Why do families that feel like they have boys are less divorced?

I think it's because there is a patriarchal mentality in today's society, so there are relatively few divorces in families with boys.

Because of such a family, husband and wife will work together for their son, and at the same time, they will feel that life is relatively happy.

This is the wrong feeling, the low divorce rate of families with children is not easy for two people to cherish a home.

1. Most women in the demolition hall are not financially independent, do not have a good economic foundation, or choose to be a full-time mother after giving birth, and are completely financially dependent on men. When the marriage came to an end, Li Trembling was unable to raise the child alone and was forced to choose to give up the child.

2. Some women are more selfish, and when they divorce, they only think about their future life, and it is very difficult to live with children after divorce, and it is not good to remarry if they remarry, so they choose to give up their children.

3. When most people divorce, the man will go all out to fight for the boy's right to raise the boy, the man thinks that the boy is the root of his family and cannot be taken away by the woman, and the woman is not as dominant as the woman in terms of economic income, housing and other conditions, so she cannot fight for the custody of the child. The family that gives birth to a girl generally depends on the woman's opinion, and the girl can be raised by whomever she wants, but most of them are raised by the woman.

Therefore, I think that men and women should have children after marriage after careful consideration, and both parties are ready to be parents before deciding to have children, so that children can grow up in a loving family, and if the marriage breaks down, they should also consider which party the child is more suitable to live with, so as to minimize the harm to the child.

The reason why most people choose to have a boy is because people think that boys can be passed on from generation to generation. Therefore, most people choose to ask boys to attack and judge, in fact, in this society, boys and girls are the same.

This problem can be viewed from two sides. On the one hand, there has always been a folk saying that "one son tops ten mothers", which means that as long as the family has a son, then even if the mother is not very good, life can still go on, and what about the father, because someone has already passed on the lineage, and has no intention of reorganizing the family from scratch, as long as the woman does not take the initiative to ask for divorce, then the man is also willing to make peace. This is the reason why many men have extramarital affairs, but they will not easily divorce their original partners.

After all, divorce and remarriage, all social network resources have to be reorganized again, which is expensive and laborious, and it is really not cost-effective.

On the other hand, I also have experience from marriage introductions. My second aunt works in a marriage agency, and she once told me that the popularity list of divorced people (especially men) is as follows: divorced and childless are the best, followed by divorced and have daughters, and the least popular is divorced and have sons!

Why does having a son affect a second marriage? Because, it is difficult to be a stepmother, if the other party originally had a daughter, it wouldn't be long before she got married; And if the other party has a son, then you will get along for a longer time, in case the time comes to find a daughter-in-law who is not easy to get along with for you, happy to recognize you as a stepmother, unhappy may not recognize you, the bleak scene of the evening, you can imagine it yourself.

Similarly, if a divorced woman has a son, it is not easy to find a remarriage partner, and the reason is the same as the second point above. In addition, there is one more difficulty, that is, it will involve future property disputes, not to mention how much property the other party can divide, that is, things like buying a house for children and getting married in the future are also enough headaches, which is also the most important point for most men when considering finding a second-married woman as a marriage partner.

Finally, in the traditional old concept, "raising children to prevent old age" is a lot of people's cognition, since they already have a son, they don't have to worry when they are old in the future, even if the husband and wife are not in harmony and must be divorced, there are some people who will live alone with their sons, rather than choosing to remarry. And those who have the heart to choose to live alone with their children will naturally be particularly cautious about divorce, and they will not leave unless they have to.

Because the Chinese have a deep-rooted sense of preference for sons, if there are boys in the family, it will promote family harmony.

Because girls are rich and boys are poor, and the father has more important responsibilities in the boy's family, he is very hesitant to leave.

Because of the patriarchal mentality, having a boy means having offspring, and you need to work harder for the future of your offspring, so you don't have time to think about other things.

Because having a boy satisfies the wishes of her husband and in-laws, and avoids family conflicts caused by patriarchy.

Because many families prefer sons over daughters, they feel good after giving birth to a boy, otherwise they will divorce because they can't give birth to a boy.

This is because of the influence of traditional Chinese thought, which is generally patriarchal, and both parties who have a boy attach more importance to loving the boy, and will compromise with each other for the sake of the child, so the divorce rate is low.

Are there fewer divorces in families with boys? It turns out that this is true, but what is the reason?

Because most families are patriarchal. So both husband and wife want boys, and having a boy doesn't care so much.

Because both parties in such a family will work very hard to live, they will also feel that the relationship is stronger, so there are fewer divorces.

Because the phenomenon of preference for sons over women has been relatively common since ancient times. After giving birth to a boy, the status of the mother will be improved to a certain extent, so the divorce of families with boys is relatively rare.

Personally, I think it's because in order to give the child a good family, not to let the child become a single-parent family, and I want to give a better education and growth environment to the boy, because I personally think that most families are very patriarchal, and having a boy will cause both parties to be reluctant to leave the child, so I feel that the family with a boy is less divorced.

This is because in the family with a boy, both husband and wife are under a lot of pressure, and they will also consider that if the two divorce, it is very difficult for the son to remarry whom, and such a family, the husband and wife will be special, and the relationship is relatively stable when they work hard.

