In the countryside, if a 30 year old person is not married, is he destined to be a bachelor for life

Updated on Three rural 2024-03-01
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course not, people who get married after the age of 30 abound in rural areas, and there is no need to make a fuss at all.

    Compared with young men in urban areas, men in rural areas get married at an earlier age, and they are generally not able to enter marriage at an age when they marry later. But now there are many people in the countryside who have not yet married at the age of 30, and these people may not be single, but they have not yet met a suitable marriage partner.

    There are many people in rural areas who get married after the age of 30, but most of them are forced to choose to marry. For their parents, they don't understand love at all, and they never want to understand it, and it's a sin not to get married at this age.

    Especially for the countryside, if you are not married by the age of 30, the whole village will point fingers, which will make the parents feel ashamed. In this situation, all friends and relatives will be mobilized to help find a partner.

    When meeting someone who is suitable for marriage, as long as the girl agrees, the boy is likely to enter into marriage with the other party. Love is not a key element to consider at this time, as long as you don't hate each other and can get together to live together.

    There is no destined marriage in the world, and there is no destined single. There are many people in rural areas who are not married at the age of 30, but these people are not necessarily singles.

    Every place has its own way, and some local boys choose to go out to work, mainly to find a partner; In some places, boys choose second-married girls, and it doesn't matter if they even have children.

    This is actually a solution to the problem, but it does not solve the problem at the root. It's just that no one can understand the thing of love, and no one can say when he will meet the person who is willing to step into marriage with him. But one thing is for sure, a lifetime of singleness is unlikely.

    Don't talk too absolutely in life, some people can still get married and have children when they are forty or fifty years old, they are just 30 years old, boys are at the best age, how can they be single for a lifetime?

    Work hard to improve yourself, if you are not good enough, it will really become a joke in other people's mouths.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Now even in the countryside, people's minds are very open-minded, so it is very normal for the person to be 30 years old and not married, which can only mean that this person has not met his true love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think so, a 30-year-old man in the countryside is not very old, if the family has a little money in the village, you can still find a daughter-in-law, or find a way to find someone from another village.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, there are still many people who get married after the age of 30 in rural areas, so it is not certain that you can find a good partner and get married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not necessarily, but it is really difficult to find a partner in the countryside, and now there are more people who go to the city. A 30-year-old person who spends 5 years working hard to make money and change himself can also find a partner.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, because some people just get married late or don't want to get married so early, in fact, people generally get married late now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    We must analyze the reasons why men in their 30s in rural areas are not married, and we must not take them out of context, let alone say such hurtful words. Whose life can be determined by others!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I came to the city to find a job: I worked hard for a few years: I made money: What kind of woman can't find it: I have to have confidence in myself: maybe fate hasn't arrived yet:

    If you have your own piece of the world, it's not finished, and if you don't have anything, it's really been in vain for so long.

    Marriage based on love is generally a composite existence of a love relationship and a marital relationship.

    Marriage relationship, in China, is now a marriage is registered, and the third-party control intervenes, (the marriage system is different in different countries and eras), and it is generated by marriage control, and it is counted from marriage control. It is a controlled type. It belongs to the scope of control, and is assigned to be loyal to the object, or the loyal object is selected under limited conditions.

    Article 5 Marriage must be of the complete free will of both spouses, and neither party shall be allowed to interfere with the other or any third party.

    Article 6 The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women. People who don't have a wife are doomed.

    Article 7: In any of the following circumstances, marriage is prohibited: Who did the 36-year-old leftover man marry.

    1) Immediate blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations;

    2) Suffering from a medical illness that is medically deemed unfit for marriage. Is it normal not to get married at the age of 35.

    A 35-year-old man is not married for a variety of reasons, or one of them can be a definite factor. Therefore, you have to observe more and not be able to give this man a conclusion, it may be that this man himself has relatively high requirements for choosing a mate, and he has not yet had a suitable ambition into his eyes. Therefore, the possibility of this man's physical problems is not very large, and other reasons will be relatively large, especially the 35-year-old unmarried man who is not in harmony cannot touch it.

    Everything is career-oriented! You are really anxious to find a wife, and people say that there is no interest, as if you have not found a wife.

    It is not normal for a man to be married at the age of 35, everyone is married at the age of 23-26, it is normal to get married, marriage at the age of 37-30 is considered to be a late marriage, and it is not normal to be unmarried at the age of 35. A seven-year-old girlfriend in the eyes of a man.

    The man is 35 years old and has not yet married, which means that there may be this man. Special. Either this man's family is poor.

    Or maybe this boy can't grow up. And either this boy is stupid. Other than that's basically nothing.

    I want this boy to understand. The main thing for two people to be together is to tolerate each other and be considerate of each other. Discover each other's strengths.

    In this way, we can grow old together.

