Tell me if you care if your significant other is divorced?

If I don't have an ex-husband, then I will care, after all, if both of them are getting married, then the relationship must be in place. If you are married, then the relationship is not something that ordinary people can replace, although you left later for various reasons, but once you leave, you will still recall the good at the beginning, especially when there is another person, everything will be unconsciously compared.

No! After all, loving someone can't mind his past, he didn't have you in his past life, so he can't predict the current situation! What I care about is him since I knew him, as long as he loves me with all my heart, it's all worth it.

Really love each other is not to care whether the other party has been divorced, because love is the present, is the future, not the past, the past can only show that the other party met someone unladylike, did not meet the right person for themselves, so took a lot of detours, now I meet me, it means that I have gone through a detour, I will not blame the other party for why the other party took a detour.

Won't care. Because I have not participated in your past, I have the honor to participate in your present, and I will accompany you in your future, because you are my world and my future.

If it was I wouldn't care, who doesn't have a first love? There is no ex-girlfriend, of course, the divorce is not the first two Doha, just an analogy! If you like him, then don't care, you want the present and the future, don't you?

If you have a heart in your heart, then don't find such a person to be your other half, free in love, free in marriage!

People are emotional animals, if you really like each other, you don't have to worry about the other party's past, the other half has been divorced before, it is already a great misfortune for her, if you still have to care, it can only make his heart hurt more, then you will not go on for a long time!

If you choose to accept his present, you should choose all of him, including his strengths and weaknesses, and associate with him with a tolerant and normal attitude. If you are really careful, then I advise you to give up, because it will become an irreconcilable contradiction between the two of you! The most important thing here is actually the mentality!

If you really love him, then please let go of the previous unhappiness and accept it happily!

If you live together for a long time, all kinds of irreconcilable contradictions will appear, rather than a cold war every day or a divorce in two days, it is better to get rid of both parties in a short-term divorce.

If you really love each other, start loving with your heart from now on!

Unacceptable, marriage is only once in a lifetime.

Unacceptable. Life goes on, work hard, live hard.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

What's so bad about a divorce if you like someone and can accept all of his divorces.

If you want to ask: Do divorced men and women live happily ever after? Do they regret it?

The answer may be different for everyone.

Everyone's reasons for divorce are different, there are mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who have a bad relationship, there are differences because of the education of children, there are husband and wife personality differences, there are extramarital affairs, and there are divorces due to economic reasons.

Divorced people think that getting out of the siege is to welcome freedom, and most of them are happy when they get the divorce certificate! Finally don't have to endure it anymore, finally don't have to face this nasty person anymore! Perhaps, divorce is really a relief, really a rebirth!

Conflicts arise when people get along with each other, even in intimate relationships such as husband and wife. If husband and wife can't be tolerant of each other, can't feel sorry for each other, and a little thing happens, it will be a lot of trouble, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will fade!

If you can't do it, if you can't respect each other, it's really a good practice to choose divorce.

Most people who are divorced should still look for the other half. The old man is gone, and the new man is coming! We should learn a good lesson, and in the next marriage, we should find someone who is similar to ourselves.

Having a common hobby and a common language with ourselves is probably the criterion for us to choose a mate again, right?

However, as the saying goes, it is difficult for couples to do it halfway. Halfway couples may have their own children, and it may be very difficult to deal with the relationship between these children. This requires each other to show wisdom and pay sincerity to face it.

I believe that if you really love, these contradictions can be resolved!

Since it is a remarriage, it is a second choice in life. Some people will be reborn and find their true love. And some people may repeat the mistakes of the past and fall into the quagmire of unhappy marriages.

There may also be people who are divorced and choose to live alone, as for whether they are happy or not, it is really cold and warm and self-aware!

I also have many relatives and friends around me who have divorced, and some people have lived happily after remarrying, because they have begun to learn to cherish and learn to be tolerant. And there is also a friend who is divorced but did not leave home, although it is said that they are temporarily together for the sake of their children.

In fact, it may be because there is no good next home yet. There are also one or two divorced women who have not chosen to remarry for several years, I wonder if they have lost confidence in marriage?

I regret it. Because I felt that I was very impulsive when I divorced at that time, and I was also very willful in my marriage, I felt very regretful when I recalled my marriage, and I felt that I did not cherish this relationship properly.

I don't regret it, and since the two people choose to divorce, it shows that they can't bear it at the time, and if they can endure it, there will be no divorce, and if they choose to divorce, they show that they want to break off contact with each other.

