On one side is the person I love, and on the other side is the person who loves me, who should I cho

Be happy to be loved.

If I had to choose, I would choose to be loved, because being loved is happiness, if you don't love him, feelings are slowly accumulating, and getting along slowly may be better than going to yourself, if you choose what you love, you may be tired, you choose what you love, you will take care of him for a lifetime, if you choose to love you, he will take care of you for a lifetime, just like the old man before, he was not loved and did not love his person, and then people were not also a lifetime, some things are fateful, because even if you choose what you love, you will not necessarily be together, Maybe you choose to love you, maybe you will be together, people are destined, not who says who will be together, I wish you can find someone who loves you and the person you love.

Is this a good choice?

aLove you, and you love him, and if you give up even him, you are too unfaithful to your own feelings...

You choose B, maybe his family is very good to you, but he himself must know that your heart is not with him, and now he is like a departure from you, thinking that he will be good to you is even more unknown, although his family likes you a lot, but if he says that he is not good to you, then does it make sense for you there.?

It's true that his family is better, but if there is no relationship between the two of you at all, do you think you will be happy in the future, maybe you will fall in love for a long time, but in the case of a lover in your heart, it is also very difficult to fall in love for a long time.

Disturbing. Waiting for you to slowly have feelings for you?

And I think that a person like B, he must also have someone he likes, and if you are with him, life may be better, but it may not be happy.

What about a? Maybe his family conditions are not very good, and his family is not very good to you, but you love each other, you are so young, can't you live a better life with your own efforts?

You can understand that your family will let you live well before you want to be with B, but there are many things they can't take into account, so you have to let them understand.

Other people's opinions are always other people's opinions, think about it yourself.

Happiness is in your own hands, don't hesitate like this anymore, A may not always be there to wait for you, he will also have his own considerations

But any smart person will choose to love his own person, because the person who loves himself, he (she) will really care about your feelings, know how to understand you, tolerate you, love you, and the person you love, when you give everything for him (her), it is estimated that he (she) only has family affection for you and no love at all.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.