Examples of asking for kindness without expecting anything in return stories.

Kindness does not ask for anything in return - I feel when I read "Perseverance-Kindness".

Because I want to update the "Weekly Message" of the school, Mr. Zhang Baorong recommended an article "Perseverance-Kindness" to me, and after I read it, I made a simple arrangement and wrote it in the "Weekly Message" column. Every time I finish writing this, the children want to read it, the teachers want to read it, but the biggest gain is that I not only have improved in chalk writing, but also have a deep feeling for these beautiful articles.

The definition of the word kindness in the Modern Chinese Dictionary is clear and definite: "pure heart, without malice." But the kindness I understand, in addition to being pure in heart and free from malice, should contain at least two other important meanings, that is, to be generous and to advocate compassion; Be kind to life, be kind and selfless.

When I was a child, my kind and kind parents often taught me this: "Be honest and kind, magnanimous, understand etiquette, know honesty and shame, be based on benevolence, righteousness and love, and distinguish between good and evil." Be lenient in life, plant more flowers, and pick fewer thorns.

It is better to plant a tree than to add a hurdle. "Every time I think of these, I often think: in fact, kindness is how simple the truth, we insist on a little kindness, everyone insists on a little kindness, and colleagues do not cheat, and children are sincere, as long as it is beneficial to the development of children, we will do it, less complaining, more peaceful, our educational life can be much happier because we have a kind and pious heart.

It is kind to give a little tolerance to a child who makes a mistake, it is kind to insist on education for a little habit of students, it is also kind to be responsible for every lesson of yourself, it is kind to give timely help to children, it is kind to get along with colleagues in harmony, it is kind to bend down and pick up a piece of waste paper, it is also kind to give a step when you encounter a dispute, it is also kind to give a sincere advice to a friend, and even a small action is kind to children, such as: an encouraging look, affectionate words, touch the child's head, and talk with the child、、、

We can do more with kindness, kindness makes the world full of benevolence, and the years are full of warmth. Mencius said that benevolence is invincible in the world. Life is a long process, with sunshine, frost, snow, wind and rain; There are sweet, sour, spicy and salty, no matter when and where you are, no matter what kind of life path you choose, I believe that as long as you stick to kindness, the flower of life will definitely bloom incomparably gorgeous.

True kindness is not to ask for anything in return, to do a good deed, to express kindness, not to get praise and return from others, but for a kind of self-consistency, a kind of naturalness.

First of all, in the context of kindness being disappointed, "disappointed" is given by others, which is the root of this sentence. If goodwill is intended to be rewarded with fame or material, then it cannot simply be called goodwill. Of course, I do not deny the correctness of repaying kindness, and it is also a valuable kindness to repay kindness.

Then, the scenario of kindness being let down may be: I have obviously done altruistic things, I am doing it out of kindness, thinking about others, or even sacrificing my own interests, but he does not appreciate it, ridicules him, speaks ill of him, and even slanders, which in turn hurts me.

In this way, we have to mention the moderation and positive expression in the process of goodwill expression.

When we do a good deed, this "good" is our subjective concept, we think that doing so is an altruistic thing, but we may understand the information more one-sidedly, resulting in the result of doing bad things with good intentions, and more sadly, you may not know that you have done bad things with good intentions.

Let's take an example of shoddy work.

Walking on the road, he saw a very poor little child squatting on the corner of the street, his body was tattered, his hair was messy, and there was a dirty bowl in front of him, and he silently handed him the bread in the bag, but the child was stunned for a moment and smashed the bread on him, glared at him fiercely and ran away. Stunned and a little angry, he watched the child run away, feeling that his kindness had been betrayed.

However, the child was not a beggar, the broken bowl was there, he was just bullied, he could only flee to the crowded street corner, and wait for his grandparents to pick him up, while a group of children on the opposite side were looking at him with bad intentions. The children opposite laughed one after the other as the bread was placed in the bowl, knowing that "beggar" would be his next "name".

No one will introduce you to the background knowledge before you do a good deed, and of course, a well-intentioned act cannot be premeditated for a long time, it is just a momentary judgment of us, a subconscious action.

Therefore, it is inevitable that we will not notice our words, ignore our facial expressions, ignore the environment around us, and finally cause harm.