Of course, I won't regret it, because unless I can't bear it, I will never file for divorce, so if I file for divorce, it means that I have completely died to him, and I will never go back to eating grass again.

Since you have chosen to divorce, it proves that in this marriage, the love between the two of you is gone, so when you choose to divorce, there should not be a lot of regrets.

No! Because my significant other has no sense of responsibility and hits me a lot, I don't regret it.

I do feel very sorry because I was so impulsive.

I'm not very afraid that my other half will divorce me, if the other party really asks me for a divorce, I may agree immediately, because I actually miss the days of being single, and I really want to go back to the days of being single, but you have to understand, sometimes people are like this, they want to return to an identity, but they can't make up that decision, because they can't make up their minds, so I'm always thinking, one day the other party made an unforgivable mistake, and I finally have a reason to tell myself to leave.

I even look forward to the other party making mistakes many times, such as doing something unforgivable, so that I can say in front of a large family that it is his fault, it is not my fault that we separated, but that he was at fault first, and then secretly happy, I am finally single again, and I don't have to bother me with so many annoying things in the future, I can finally be myself again, but I can't make mistakes myself, our separation can't be separated because of my fault, I'm afraid of being blamed by everyone, So even though I wanted to separate, I never dared to mention it.

Therefore, if my other half divorces me, I will pretend to be reluctant, but I will be secretly happy, and then in the end I will reluctantly agree to his request, and then divorce quickly, and then try to share as much property as possible, so that I can live a better life. I believe that there are many women who, like me, are looking forward to the day when they can get divorced and not be blamed, and the other half feels sorry for themselves and gives them a little more property.

But my husband never seems to have this kind of thought, nor does he have such an idea, I have no way, in fact, I have mentioned divorce a few times, but I understand that he will not agree, and I am just really tired, angry, and want to rest when I say so, but do you think, if you get married, you can divorce, although there are many people who say divorce, but more people still insist on their marriage, I am also the one who wants to divorce, but has not been divorced.

Never scared. Because the two of them were very calm and calm when they were divorced, they just said their respective needs.

I wasn't scared, because I felt that if two people could get divorced, it meant that two people no longer had feelings.

I have never been afraid, because I have despaired of the other person and thought of the worst, so there is nothing to make me afraid.

How to say a lot of things now, are not very clear, if you really want to say a reason, it may be that the three views are not correct, the three views do not agree, and then there is no point of communication or the point of communication is not on the same screen. I can only say this, that is, there is no kind of love or the kind of communication that exists in feelings. Good foundation.

Generally speaking, if you have a child, you can rarely bring it up, because after all, you have to take care of the needs of the child's original family.

First, my mother-in-law is too strong, she has been involved in our family affairs since we got married, from buying a house and a car, to buying vegetables and daily necessities, she has to talk nonsense, she is a very frugal person, she picks up to the point that it is very uncomfortable, usually buy more than one dish she nagged that I will not save money, buy a dress for 100 yuan to tell her 20 yuan, otherwise she will be said endlessly, how do you explain to her that she insists on her statement, you can only walk away, otherwise you can't stand it. My husband's shoes were rotten and I threw them into the trash can on the side of the road, my mother-in-law was very unhappy, she was reluctant to throw them, and she went to pick them up while scolding and asked someone to make up for my husband to wear, there are countless examples of this!

Mother-in-law is not only too frugal, but also a person who can't be idle, she is sure that she does a lot of housework, but because she can't be idle, she asks us to be like her all day long looking for things to do, you are tired of work, take a break, she will give you a look.

Second, my husband's temper is too short-tempered, he scolds me for a long time if he doesn't agree with it, and he loses his temper when he does work a little slower than he expected, and scolds me for a long time like her mother.

Fortunately, my mother-in-law has not lived with us in the past two years, I feel a lot easier, and my husband's temper has changed a little, so it's just like this, I don't want to divorce anymore, after all, it's not necessarily better than now, so I try not to leave it for the sake of the child.

How to say a lot of things now, are not very clear, if you really want to say a reason, it may be that the three views are not correct, the three views do not agree, and then there is no point of communication or the point of communication is not on the same screen. I can only say this, that is, there is no kind of love or the kind of communication that exists in feelings. Good foundation.

Generally speaking, if you have a child, you can rarely bring it up, because after all, you have to take care of the needs of the child's original family.

I know. Regardless of family and personality incompatibility, etc. Because men want to marry a woman who will take care of their families; And the personality is incompatible, easy to quarrel.