Why do they now say that villains are not wrong, gentlemen often pass ?

The villains are villains because they never recognize their own faults. So it's right.

Gentlemen are gentlemen because they often reflect on the mistakes they have made. So it's always done.

Now many people say that villains are not wrong, and gentlemen often make mistakes, because villains don't know that they have made mistakes and will not reflect on themselves, and gentlemen often reflect on whether they will have any mistakes before, so that there will be gentlemen who often pass this sentence.

Because this society is more concerned about unspoken rules, that kind of villains are flattering, they have done enough work on the surface, so there will be no small mistakes, and then those gentlemen don't want to be in the same stream, so they will show that they are at fault.

Because now all eyes are on the great ones. That is, a gentleman. And people are not perfect, who can be without fault. If those great men make mistakes, we magnify the shortcomings of those great men. Blame these people.

This is more cypress, because the villain generally people don't pay much attention to him, so the villain is not wrong, and the gentleman often has higher requirements.

The reason why it is said that the villain is not wrong is because the villain himself does not realize his own mistakes, and the gentleman often passes because the gentleman often introspects.

The villain doesn't know that he made a mistake, and he doesn't support it after you say it, but the gentleman is frank and unscrupulous because of what he does, and if he makes a little mistake, he will admit it.

Now it is said that villains are not wrong, and gentlemen often live, because people have no expectations for villains, but have high expectations for gentlemen.

The villain is not wrong, and the gentleman often passes" because the villain never thinks that he is wrong.

The villain is not wrong, the gentleman is often wrong" means "the villain always thinks that he is not at fault, the gentleman often reflects on his own mistakes, and the gentleman often finds reasons in his own side", villain is a Chinese word, which refers to a person with a despicable personality.

The villain is the antonym of a gentleman.

It specifically refers to people who like to do some tricks, sow discord, watch the fire from the other side, fall into the well, etc., that is to say, the villain is not on the right path, despicable repentance. The goal pursued by a gentleman is benevolence and righteousness, and the pursuit of benevolence and righteousness requires knowledge, and the old grind is also needed to be brave.

As the saying goes, villains are innocent, and gentlemen often pass.

To say that I understand means that villains never reflect on themselves, that is, they do something wrong, and they don't think it's their own fault, they only say that it's external reasons, they will only be angry with others, and they all blame this society, it's all so-and-so, who's fault. And the gentleman not only looks for objective factors, but also dares to find reasons from himself, so he can often find his own faults, shortcomings, and wrongness, and then improve them.

Of course, this is not the only basis for distinguishing between villains and gentlemen. Historically, there have been too many standards for the right and wrong for grinding, and there is no recognized single standard.

I often say, if it doesn't work, it works. In my opinion, if it doesn't work, we should first find the reasons from ourselves, combine them with external objective factors, and adjust them, or make corrections, or make up for the shortcomings.

Zuo legend, who can be without fault, can be changed after the pass, good is great. I think that this can be without fault, it is really good to say, we are not prophetic, it is normal to be at fault, and what is abnormal is that there is a fault and is unwilling to change, dare not change, cannot change.

I remember that the sixth-grade Chinese teacher said a sentence, I also checked it today, and it turned out that the original words were Wang Yangming's, that is, people are not more valuable than no fault, but more valuable than being able to change. What a great manuscript!

Zeng Zi also said, I have three provinces in my day. See if there is any fault, if there is one, correct it, and encourage it if there is none.

What I admire the most is Yan Hui's words, which are also the basis of his behavior: don't get angry, don't offend. If you are wrong, you should not be angry with others or external objects, and if you are wrong, you should correct it, and you will not make the same mistake a second time. This is a saint.

Knowing that we do not change our mistakes, and we do not repent of our mistakes, is what I often hear from others reprimand, and this is also what we should be vigilant about.

Seek all bodies, and all kinds of reasons are available. One one.

There are two families in the village, and the Wang family in the east often quarrels and hostile each other, and lives in great misery; The Li family in the west is harmonious, smiling, and living happily.