If your kindness is not rewarded accordingly, will you insist on it?

Yes, I will insist on kindness. Because kindness is not about getting something, in return. Kindness is a quality, a virtue. This kind of virtue does not need to be reciprocated. She just does what she's supposed to do, and as for the reward, that's another matter.

A kind person, he is a kind of dedication from the heart. It's a special finger in the bones. He couldn't do that.

Get out of the way of the unkind. Therefore, her kindness can be reflected in all aspects of his words and deeds and his way of dealing with people. Kind people are generally more self-disciplined.

They will give the good to others. without expecting anything in return. Now our quality is getting higher and higher, so there are more and more kind people.

Our society is also becoming more and more harmonious. There are many kind people. Our society is much more stable and harmonious.

Kindness is not pretended, she is a kind of persistence, not to say that you can do one thing and do kindness, but to be kind forever. Whatever you do? Be kind.

mentality to maintain the essence of goodness. Those who are not kind. I will also slowly be touched by kindness.

Our society needs good people so much. Everyone needs to give their true feelings and feelings to do good things.

Kindness does not need to be reciprocated, if your kindness is something that needs to be reciprocated. Then I don't think you're pure in your kindness. Pure kindness, try me to do it.

I do what I should do, and I do what I want. As for how others do it, how to deal with it, that's someone else's business? So we don't need that when we're done.

The corresponding reward is not that I will give you a piece of candy today and a piece of cake tomorrow. Not really. Love is a quality that can be reflected in ordinary words and deeds.

So we still need to be kind people and don't need to reciprocate. Do what you think you should do. Peace of mind.

To help others, to be kind to others.

Of course, there are many unkind factors around us. Regardless of whether others are good or not? Be sure to be kind and let your heart be full of sunshine.

For those who are not limited to the phenomenon of goodness or is. Very ugly phenomenon that we should all take advantage of. Approach with peace of mind.

Let those unkind factors have no soil for the existence of the ground. As long as we are kind. Everything was wonderful.

There are also many people who have done something good by herself and want others to report it. In fact, sometimes he will be very angry if he does not reciprocate. Then I feel like what I'm doing isn't worth it.

There are also many such people. We don't need to reciprocate for doing good deeds, and only this mentality can persist in being kind. If you still ask for something in return, then your kindness is not thorough enough.

So no matter what the circumstances. Hunger for your kindness, if you don't get the corresponding reward before the rotten preparation, you still have to insist on being kind.

Fleming, a poor Scottish farmer, was working in the fields one day when he heard someone crying for help from a nearby bore. He put down his farming tools and ran to the edge of the swamp, where he found a child falling into it, and quickly rescued him.

The next day, a brand-new carriage pulled up at his doorstep, and down stepped an elegant gentleman who claimed to be the father of the child.

The gentleman said, "I will repay you for saving my son's life." The farmer refused: "I don't ask for anything in return for saving people." Just then, the farmer's son came in from outside the house.

The gentleman asked, "Is this your son?" The farmer proudly said, "Yes." ”

The gentleman said, "Let me make a deal, let me take him, and give him a good education, and he will surely become a man of pride for you in the future." The farmer agreed.

Later, the farmer's son graduated from St. Mary's Medical College and became the world-famous Sir Fleming Alexander, the inventor of penicillin, who won the Nobel Prize in Medicine in 1945.

A few years later, the gentleman's son contracted pneumonia, and it was penicillin that saved his life. Who is the gentleman's son? It was British Prime Minister Winston Churchill.

A little kindness of a farmer has brought such a major change to the world, which shows that the power of kindness cannot be underestimated.

True kindness is not the piety on the cushion, but the respect and care for others in the subtleties of life. Accumulation of virtue does not need to be seen, and God knows how to do good!

Do you remember the short video that swiped the screen last year?

The children use their most innocent kindness to silently deduce: true kindness, solving other people's difficulties at the material level; At the same time, on the spiritual level, take care of the other person's self-esteem.

As the old saying goes: People are good, although blessings have not come, disasters have been far away. Those who do good deeds are like the grass of a spring garden, and they do not see their drom growing, but they are increasing day by day.

We all live in an interconnected society, and helping others is perfecting ourselves, and this is really useful for your future!