After getting married, you find that your other half has betrayed, are you willing to give him a cha

I believe that many people will encounter a situation in reality, that is, after you get married, you find that your other half betrayed you, and some netizens asked if your other half betrayed you after getting married, would you forgive him, and would you like to give him a chance. I think if she betrays you after marriage, you don't have to give him a chance, and you don't have to forgive him. Just leave him.

Why do I say that? It's because I think love is two people who decide each other, give their lives to each other, and then choose to get married, since you are married, you should abide by this agreement, if one of them does not abide by it, and he chooses to betray you, I don't think you need to forgive him. First of all, you got married based on the principle of giving yourself to each other, if he has betrayed you, will you feel at ease if you give yourself to him?

Will you feel safe?

So for that reason, I don't think you should forgive him. Furthermore, I think that if a person chooses to betray his other half after getting married, it means that his moral character is not very good, if his moral character is not good, you still choose to be with him, are you not afraid of any other accidents in the future? And I believe that one thing is that if a person can betray you once, then it can betray you many times, and I don't think divorce is a big deal, after the divorce, you can also choose people who have similar interests with you, choose a person with high moral character.

It's not that you don't have a choice after a divorce, it's not that you lose everything after a divorce, it's not like that, since there are other options, why do you have to choose this bad one? For this reason, I also feel that I must punish the other person, just leave him, and don't give him a chance. Give him a chance, and he may think that you are a better talker.

I hope that everyone can adhere to this principle and not forgive each other easily.

If there is a child, I may give him a chance, the key is to see his attitude, if he is really unwilling to continue with me then I must take the initiative to quit. If I didn't have children, I wouldn't hesitate to divorce.

Unwillingness, no betrayal can be allowed, love needs loyalty, forgive the first betrayal, there may be a second time.

I don't want to, if I choose to forgive this kind of thing, then there must be a second time, because he will not change his ways because of my forgiveness, but will become more and more presumptuous, this is the inferior nature of human beings. So if I was betrayed, I would decisively give up this marriage.

Unwilling. Because the betrayal has left a rift in each other's hearts, the sense of trust cannot be restored to before the betrayal.

Whether it is a man or a woman, from the moment they enter the palace of marriage, people are looking forward to growing old together.

However, marriage is a blessing for some and a grave for others. I have to say that what many people face after marriage is trivial in one place.

If the husband and wife have a good relationship and the family is harmonious, then it can be regarded as lucky.

The terrible thing is that many people experience being betrayed by their other half after marriage, and their love is suddenly broken, which is more hurtful than trivial matters.

Maybe the trivial things in life will only make a person feel physically tired, but the betrayal of the other half of the sedan car can make a person physically and mentally exhausted and emotionally damaged.

Betrayal is common, but not every victim can be dealt with.

You must know that many people, after being betrayed by their other half, have not been able to win any of their own interests, and even put themselves in a greater predicament.

It is said that love makes people lose their minds, and most people are emotional at this time and don't know how to deal with it correctly.

And "sensibility" often makes them shout that they are not impulsive, and they make and say what they think in one go.

But it's not good for you, it will only put you in a more passive situation, a more embarrassing situation.

Many people will immediately file for divorce after discovering the betrayal of their other half, followed by a series of quarrels, and finally break up unhappily, and they do not get the protection they deserve.

Therefore, Ximei wants to remind everyone that impulsiveness is not the only solution, nor is it the best solution.

You have to know that if you find out that your other half has betrayed you, don't rush to divorce, it's more advantageous to do so:

Stay calm and don't make a lot of noise.

When you find out that your partner has betrayed you, you must stay calm and not make a big fuss.

After encountering such a thing, many people will choose to make a big fuss with each other, and everyone knows about it. Some will even go to the other half's place of work to make trouble, or find a third party to fight.

I will look at the seriousness of the matter, because the other half is also my most beloved person, if things develop to the point of being out of control, I will choose to break up with him, after all, touching the bottom line is the most unacceptable thing, if there is still room for maneuver, then I will give the other party a chance to change again, tolerate him once, but this does not mean cowardice.

I'm a person who cares about myself in my relationship, I definitely can't stand the betrayal, if my other half betrays me, then I just leave, and I won't tell him before leaving, just go to a place he doesn't know.

I would have chosen to break up because I myself would not forgive the betrayal. Therefore, it will also stop losses in time.

Betrayal once will have a second and third time, so directly over, this is nothing reluctant to be reluctant to, thinking that he has always been very affectionate, and he can frequently date other women [em05].

The problem of marriage is decided for yourself, and if you feel that it cannot be sustained, you can divorce, but you want to think twice.

Think about your children first, it's easy to do without children, if you don't love him anymore and can't bear his betrayal, then divorce, but if he is willing to repent, you are not completely disappointed in him, just give him a chance, of course, people are different, there are few people who can withstand the betrayal of the other party, it depends on how you choose.

If you love him again; Just give him a chance; It's also equivalent to giving yourself a chance.

I can't stand it, but you have to know what the cause is, and if he wants to mend his ways, I suggest you give him a chance for the sake of the child. Because the breakdown of one family directly affects the next generation.