Can someone help me untie the knot?

First of all, it's quite tiring to read your article, and I don't know what format you use.

I think your feelings are very valuable, but they are by no means naïve. I'm not as attached as you, but I appreciate people like that.

What I liked when I was in elementary school, I often don't like it in junior high school, and I don't feel it in high school anymore, and I don't feel it anymore when I like high school, and I don't have the same feeling when I get to college, and I am very obsessed with graduation in college, oh, and it feels like that, why? It should be that I haven't found what I really like until now, in fact, that's all.

But one thing you have to understand is that just because you can be attached to other people's feelings doesn't mean that everyone can do it, and you don't have the right to force others to do it. After all, the two people who are extremely persistent in their feelings are still very few individual cases, and the probability of existence is also extremely low, otherwise themes such as Liang Zhu would not have been talked about to this day.

Most of the time, two hearts pursuing love collide at the same time at a specific moment after groping for each other for a long time, resulting in a spark of love. Let's face it, guy, you don't have such good luck to find your own all at once, and at this age it is difficult, she doesn't love you and you have to face the reality, it doesn't mean that she doesn't keep her oath, because she has already obeyed it at that specific moment, and that particular moment is limited to the eternity of the relationship between the two of you. I believe that your real partner will appear soon, just like I expect my real other half, so deal with the college entrance examination well.

By the way, you can't kick it when a woman falls in love with you, but think about it yourself, hehe!

If you want to open up, she is not all you have, you have your own life, and you will have to be the right person waiting for you in the future, you can't give up a forest for a tree, right, now your learning is still the most important. In the near future, you will meet someone who is worth your giving.

Pure first love, it's gone after separation, everyone has it, it's like a cold, you can't let go because you haven't met the next one yet, this time is slow! Everybody comes over like this, it's like a game, is it fun to always go around in one place? Hurry up and upgrade to find the next level is the last word.

People change, and she's right. Isn't it just talking about things and people, I want to open up.

Don't base your spiritual pillar on anyone, or you're doomed to misery.

Time can change a lot of things.

After 10 years, she may have been a mother a few times.

If you can't get out of the knot, it will affect all aspects of your life, and even have a negative impact on work and study. This situation needs to be addressed promptly, by confiding, distracting, seeking a psychologist.

The help of these three methods to solve the problem is specifically seen in the following three points:

1. Confide. When we have a knot in our hearts, we can confide in those close to us, express our unhappiness and knots, and seek help and understanding from others. Avoiding digesting emotions on your own can make knots more difficult to unravel.

2. Divert attention.

If the knot is temporarily difficult to untie. Then shift your attention first and avoid letting it continue to expand and affect your life. You can go out for a short trip, temporarily stay away from the environment and people that make you feel knots, and wait for your emotions to calm down slowly, and then go to untie the knots rationally.

3. Seek help from a psychologist.

If you can't untie your knot by diverting your attention and your relatives and friends, you need the help of a professional psychologist to intervene in your declining mood and find a correct way out and solution.

Completely untie the knot, and only completely let go, is to find a better friend, or family members to communicate well, tell them your thoughts and troubles, let them comfort and enlighten you, if it is a secret for yourself, then find some appropriate way to vent, you can also do something you are interested in, divert your attention, let yourself no longer think about it, slowly for a long time, you can forget it, adjust your mentality.

If you want to completely untie the knot in your heart, you need to open your heart, only if you open your heart, your heart knot will be opened, only then will others be willing to help you, after all, some things are stuffy in your heart and not say it is very uncomfortable, and over time, it will naturally affect your mood.

Try to forget that it has been a long time, and slowly you will untie the knots in your heart.

To untie a person's heart knot, we must touch the depths of his soul through some educational things, so that he can truly realize that he should let go, rather than blindly being stupid, and often the people who can really let go are enlightened, truly come out of the shadows, and renew their own good life.

Your apology is not very sincere, you can explain your reasons repeatedly, your friend doesn't know if he will forgive you for the abuse, this matter depends on whether your relationship is iron.

