At what point did you really realize that you were really poor?

I feel poor a lot of the time, and I always feel like I've never been rich. Although I don't have to worry about food or clothing, I don't have money to buy a lot of things I want to buy, I can't afford to eat a lot of delicacies I want to eat, and I can't go to many places I want to go. When I go shopping with my friends and see a dress that I particularly like and looks good to wear, but I can't afford it or am reluctant to buy it, and my friends keep saying that this dress suits me very well.

I, just now I took a fancy to a pair of leather shoes, wearing a good look, 268 I hesitated, and finally didn't buy it, and now I'm home, I don't know why I reacted. A pair of women's leather shoes 268 Department Store It's not expensive at all, and to be honest, at this moment I suddenly realized how much poverty affects a person's mind.

I didn't have a pair of shoes, so it didn't make a big difference to my life, but I felt very weak. These shoes have become a shadow in my heart, always reminding me of reality.

I feel poor all the time. For example, now I feel very poor, rich people are eating KFC McDonald's Pizza Hut and I can only eat two steamed buns here and drink a sip of the included millet porridge, no, it's wrong, it's the included confusion (that is, cornmeal is boiled with water, and the cost is very low).

Yes, I went home to meet my friends, followed the big boss, drove a BMW of more than one million yuan and invited us to dinner, I saw her take a Balenciaga, I bought a fake one from a certain treasure, people took the real one, and felt that I was so poor. The friends around me have gone out to travel. I didn't go because I ran out of money.

I often feel this way, and after graduation, I decided not to ask my family for money. I used to buy a lot of clothes, but now I don't. I wear old clothes all the time, and then I think, why is it so hard to make money, and then my friends around me earn less than me and live better than me, I am also very strange.

The skin care that everyone buys is monopolized, and I want to cry when I buy skin care for 300 people, I used to take a taxi everywhere, and now I take the bus even if it is far away. Buying clothes is also **, although very reluctant, but there is no way, I also want to buy brand clothes, I want to buy good-looking shoes, money is spent like running water, completely panicked.

In 87, when I was in the first year of junior high school in Mudu No. 2 Middle School, in the last year before the retirement of Mr. Zhou Junan, a beautiful reed teacher, I remember praising me in class, a pattern: a ladybug. Said I was very careful with the coloring.

That one was triumphant. Since then, the art class homework has been attentive again and again. In the first week of the first day of the 87th Lunar New Year, a few days after the start of school, I ran out of the classroom as usual.

was grabbed by the head teacher Liu Wenhua's ear, and went around the entire second middle school (the small one on East Street). By the way, he scolded me, to the effect that he still remembers: "You are now a junior high school student, do you see if there are any people in the whole campus who run outside after class like you?" From then on, I honestly sat in my seat and brushed the questions in addition to going to the toilet and asking questions after class. In the 90th year of the second middle school, our class should be the peak of the second middle school, and more than half of a class entered Mudu Middle School. Now Ms. Liu lives in the same neighborhood as me, and every time I meet her coming out to brush my steps, I have to stand respectfully on the side of the road.

is still in junior high school, and the history teacher Jin Yiqing has a low voice, and the allusions are constantly telling stories. The board is clear. Attracted everyone to imitate it continuously.

Even the action of pushing the glasses. In 90, when I was in the first year of high school in Mudu No. 2 Middle School, Mr. Jiang Genxing, an English teacher, took us to Xiaowang Mountain to see Li Gengen's former residence when the weekend was free. It wasn't an attraction at all.

Take a look at the ruins of the ancient temples on the surrounding Qionglong Mountain, and pick up one or two pieces of Ming Dynasty tiles and dripping water by the way. The habit of exploring the past has been planted since then. In 93, Mr. Qian Darong and Mr. Feng Wuyang of Mudu No. 3 Middle School were working for the first year, right?

Every day, he accompanied us to sing the closed shirt and paint in the studio until late at night.

It's free (I'm ashamed of being the kind of person who has ever wiped his mouth).