    It is understandable that the boy is not married at the age of 35, because he went to work on his career before. Delay the marriage.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Ninety years old people are the age of the elderly, and the age boundaries of the old era are no longer suitable for the present, and now the age of one or twenty years old is a child;

    Nowadays, with the development of medical science and technology, people have a longer and longer life, sixty-year-old people are a generation of people who can fight without pay, seventy years old is no longer the specific age limit of the elderly, there are countless old people who live over 100 years old, 100 years old is the beginning of the age of the elderly, 100 years old is the beginning of old life, 30 years old is just adulthood, 40 years old is the generation of young and energetic and self-motivated national pillars, 50 years old is a generation of experienced struggle, people live 70 years old, The average person does not live to be 70 years old, and 80 years old still belongs to the younger generation, and living to the age of 70 is considered a long life, and 70 years old will eventually become a short life. So people in the old era had a relatively short lifespan.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In rural areas, there are many people in their 30s who are not married, and the reason why some of these people delay getting married is mainly because of family conditions. As a result, they have not found a suitable partner when they reach the marriageable age, and most women in rural areas will choose to go out to work, and for men living in rural areas to stay in the village for a long time and cannot contact the opposite sex, it will also lead to men not being able to find a love partner. The reason why women like to go to big cities is to be able to find someone with better family conditions to marry.

    It is obviously very normal for rural people to want to marry city people, and the standards for some contemporary women to choose a mate are becoming higher and higher. Even women in rural areas will ask for the man's family conditions based on their appearance, and in today's society where there are more men than women, men will be greatly hindered when finding a partner. There are also parents in rural areas who want to spend money to buy a woman directly from Vietnam to come to China and live with young people.

    But there is also a certain risk in this practice, because for some Vietnamese women, they will walk away after taking the money. <>

    There are many reasons why young people in rural areas cannot get married, and the main reason for this has a lot to do with the appearance of men. There are many people who think that the appearance of rural people and urban people is compared, and the ** of rural people is generally darker, while urban people will look younger overall because they do less farm work. Even if the same men in their 30s are compared together, they will feel like one in their 20s and one like in their 40s.

    Whether it is a woman or a man, you should meet someone who suits you when it comes to getting married, and most men in rural areas are honest and simple. Living with such men makes life feel more secure, but there are also men in rural areas who are less educated due to their education. As a result, when encountering conflicts between husband and wife, they will choose to beat their wives, because the problem of domestic violence will also make many people prejudiced against men in rural areas.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Generally, it is a house and a bride price, and now the bride price in rural areas is particularly common, resulting in many young people not daring to get married, not being able to get married, housing prices are getting higher and higher, and it is difficult to get married.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, it is because they cannot find a suitable one, or most of the young people in the countryside nowadays do not live in the countryside and do not work in the countryside. So there will be a lot fewer people in the countryside.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Stress, self-awareness. Financial and work pressures lead young people to not have the idea of getting married. Self-consciousness awakens, loves yourself more, and thinks that being single is happier.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In rural areas, men and women generally get married relatively early, and if a boy reaches the age of 30 and is not married, it is indeed more stressful, but it is not enough to make do with it because he wants to get married.

    Did you know that Qingmingdao has a kind of love called forced copulation?

    Most children in rural areas marry as soon as they reach adulthood.

    Some people almost don't even know what love is, and they give you a boy or a girl, and the two don't understand anything, they just feel happy to be together every day, so they get married.

    Of course, I'm talking about some remote mountainous areas, where children do not receive effective education, and parents lack the concept of the times.

    There are boys and girls who are close to big cities and get educated, but they also have the idea of getting married early and having children early, the woman will be shy, but the man is not, as long as it looks like a girl, she looks okay, regardless of your messy feelings, personality or something, chase! When I caught it, I thought I could get married.

    To tell the truth, the marriage rate and divorce rate in the rural areas are higher than those in the cities, and the divorce rate is low.

    There may be in big cities, but there are almost no small ones.

    A truly happy person will have health, marriage, children, career, money, friends, and reputation. Of course, the focus is different in different periods and stages, and the indicators need to be mastered by themselves. Besides, in today's society, let alone being in your thirties, it's normal to get married at the age of forty!

    Wishing you to find true happiness!

    Many marriages are not about getting married when you are old enough to get married, but when you meet someone you can be with.

    And one more. In the countryside, many people will dislike it, twenty-six, seven, eight years old unmarried are disliked, thirty years old still have it, I'm talking about us here, we are generally married here around twenty, more than twenty-five Lingmin others will gossip.

    The proportion in the city should be a little higher.

    There are many, many people, and there must be one-tenth of those around me who don't have a partner, and one-fifth of those who are not married.

    There should be a lot of this, but how much is specific, no one can say for sure, some of them have a reputation for marriage ceremonies, but they are not registered, so they can't be counted

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