Chasing girls, what seem to be stupid, but actually smart?

is to chase women, you have to take the initiative to be honest and tell women about your situation, although this kind of behavior is very silly, but it can make women believe in you more.

What is a really smart person?

Is it someone with expertise in a particular field? Not necessarily. For example, if a person is very proficient in excavator technology, does it mean that he is "smart"?

Are those people highly educated? This is not necessarily reliable. Some people have a high degree just because they have no choice but to keep learning and reach the passing line, which does not mean how good they are in this field.

Is it about origin and background? This is even more unreliable. Do those who are famous and come from prestigious schools do less stupid things?

In fact, "intelligence" is a state that is difficult to define and has clear standards, which has a lot to do with IQ, emotional intelligence, learning ability, reaction ability, depth of thinking, and experience.

Many times, you can only perceive the extraordinaryness of the other person through long-term contact or through some special things. From a psychological point of view, if a person has these characteristics, although on the surface it may seem "goofy", the core is often extremely intelligent.

1) People who know how to be self-critical and dare to admit their shortcomings.

Fools are stupid because they don't know, so they don't change.

This outward manifestation is to be proud, as if to admit how embarrassing your problems are. They don't want to admit their ignorance, so they can't be promoted. Then, we will only shirk responsibility and throw away all sorts of pots after the mistake has occurred.

Really smart people will take the initiative to admit their limitations and various deficiencies in advance. It seems to be a "weak" person, but only when you come into contact with the other person, you will understand the strength of the other person.

2) Be curious about things.

In many cultures, whether a person is curious or not is often the starting point for judging whether a person is smart or not.

It can be said that people with curiosity are not necessarily smart, but people without curiosity are certainly not smart.

Only by being curious about various things in life can there be more opportunities to acquire new knowledge. If a person is very capable of learning, but not curious enough, it is difficult for him to have knowledge and experience.

Curious people sometimes show a "silly" state of curiosity, as if they will do something silly and strange, but that doesn't mean they're not smart.

3) Manifest different personalities in different people.

Really smart people don't always show great intelligence. When dealing with different people, they tend to show different states. Because they know it's the most efficient and comfortable way to socialize.

Many times, they deliberately act stupid in order to reduce the vigilance of others and achieve their own goals.

Rather, it's the kind of "smart people" who dangle in half a bottle and like to show off their intelligence and intelligence.

4) Don't follow the crowd.

It's hard not to follow the crowd, because it's often not so stupid to follow the masses until the results are in, so an independent person looks like a "fool" at this point.

It is for this reason that almost everyone has a herd mentality. Most people can't think for themselves and don't have the courage to disagree.

Conclusion: Do you have such people around you? What do you think a truly "smart person" should look like.