "rejection", and the inner uneasiness immediately sounds the alarm, he just hates me, he definitely doesn't want to help me, next time it will never be like this, we call such people "rejected sensitive".

People who are sensitive to rejection "often experience the trauma of rejection." For example, being rejected in front of everyone, being ridiculed by everyone, feeling particularly embarrassed and embarrassed, will form a psychological fear and helplessness about this matter, and if you encounter similar things in the future, you will be traumatized and replayed, and you will not dare to try again.

And the reason why I gave up the pursuit is not that this person is not important in my heart, but because I already know that my liking is fruitlessInstead of continuing to waste time on this person like this, it is better not to let yourself let go of this relationship as soon as possible, after all, the long pain is better than the short pain, and the person has clearly rejected you, and there will be no more thoughts and illusions in this matter.

So since he will reject me, it means that he really has no place for me in his heart, otherwise a boy would not say such hurtful things to a girl. In this case, I will not make myself feel sorry for this boy againAlthough this relationship ended before it began, I think it will hurt me less than breaking up after being together, and it will be easier for me to get out.

I won't give up the first time I'm rejected, I'll make myself better and then express it to the other party, if I'm still rejected, it can only mean that I didn't meet the right person at the right time, and I will give up.

This varies from person to person, like I won't, I'm the kind of dead-skinned person, and now my current wife is the woman who rejected me three times, and now she's married, as long as you can give, move her and then it's a matter of course.

If I chase someone I like very much, and I am rejected, I will choose to give up. What's the use of chasing if I find out that the person really doesn't like me? So it's better to give up sooner.

I'm not going to give up because I don't feel like it's the end result and I try hard and there might be a difference.

I will not give up, I will silently pay attention to him, look for an opportunity to confess again, and will never be defeated because of a refusal.

I will still insist because I like her, and if she rejects me, I must be not good enough, so I will develop in the direction she wants.

I will give up, because I feel that the other party's rejection is the final answer for me, and I will not bother to pursue it anymore.

I'm going to give up because I don't think there's any point in chasing it any longer, and if you don't like it, you don't like it.

If the other person is very resolute and very clearly rejects me, and says that it is impossible, I will give up.

I'm not going to give up, because I think that if I put in the effort, it will pay off.

If others reject you, why continue to be a licking dog. You're going to make it hard for him and her and waste the two of you each other's time; Love can't be forced in the first place, and even if you catch it, the meaning is different.

You don't have to chase the person who rejects you, that's because the person who rejects you doesn't accept you from the heart, and if you chase it with a cheeky face, then you will be looked down upon.

Good horses don't eat back grass, they all reject you, why are you still pestering others.

As the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat back grass, since she can reject you once, she can reject you a second time. Therefore, there is no grass at the end of the world, and a wider world is waiting for you, each step back to forgive each other and welcome a better life.

Because the person who rejects you doesn't like you at all, so if you chase after you, you can only arouse his disgust.

Because once a person directly rejects your words, it proves that he thinks the two of you are not very suitable, even if you are stalking, it is useless, even for your own self-esteem, you don't need to chase it anymore.

Because everyone has to keep a certain dignity for himself. Those who reject you must not regret it either. At this time, give up decisively.

I believe that for many people, they have met their own suitors, but we must remember not to take advantage of other people's intentions, but more directly express their own intentions, so that for two people, it will not be a delay.

Therefore, I would use the following methods to refuse:

1. Action

In many cases, if our actions are very indecisive, it will cause others to think crankily, and it will also cause misunderstanding among others, so we should use practical actions to refuse, and tell our inner thoughts to the other party, so that the other party realizes what they think in their hearts? So that you can really let go of such a relationship, instead of being difficult to extricate yourself from such a relationship.

2. Cases

When we can't bear to hit others with words, we can tell each other through cases, so that the other party knows what we think, so as to realize that the two people are not suitable, so that maybe after a period of time, the two people can become good friends. Because I had rejected a boy in the past, and he had a very similar personality to me, so when we both realized that we were not suitable, we became very good friends.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that everyone can be aware of each other's intentions when pursuing the person they like, otherwise once they are very affectionate, they will eventually hurt themselves after all, so in many cases, we must consider from many aspects, which is also a manifestation of responsibility for ourselves, I hope everyone can pay attention to it, and adopt such a concept, and then go to the specific implementation, to see how the effect is.