It's good to sincerely tolerate each other, and there is no Maitreya Bodhisattva in the south.

There are still many ways to untie your own heart knot, the first way to untie your heart knot is to open your heart, the second way to untie your heart knot is to talk about misunderstandings, the third way to untie your heart knot is to divert attention, and the fourth way to untie your heart knot is to seek medical attention in time. The following is the content of "how to untie your own knot", interested partners can continue to read and understand.

1. Open your heart: The reason why an orange excitement thing can become a knot in the heart is that Cong Jingmo means that this matter has been bothering him for a long time, so it is actually useless to hide it in his heart, it is better to tell his relatives and friends, maybe they can help.

2. Talk about the misunderstanding: There is a saying that "the bell must be tied to the bell", so you still need to untie the knot yourself, to face those people and things, Yongyuan Zheng Socks dare to talk about the misunderstanding.

3. Divert attention: Time is the best medicine in the heart, if you really don't want to face some very bad things, then shift your attention to other places, such as reading a book, running or listening, etc.

4. Seek medical treatment in time: If you really don't know how to solve it, or you can't think of a way to solve it, then it is recommended that you consult a professional psychologist and ask him to give us ideas.

If a person has a knot in his heart and continues for a long time, then this person will easily cause his psychology to become depressed, or cause his psychology to become nervous, and even lead to a series of mental illnesses.

Summary. Such a boy is more cautious, just like a child, if this is the case, you can coax him, I think he will be better this way. Such a person is easier to deal with, just coax him.

Dear, in this case, you need to understand what the other party is. For example, emotionally, at work, or at home. The specific situation is on a case-by-case basis.

It's like a key to open a lock, if you can, can you tell me about it?

We broke up before I got a boyfriend, and now we're reconciled, but he hasn't been able to let go.

It means that this person is relatively small-minded, so it takes time to recover slowly, it is recommended that you be as careful as possible not to go too far, and you can also take the initiative to care about him, so that he can see your changes and may be able to recover his mood faster.

The important thing is not to always reveal his scars, the past is in the past, and it is better to avoid mentioning it as much as possible.

We talked for seven or eight years before, my heart was very tormented, and then he was hospitalized, and I broke up with me all the time, and he had a knot in his heart, but I love her very much, and I know that he also loves me in his heart, and he has been thinking about my breakup recently, and he said that he can't get over this hurdle.

Such a boy is more cautious, just like a child, if this is the case, you can coax him, I think he will be better this way. Such a person is easier to deal with, just coax him.

You can show that you love him more with actions. Talking doesn't work very well at this time. You can persuade him appropriately. It's like coaxing a child.

It also shows that this person is relatively simple, and he will care a lot about all the past, so some aspects let him make choices is conducive to the progress of your relationship.

I hope mine is helpful to you, if you need to contact me at any time, the cost is very low, the effect is very good, and there is professional analysis guidance, I think this is more suitable for your situation. Thank you!

1. Talk to your parents.

If your parents are patriarchal, you should find an opportunity to talk to your parents and tell you about the depression in your heart, if your parents can hear your heart and make changes, your situation will be better.

2. Be kind to your brothers.

Don't blame your brother because your parents are patriarchal, they are all siblings, your father and mother love him, you should also love him, and your parents will not embarrass you too much when they see that you treat your brother very well.

3. Make yourself better.

If your parents are patriarchal and make you very unhappy, you have to make yourself better, better, and more productive than your brothers.

4. Be kind to yourself.

If parents prefer sons over daughters, don't complain too much about your parents, as long as you are not an only child, your parents are partial, rather than waiting for others to love you, it is better to treat yourself well and make yourself happy.

5. Learn to vent your emotions.

If you are really sad, you can find a place where no one is envious and cry, vent all the sadness in your heart, and make some sincere and kind friends, so that you can have friendship even if you lack family affection.

6. Show your best self.

When you become a brother and Lu Gong has tempered an excellent self, show your outstanding abilities in front of your parents, lead the family to a better future, and make your parents feel ashamed of their previous short-sightedness, so as to resolve the knot.