I have seen each other for more than 20 years. It s been four years. There is no suitable one yet. I

Hello, you have failed so many times, failed for so many years, is it because you are too demanding, or you really don't know how to find the reason in yourself. In that case, I'm still alone.

When you are about to give up, maybe your true love will come As long as you ask for reliability, it is not difficult to be afraid that the kind of ugly ones will also require others to be very high, such an estimate will not find true love in this life Bless you.

Blind date is also luck, some people just make do, look not disgusted to try to date, if you feel that you can make do with the relationship, you may talk about marriage, you should be a blind date just to find a real love person, so I always feel inappropriate, but true love ** is so easy to find!

I don't know your age, but the current lifestyle, the pace is a bit fast, blind date but not necessarily a lot of time together, it's just a simple impression of the blind date, and a simple understanding of the life background. The so-called suitable person is a very small existence, comparatively speaking, it is a like-minded person who can live together and have similar views.

Don't give up, don't be in a hurry, it's just that he hasn't appeared yet, wait quietly, you will definitely meet him. aqui te amo。

Trust in fate. Don't be discouraged. At the same time, it is necessary to summarize what the reasons for inappropriateness are and adjust their own standards. It would be better that way.

Because you are too serious and have too much hope for this relationship. As the saying goes: with great hope, great disappointment.

1. There is definitely hope.

You say, "Now I just want to find a smiling partner to marry, as long as you look at each other and have a good temper", I guess there may be girls who think the same way, look at each other and get married steadily. It's just that you haven't met a girl like this for a while. So in terms of your question at the moment, I think, there is definitely hope.

The easiest way is to just find a girl who has similar needs to you. I want to share with you more than that, because your requirements don't seem high, and they are not easy to achieve.

2. Explore your real needs.

Can you tell us why you want to get married? Is it to satisfy the demands of others or is it? Have you ever imagined your life after you get married?

Maybe you think that a plain married life is fine, and it doesn't matter if you like it or not. I wonder what your family of origin is like? Because our attitudes towards marriage are generally influenced by our family of origin.

You mentioned that you have never liked anyone for more than 30 years, is it because you haven't met someone you like, or you don't know what it's like to be liked? These two are different. Still want to be with you**, do you like yourself?

Do you like your parents, siblings, or friends? Although such liking is not the same as liking the opposite sex, if we are not sensitive to liking this feeling, or if we close off this feeling, then I think in general, a girl would rather not marry than marry a boy who is not so fond of herself. Marriage is not easy to maintain if it is not based on feelings.

Therefore, we might as well take this opportunity to explore our true thoughts and needs.

3. Is it really that important to like it?

I wonder if you are very rational in life? Do you feel your own feelings that you don't easily express? What about anything other than the feeling that I don't like anyone?

What about work, socializing, or other emotional feelings? Each of our emotions deserves to be valued. It doesn't matter if you like it, you dislike it, and so on.

In our lives, we all use some defense mechanisms to protect ourselves. Among them are repression, emotional isolation, intellectualization of touching rocks, and so on. Emotional isolation is ubiquitous and has a definite positive effect.

It's just not possible to quarantine for too long.

Personally, I think it's important to take your time to find the feeling you like. Whether it's a favorite thing or a favorite person. Maybe you just haven't met someone you particularly like, if likes can be measured, divided into 0 to 10 points, then have you experienced 1, 2, or 3 points of like?

For example, being willing to get to know someone of the opposite sex, being willing to be close to her, and trying to understand her. Take your time, find the feeling you like, and your problem may be solved.

There is hope, emotional things can not be too anxious, to take your time, the object of marriage must find a mutual look pleasing to the eye, and the temper is compatible, but also to find a sedan sock tour a special care about you, especially good to you, when you meet a favorite person to sell, but also to boldly confess.

I don't think it's hopeless, maybe you really haven't met your other half yet, fate is a very wonderful thing, and you can't rush it.

It's not like that, it's very likely that the people around you and the people you meet on a blind date don't have your ideal type, and you should go on a few more blind dates.

It's really a lifetime thing. I think men and women are different, and if you don't feel like him at first sight, it's hard to cultivate if you want to feel it later.

Now that you are playing with a girl because of pressure, then you have a rebellious heart in your heart, and the more your family puts pressure on you, the more you say that you are useless, the more impatient you are with this girl.

If you really can't help it, this girl is not bad, but you simply don't feel it, you don't think of playing with her as a task, you should play with a friend. In this way, if you don't look at this girl with colored eyes, maybe you will find that she is not the same beauty; Second, you can also treat this play as a kind of leisure for yourself, rather than a task; Third, after you and the girl get to know each other better, you can explain to the girl how you feel in your heart, and at the same time take into account her feelings, girls generally won't pester you. And breaking up this kind of thing may be more effective for the woman, and your parents will not be entangled anymore.

Note that it must be sincere, sincere, and must take into account the girl's self-esteem. In fact, as long as you are sincere and sincere, most girls will understand you, and even if you can't become lovers in the end, you can still become friends. Even if you get married in the end, you can at least respect each other, right?

I still feel that no matter what your parents do, it's for your own good. As long as you sincerely talk to your parents, talk to the woman, respect each other, trust each other, and they will understand you.

This is normal, you may think that girls are almost the same with low emotional intelligence, and no matter how good you are, you will not be too positive, so sometimes one thing that parents need to consider, of course, must be that the girl is really good.

Truth be told, marriage really can't be sloppy. 27What's wrong? What's wrong with not having a house?

None of this is a problem. It's just that at your age, you must have your own ideas about marriage and your requirements for the other half, and it is difficult to choose. But remember, there is no perfect woman, and there is no marriage that will last forever.

Since you don't have a passion for pursuing, then find a suitable place and think about your marriage.

Sometimes there must be something in life, and if it is not suitable, say it, after all, for a lifetime.

This is related to the happiness of your life, do not be careless, listen to the call of your heart.

Well, long live understanding, at this age, it's understandable that parents are anxious. You can play tricks first to see if the other party is suitable for you. If you have a little feeling for each other, first try to open your heart and accept each other, so that you can shorten the distance, understand each other better, and abandon those traditional ideas and concepts.

Personally, I think that 27 is nothing in today's society, poor couples mourn everything, you understand the sentence, and you don't like that woman to be in a hurry.