One day, the head of the Wang family couldn't stand the war in the family, so he went to the Li family to ask what this truth was.

Lao Wang asked, "Why do you keep the atmosphere at home happy forever?" ”

When Lao Wang was puzzled, he suddenly saw Lao Li's daughter-in-law returning from outside in a hurry, and accidentally fell when she walked into the hall, and her mother-in-law, who was mopping the floor, immediately ran over, helped her up and said, "It's all my fault, I wiped the floor too wet!" ”

The son, who was standing at the gate, also came in and said angrily: "It's all my fault, I didn't tell you that the hall was mopping the floor, causing you to fall!" ”

The daughter-in-law who was lifted up said guiltily and blamedly: "No! No! It's my fault, it's all my own carelessness! ”

Lao Wang, who came to ask for advice, saw this scene and understood that he already knew the answer.

If at the beginning, the mother-in-law who mopped the floor blamed the daughter-in-law who fell: "How can you walk without long eyes, you really deserve it!" If the rest of the family laughed out loud ignoring her feelings, would the Li family still have a warm and soft atmosphere?

Many people have the mentality that "it's all someone else's fault" and find it difficult to get along with the people around them.

If you look back at yourself and see what you want to improve, you can not only "turn big things into small things, but also turn small things into small things", but also win the respect of others.

It's all my fault, it's a kind of self-discipline, so that I can keep improving; It's all my fault, it's a kind of mind, always thinking about others; It's all my fault, it's a virtue that brings each other's hearts closer; It's all my fault, it's a rare kind of cultivation, and I don't see anyone in the world if I really cultivate. It's all my fault, purify my mind, and nourish my body and mind.

Why do you say: "The villain is not wrong, the gentleman often passes", after reading it, I suddenly realized!

The villain is not wrong means that the villain is enlightened, and the gentleman often means that he is bullied by the villain.

Villains often make mistakes. People are used to it. I don't feel it. A gentleman just doesn't make many mistakes, but when he does, people think they shouldn't.

Why do you say: "The villain is not wrong, the gentleman often passes", after reading it, I suddenly realized!

Listening to Pan Shouyu's lecture at Peking University was very inspiring and shared with everyone ---

The villain is not wrong, and the gentleman often passes. The gentleman has no virtue and self-cultivation, and the villain has faults and resents others. A gentleman bows to himself and is responsible for others.

If you can't compromise with you, how can you be a hero?! No matter what happens to all the unpleasant things, we can only reflect on our own obligations and have no right to summarize others, let alone the need to summarize others, because we are athletes, we are not referees, and we cannot afford to spend it. We sell fresh fish, not salted fish.

The rice bowed its head when it was heavy, golden, and gilabouran. Plain compromise is noble, frank compromise is heroic, without compromise, where is the harmony?!If you don't defeat yourself, how can you win the Don't Call Hu people?

Constantly knocking down oneself in order not to be knocked down by others.

The original text [Zigong said: "The fault of a gentleman is also, like the eclipse of the sun and the moon: everyone sees it; What's more, everyone looks up to it. ”】

Gentlemen, like the sun and the moon, are the existence of all eyes and admiration, when they make mistakes, everyone will see the blue buried, and they can quickly correct it, this process has been witnessed by everyone; In contrast, when the villain makes a mistake, he will try his best to cover it up or make all kinds of excuses. For us, don't be afraid to make mistakes and don't be afraid of being seen as wrong, the important thing is to be able to correct them with your heart.

A gentleman will not defend some issues that do not involve principles, and a person who regrets that he will inevitably have opinions and different views on himself, firstly, there is no need to bother to argue, and secondly, it is also a clear person, and some things do not need to be explained. You don't have to put too much effort into the eyes of others, as long as you are doing the right thing, you have a clear conscience, you can balance and still lose your moral standards when you are alone, and you can remember to be observant, reflect often, and improve often, which is already good.