Hitting is kissing and scolding is love! What kind of relationship will a truly happy couple have?

People often say that "marriage is the grave of love", that is because the life after marriage is not the same as they imagined, but there are also some model couples in life, who can always live a simple life very happily.

You may not understand why there are so many gaps in the people who are all picked by themselves? In fact, the answer may be very simple, and that is to see how you understand the real relationship between husband and wife.

In the past, people would say that the relationship between husband and wife was the most beautiful kind of marriage, but in today's society, people are more and more pursuing their own spiritual satisfaction, and they have begun to lose their feelings for that kind of polite marriage.

And what can really make others envious, one's happy marriage is often slowly cultivated by two people's constant quarrels.

There may be people who argue that an argument is not a good thing in the eyes of many people, but we can't deny that we have changed after a quarrel.

And in the relationship, sometimes you blindly tolerate it will only make the other party feel that it should be taken for granted, and constant noisy and noisy may be the most comfortable way to get along.

This kind of quarrel is reasonable, not vexatious quarrels.

Maybe in the impression of many people, women quarrel is a state of vexatiousness, they are often just to fight for a breath, but this kind of "quarrel" in marriage is not vexatious many times.

This kind of "quarrel" is a kind of reasonable quarrel, because a quarrel in which two people can better run in in life is for two people to have a better future in the future.

The process of quarreling is actually a process of recognizing oneself and a process of communication.

Let two people who are not the same suddenly start to live together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be some times when you don't like each other, but for these unaccustomed, when you don't tell each other, you may care more and more about the mistakes made by the other party.

And when you are able to point out the bad things about the other person, even if it is a way to "argue", it will make the other person realize that he is wrong.

And in marriage, "quarrel" can make it easier for two people to recognize themselves, because "quarrel" is also a process of mutual communication.

In many people's fantasy, marriage may be a kind of long-term love, but to put it clearly, it is a simple life, and this simple life will easily lose to firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Marriage is a drama that occupies most of our lives, and when your marriage becomes the same every day, it is inevitable that you will get bored with marriage.

But "noisy" can provide more fun to ordinary life, after all, there is such a sentence "small noisy pleasant", so don't always blindly accommodate, which will only make the other party feel bored.

The beauty of marriage lies in the process of two people constantly running in, from slowly not getting used to being inseparable from each other, and those things that go through are the best memories of two people, because it is the result of the joint efforts of two people.

People often say that "marriage needs to be managed", which does not mean to tolerate each other, but two people can tolerate each other in constant quarrels and change the meaning of becoming a family together, and the best appearance of love may be so.

In fact, there will always be some small friction in the process of getting along, but this friction will not make two people have big contradictions, but after these frictions, the living state of the two people will become better, and the relationship will deepen, which is the mode of getting along with two truly happy couples.

Hitting is kissing and scolding is love! Truly happy couples will get along and communicate with real emotions, and will tell each other any unhappiness. Although there are sometimes quarrels due to differences of opinion, they will soon be reconciled.

A truly happy couple gets along with each other in a respectful way, that is, there are two people who discuss everything together, and they will not secretly make decisions without telling the other.

I think that the reason why husbands and wives live together and have a good relationship is because of the trust in each other and the belief that they will completely rely on each other for the future. They will give each other appropriate privacy, they will keep each other's preferences in mind, and they will be familiar with each other's softness of heart. Their relationship is plain but the most real.

This depends on the way the two of you get along, some are fighting at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, and some are fighting, scolding or love. However, no matter how much the two of you quarrel, don't talk about divorce, it's too easy to be impulsive at that time.

We usually hear such a saying, that is, everyone thinks that beating is kissing, and scolding is such a phenomenon as love. But for many people, they will feel that if there is always such a phenomenon of beating and scolding between the husband and wife, it is likely to harm some emotions between the two people. So for such phenomena, we should also take some measures, and there should be some skills when husband and wife beat and scold.

can't be purely beaten and scolded, in this way, it will also make some of the love between two people, including feelings, disappear. <>

Don't touch the bottom line.

For many people, they feel that some scolding skills between husband and wife are very desirable to flirt on the premise that two people are very happy. This can not only promote some emotions between two people, but also make two people feel each other's love for themselves when facing such things, and it will also make the relationship between two people go further. But if there is a person between two people, they are in a more tired state, or a more bored state, do not do such actions, which will only make the other person feel very unacceptable.

Don't do things that go out of the way.

And it is also a very burdensome behavior for the other party, and we must pay special attention when flirting and scolding, and do not touch the other party's bottom line. This will only make the other party feel that such flirting is a very unacceptable thing for them. And when they experience such things, they will feel that some of their friends, including some of their other relatives, will not be able to accept it.

For their other half, when they do something like this, they will feel that their endurance for the other half is very strong. But if the other half always exceeds this bottom line, it will also make them feel very unbearable.

Flirting between husband and wife is a kind of taste, and it is necessary to grasp the degree, and the words should not be too extreme, and they should not refer to Sang and scolding Huai. Movements should be gentle and do not escalate to physical altercations.

Hitting is kissing, scolding is love, not beating or scolding is not love. The beating and scolding mentioned here is the kind of flirting and scolding, not the kind of big fight, there will inevitably be some small contradictions between husband and wife in life, as long as the contradictions are reasonably unraveled, life will get better and better, and the feelings will become deeper and deeper.

1. If you can't really fight, it is inevitable that husband and wife will quarrel, but it will definitely not work, it will destroy the relationship between husband and wife; 2. Don't stay overnight in a quarrel, and don't turn over old accounts. Occasional bickering and joking can increase the interest of husband and wife, but it is not good to quarrel and turn over old accounts overnight.

Don't touch the bottom line, don't do something that goes beyond the rules, when they do something like this to their other half, they will feel that the other half's endurance is very strong, if they exceed the bottom line, they feel very unbearable.