Now, you can find a place for free art training in the college entrance examination and show me. In 94, Zhang Xigeng, a teacher from Changshu High School, began to force everyone to practice Zhang Qianbei, asking for a knife of yuan book and paper a day. Changshu Yuan book paper is expensive, 7-9 pieces of a knife. It used to be a serious financial burden for me.

used to secretly wipe tears behind his back, but now he relies on writing to eat, which is something he never imagined when he was wild. In 94, the Department of Engineering and Fine Arts of Changshu High School, when the font design class was almost over. The homework requirement is to go to the streets of Changshu to pick up an order for the storefront signboard and make the installation and take pictures (the money earned belongs to yourself).

I got the job, bought plexiglass, hook knife, wire saw, plastic foam, transformer, ......The plexiglass words are done, the foam will not be equipped with heating wires, and I ran to find the teacher Director Qian who was not ......When he was anxious, the head of the department, Mr. Mao Yanheng, came to ask, and moved to the classroom, personally taught how to disassemble the heat quickly, how to straighten the heating wire, and demonstrated the first foam word.

For nearly 10 years after that, this skill has been a ** for pocket money outside of life.

Now, imagine the head of the department putting aside his business and personally sacrificing most of his day to help students do such a small thing. Just think about it.

When you are sick, when you are terminally ill, when you have no one to help.

Here are some of the moments that make you feel really poor:

1.Difficulty in paying for daily expenses:

When you find yourself unable to pay your rent, utilities and other daily expenses, you will instantly feel the hardships and poverty of life. Rift Know.

Example: At the end of the month, you find that you can't pay the next month's rent and have to borrow money from a friend.

2.Can't afford what you want:

In the face of the items you like, but you can't buy them because the ** is too high, it will make people feel the helplessness of economic pressure and poverty.

Example: When you go to the mall, you take a fancy to a favorite dress, but you find that ** is far beyond your budget.

3.Can't afford medical bills:

When faced with sudden medical expenses, it can be difficult to feel poor and helpless.

Example: Illness that requires hospitalization**, but hesitation due to high medical costs, or even considering giving up**.

4.Insecurity:

In a life of poverty, people often lack a sense of security and are full of worries about the future.

5.Unable to provide a better life for the family :

When family members encounter difficulties, finding that they cannot give adequate support and help can make people feel guilty and incapacitated.

Example: A child needs to attend an after-school tutoring class, but is unable to pay for it due to family financial difficulties.

6.Social activities are restricted:

Living in poverty can lead to people not being able to participate in some social activities and creating barriers from others.

Example: A friend invites you to a party, but politely declines because you are worried about the cost.

7.Unable to achieve dreams and goals:

In a life of poverty, people often fail to achieve their dreams and goals, and feel frustrated and helpless.

Example: I want to go abroad for further study, but I can't realize it because of economic conditions, so I have to give up this dream.

People can feel frustrated and helpless in the face of a moment of poverty. However, we should also see the hope and possibilities in life and strive to overcome difficulties and improve our lives. Collapse source investigation.

Here are some moments that might make you feel poor:

1.Inability to pay for important expenses: When some important expenses suddenly arise in your life, such as rent, medical expenses, education expenses, etc., and your income cannot cover these expenses, you may feel very anxious and helpless.

2.Seeing others have things that they don't have: When you see others have something you aspire to, such as designer clothes, luxury goods, luxury cars, etc., and you can't have them, you may feel poor.

3.Can't afford unexpected expenses: When you experience unexpected expenses, such as car accidents, illnesses, etc., and your finances can't afford them, you may feel poor.

4.Inability to afford long-term financial plans: When you want to make long-term financial plans, such as retirement, savings, etc., and your financial situation cannot afford them, you may feel poor.

5.Inability to afford your dreams and aspirations: When you want to fulfill your dreams and desires, such as traveling, learning new skills, etc., and your financial situation cannot afford them, you may feel poor.

In short, when your financial situation cannot meet your life needs and dreams, you may feel poor. However, if you are able to actively plan and manage your finances and take appropriate steps to improve your financial situation, you will have more freedom and choice.