The low divorce rate in families with boys is first of all because of a man's sense of responsibility, when he knows that he has a son, he will put words and deeds into his life;

The second is that the family that gives birth to a boy is generally loved and valued by the in-laws, so if a family likes this woman, the divorce rate will be very low;

Third, due to the pressure of life, both husband and wife must work together to make the marriage more lasting and happy.

Many marriages are on the verge of death, but they are barely maintained for the sake of their children, especially many families with sons. The reason is that many parents choose to stay up all the time in order to give their children a complete family. In addition, if you choose a partner after divorce, you will have a lot fewer opportunities to choose.

The current social conditions are getting better and better, but the divorce rate is also getting higher and higher year by year. The reason is that many women are becoming more and more independent, unlike in the past, when they needed to rely on their husbands for food, once there is an irreconcilable contradiction between two people, then she may choose to divorce. But there are still many people who choose to continue to stay up, and the reason why these people continue to stay up is that they want to give their children a complete family, after all, if they have a stepmother, they will have a stepfather, and if they can't give up their children and take their sons away, then the cost of remarriage is relatively high.

Many men may accept a woman with a daughter, but they will never accept a woman with a son. Because it's a son, you're going to marry him a daughter-in-law in the future, and the cost is too great!

Conversely, if a man has a son, the probability of marrying another wife will be much smaller. After all, it is a big expense to buy a house for a son and marry a daughter-in-law, and the pressure can be imagined, so many people are already discouraged before this pressure comes.

When two people get married, it is best not to divorce if they can not divorce, after all, the original match is always the best. In this way, not only can you give the child a complete family, but you don't have to find another one and run in, which also takes a lot of energy to come and go. But if this marriage really can't go on, your other half's behavior is too disappointing for you, and you yourself have a good way out, then you can also choose the path of divorce.

Sometimes, divorce may be a relief.

What are the reasons why families with sons rarely divorce?

Nowadays, the divorce rate in our country remains high, and there are more and more divorced couples. These divorced couples are most likely divorced when they feel that the other party is not suitable during the run-in process of marriage. Some of these divorced couples have no children, but some families have children.

And there are studies that show that the divorce rate in families with sons is much lower than that in families with daughters. So why is that? Actually, there are several reasons for this.

01, the son gives the family a sense of belonging In fact, in a divorced family, a large part of the man asks for a divorce. The probability of the woman asking for a divorce is relatively small, while the son can have a lot of common topics with the father, and the two get along like brothers. Therefore, the son can bring more sense of belonging to the family to the father.

Compared with the delicate mind of the daughter, the heroism of the son can better maintain the feelings of the family.

And boys are generally more naughty, and they have to worry a lot more about raising than daughters. The couple must communicate to determine how to raise the child. Therefore, raising a son can also speed up the run-in between husband and wife, and when the relationship between the husband and wife is good, the divorce rate will naturally be low.

02, the concept of patriarchy, there are many families that divorce because of patriarchy. Although equality between men and women is advocated in China today, the old concept of preference for sons over women is still prevalent in some places. Marriage is not a matter for two people, but between two families.

If the man's family is patriarchal, he keeps talking about having a son when the woman is pregnant.

After giving birth to a daughter, she kept giving birth until she gave birth to a son, which made the woman very angry and sad. The psychological pressure of the woman who is urged to give birth to a son is very great, and if the woman has a little resistance, she will choose to divorce. Therefore, the concept of preference for sons over daughters is still very lethal to the relationship between husband and wife.

03, the raising of boys costs more moneyAlthough equality between men and women is now advocated, the parenting of boys and girls is still different in nature. If a girl gets married, she only needs to accompany some dowry, and the cost is not so high. And if it is a boy, the parents will naturally think about the house and the bride price.

If the couple divorces, they will definitely consider the issue of children. If it's a daughter, it doesn't cost that much. But if it is a boy, the divorcing spouse should prepare a house and a bride price for the boy.

If you spend too much, one of them will not be able to afford it. Therefore, the divorce rate of families with sons is relatively low.

Summary: It's not that it's better to have a son than a daughter in a married life. In fact, according to the social form and our remaining traditional consciousness, having a son can indeed reduce the divorce rate.

But if the husband and wife are not suitable in all aspects of the personality and family, they should not choose to get married. Living in a loveless home from an early age can have a big impact on growth.

And the relationship between the husband and wife needs more than just children to maintain. Only when both people take care of each other can the relationship between husband and wife be longer.

Families with sons rarely divorce for the following reasons, the first point, the ideology of preference for sons, mothers are more expensive than children, if a family's daughter-in-law gives birth to a son, for the sake of the son generally will not divorce, the second point, even if the marriage comes to an end, but for the sake of their son, two people are willing to stay up together, point 3, if after the divorce, the woman or the man with a son, one is not good to marry, the other is not good to remarry, because with the son in the future to marry a wife and buy a house or something The burden is heavier, no one wants to marry, No one wants to marry, and through the above 3 points, it can be shown that families with sons are generally not easy to divorce.

First of all, after having a child, the family will spend time and energy on the child, and then many times some people will still have the idea of preference for sons, and after having a son, they will also pay special attention to the child's mother.

First of all, there is this patriarchal mentality in people's minds. Especially the elderly in the family, if they give birth to a son, they will especially respect the daughter-in-law. Second, in a family that has given birth to a son, the man will be under more pressure, and he will not have other thoughts.

The older generation of people prefer sons over daughters, and the in-laws of the families who give birth to sons generally have a better attitude and are not easy to create conflicts.