Let me tell you, who does you think is the most pitiful woman in Dream of Red Mansions ?

It should be Zhen Shiyin, the Feng family. The main thing is that (Feng's) is pitiful. When Mrs. Wang took Baoyu into trouble, she defected to Renjie Zhen's house.

Things are safe. This even the family of Renjie blasted away. The harmful Feng family returned to his hometown, and Zhen Shiyin became a monk.

Yinglian also let the bad guy sneak away. The wives of the good families are separated, and the family is ruined. Kill them all.

The master behind the Grand View Garden was 36 years old and died young. (Retribution).

It's really pitiful", the most pitiful is Xiangling. Daiyu has Baoyu love, and her grandmother hurts, although she is under the fence, she is not angry about this life. Baochai has no love, but he can still make his own decisions about his own home.

Feng Yatou died a miserable death, but she was also in a hurry for several years. Only Xiangling, except for Daiyu who really taught her to make poetry, she has nothing to do.

Xiangling! At least Lin Daiyu has Baoyu by her side to ask for warmth, Xiangyun makes her happy, attacks people to solve her doubts, Qingwen and her have similar interests, Baochai cares, only Xiangling, no one knows, and was finally killed by Xue Pan and Xia Jingui, and only the book "Broken Intestines" accompanied her

I think it's Xue Baochai, she is a person who seems to be happier at first glance. But after really reading it a few times, I found that she was much more pitiful than Daiyu and Xifeng. She never got love.

She likes Baoyu, but Baoyu has always only loved Daiyu, even if there is a version in the end that she married Baoyu, but she did not marry love, she married a lifetime of loneliness, every day with her lover does not look up and look down, but there is never a moment to enjoy the feeling of love. This is the greatest and cruelest punishment for a woman. And although Daiyu died, she left with her lover's love, Baoyu lost her soul because of her death, and her soul left with Sister Lin.

Sister Lin is better than Baochai in love, and Baochai is pitiful. ‍‍

If you want to say that the most pitiful woman in the dream of Red Mansions, I think it is Miaoyu. It is different from the pity of Wang Xifeng's "self-inflicted sin", different from the pity caused by Qingwen's personal character, different from the pity of Shi Xiangyun and Sister Qiao who fell into trouble after experiencing happy times, and different from the pity of Daiyu and Baochai's love tragedy. Miaoyu's "pitiful" is a kind of great loneliness.

Love has no beginning, and it is even more fruitless. She and Baoyu have a very similar outlook and temperament, but they only have his respect and admiration, and they have never had his love. ‍‍

When Xue Baochai was chosen to marry Baoyu, he did not resist at all, but accepted it, only knowing that he obeyed the arrangement of his elders and had no freedom at all. And although Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu couldn't get together in the end, their spirit of breaking tradition is still very good. As a result, Xue Baochai is really pitiful. ‍‍

The most pitiful person in the Bo Ming Division is probably Xiangling. She was born in a wealthy family, and she was supposed to be a pampered eldest lady, but because she was abducted by a kidnapper, she changed the trajectory of her life. The life in the kidnapper's house can be imagined, and the disciple in the section where the gourd monk arbitrarily judged the gourd case said that Yinglian was afraid of being beaten at the kidnapper's house, and would rather recognize the thief as her father.

Later, she was bought by Xue Pan and became a concubine. is really from a height to fall into the world, and her life will always be decided by others from now on. ‍‍

In this life, Lin Daiyu was born to shed tears for Jia Baoyu and died because she couldn't stay with Jia Baoyu. She pursued to love Jia Baoyu all her life but couldn't, and finally died of tears for Jia Baoyu, who was mentally tortured and died of heart disease. She has never seen it in her life, and she has lived in pain for a lifetime of misery for the marriage she can't get, and she is the most pitiful of the twelve hairpins.

The most pitiful is undoubtedly Lin Daiyu, and the person who can't ask for it is the most pitiful. In the Dream of Red Mansions, the twelve hairpins of Jinling are all poor women, and when they enter the Bo Ming Division, they each have their own miserable lives. Some people yearn for spiritual wealth, some people yearn for material wealth, some people yearn for power, some people yearn for ambitions, some people yearn for their children to become talents, and some people yearn for stability and ordinariness.

No matter how tragic the fate is, as long as the things that you yearn for in your heart come true, life can always go on. ‍‍

Jia Yunai is a side branch of Jiafu, lost his father since he was a child, and his mother is "the fifth sister-in-law who lives on the back porch", and the two barely survive on two houses on one acre of land.

In order to go to Rongguo Mansion to do something, he flattered Sister Feng in every way, praised her for her ability and gave her spices, and got a position in charge of flowers and plants. In order to climb into the center of Jiafu, he did not hesitate to ask Baoyu, who was a few years younger than him, to recognize his father and give two pots of white begonias.

Although Jia Yun and Jia Baoyu are both children of the Jia family, they live in very different worlds. For example, Jia Yun had no father earlier and no property. So I faced the problem of livelihood very early, and I also knew the warmth and coldness of people very early.

1. Xue Baochai: Talent is a woman's greatest confidence.

In life, no matter how good you behave, there will always be people who don't like you. At this time, what you need most is not to please others, but to cultivate yourself.

2, Jia Tanchun: Background cannot determine fate.

Origin can only determine your starting point, not your end. You are the only one who decides your own destiny.

3, Wang Xifeng: A marriage that is too strong will not last long.

The marriage relationship is two people hand in hand, heart to heart, not one party to lead, one party to obey. What marriage needs is not shrewdness and authority, but understanding and respect, and blindly being strong not only breaks the other party's heart, but also accelerates the breakdown of the marriage. Nuclear shortage.

4. Li Kun: Know how to live for yourself.

Women must know how to live for themselves and live their own wonderful lives, so that this life is in vain.

5, Shi Xiangyun: No matter how difficult life is, you must be optimistic.

Xiangyun's parents died when she was a child, and she caught up with the decline of the family, although she was called the eldest lady, she actually had to work with the girls, and her life was not satisfactory.

But every time she appears, she always has a smile on her face, and wherever she goes, she takes Huan Gai's blind laughter wherever she goes, from Jia's mother to the girl, no one doesn't like her god pants.

Everyone's life has unknown bitterness, instead of crying and annoying people, it is better to face it with a smile and live every day. People who love to laugh will never be lucky.