1. During the summer vacation of college, I went to deliver takeaways, bought equipment and rented a car, and I had more than 200 left, I couldn't afford to rent a house, I was sleepy and slept on the sofa at the site, I took a bath in the public toilet when I was dirty, and I ate the leftover meals that my colleagues didn't throw away in time when I was hungry.

Second, one year because of the flickering of the previous company, resulting in the use of my credit card overpayment (about half a year later) and then I resigned and went to the current company, really no penny, the first month of overtime home found that there was no money to take the subway home, no coins to take the bus, sit in the waiting place to cry, and then cry and walk home for two hours, at that time there was no one to help me, after the credit card repayment text message really no way I told the leader, the leader directly transferred me 4000 to repay this card debt, I also received an advance on my salary, which was nice.

Third, during that period of college, I was making money every day, working several jobs a day, handing out flyers, doing ** customer service, serving dishes in restaurants, being a waiter and a tutor, and not stopping in the whole university, participating in various competitions and getting bonuses, I was the most desperate female classmate in the whole school, the family was not poor, but I was poor when I was a child, I was born prematurely, there was an older brother who died, and the family's savings were used to treat me, my parents did not have a house of their own, and they have always lived in my grandmother's house, I've heard a lot of gossip, I don't want my dad to be looked down upon by others, I have earned a lot of money in college for a few years, scholarships, competition bonuses, grants, plus salary, as soon as I graduated from college, I gave all the money I saved in the past few years to my father, this year, our family finally has its own house, and I don't have to look at other people's eyes to live, I think, my brother will be happy to see it, he has no time to fulfill his filial piety, in this life, just replace me to honor my parents.

I finally knew why I couldn't be rich, because my attitude towards money determined all this, I don't love money, I don't value him, how can he value me?

01. Attitude towards money.

Money is not everything, but no money is impossible, money is a neutral word, don't feel that money is the poison that corrupts you, but your partner on the road to happiness.

I often think that I always talk about money, too much material, so while working hard, I despise those partners who negotiate good money first, so I have no money.

02. The goal of the poor and the rich.

The rich have goals, while the poor have no goals, the rich do not have no goals because they are rich, the poor often have no goals for themselves because they are poor, and the poor will always only focus on how to live tomorrow without planning for next year.

03. Where do the poor search for the motivation of the rich.

The poor have many excuses and always focus on the difficulties, while the rich are always trying to find a way to solve the problem. Finished manuscript.

The poor have always been left alone and are unwilling to accept good things from the outside world.

The poor are reluctant to make friends, feeling that it costs money to make friends, and the rich make friends everywhere and often exchange values, and this behavior is criticized and looked down upon by the poor, and the poor are very high-minded.

04. Save first, then consume.

To develop good habits, if you are a monthly salaryman, then, save first, then spend, and save for yourself. This way, you will have financial security.

05. Resource security is the first place.

Any investment is based on safety first, first to ensure the safety of funds, and then to pay attention to the rate of return.

When choosing investment products, you should also choose a combination of high-score and low-risk projects.

06. Stable investment.

After a certain amount of accumulation, try your best to find investment projects with a yield greater than 12%.

Don't think about getting rich overnight, the odds of getting rich are very small, learn to make a stable investment.

07. Eliminate debts, don't owe debts.

The number one is the credit card, to eliminate the debt, first cancel the credit card, reduce the chance of arbitraging the credit card, and according to your own strength, you must spend.

08. Make money, make money, make money.

You must free up part of your time to grow, and growth is also a kind of money.

09. Cherish time.

If the poor want to change their poverty, they must change the underlying logic of thinking, and they must give priority to important things, what are the priority things? For example, skills to improve one's abilities.

If after ten years, your evaluation of yourself is: In the past ten years, I have done nothing, and I have only made progress.

Well, you're not far from the rich.

10. Action and action.

The key to getting rich is to take action and take the initiative to do it, the poor will always stay on plans and imaginations, while the rich have been acting slowly and filial piety.

So, act now, act now.