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He values your attitude towards him, and if you want him to do it, he will be sad. He will get angry if you accuse him. He will be happy if you compliment him. He will be happy if you treat him well, and he will want to do well if you ask him to do it.

Whether he likes you or not, your words and deeds affect him.

Trust between colleagues should be based on sincerity, and if you are false and dishonest to your colleagues, you will inevitably lose the trust of the other party and even hurt the other party.

1. Treat each other as equals.

Be kind and kind with your colleagues. Under normal circumstances, colleagues should be treated equally and fairly. Pulling a hill or drawing a circle among colleagues, or being too biased towards a certain group of people, although you may be favored by some colleagues, you may also lose the favor of other colleagues.

Those worldly behaviors will only hurt the relationship between colleagues.

Second, do a good job of unity and unity.

When getting along with colleagues, we should pay attention to official affairs, be frank and selfless, speak out, dare to criticize and self-criticize, and at the same time pay attention to specific ways and methods, and do not use the topic to play, fan the flames, sow discord, and undermine unity.

3. Treat people sincerely.

A normal colleague relationship should be a gentleman's friend, and such a colleague relationship requires mutual tolerance, mutual trust and sincerity.

Su Dongpo once said: "Convince people with sincerity, not words", the greatest trust between people comes from sincerity and non-deception. Trust between colleagues should also be based on sincerity, false to colleagues, not honest, bound to lose the trust of the other party, or even hurt the other party.

Fourth, mutual support.

Because colleagues are partners at work, we should take the initiative to care for and help each other. When a colleague needs help, we should step up and help vigorously, without other strings attached, without complaints.

It should be affirmed that supporting the work of a colleague will not only win the support of the other person, but also directly contribute to the development of the unit.

Fifth, grasp the proportion.

Whether it's helping, caring, supporting a colleague, or the other person taking the initiative to ask for help, we should all take matters into account and stop in moderation. When dealing with the relationship between yourself and your colleagues, you must grasp the balance to prevent enthusiasm from "offside", making it difficult for strong people, interfering in the private life of the other party, and avoiding arousing the other party's disgust.

6. Don't be arrogant.

At work, you should be humble and be good at learning from your colleagues. We must truly treat our colleagues as mentors and friends, and learn from each other's strengths. In front of colleagues, don't be arrogant, empty-sighted, point-in-cheek, and domineering, which will worsen the relationship between the two parties.

One. The values of the colleagues around you are different.

For example, in my previous company, a new girl was hired in a certain business department, and that department had a tradition of going to a singing party once a week, but the newcomer just didn't like singing, so he refused to participate every time. This made other colleagues slowly develop opinions about her, and later began to isolate her.

Anyway, if there is any party or dinner, she will not be invited to participate, and she will be ignored at work.

The little girl was very aggrieved, and later proposed to resign.

When I interviewed her for the exit interview, I learned about her situation and sincerely gave advice, hoping that she could change her way of interpersonal relationships, after all, you still need to integrate into a team, you always come by temperament, and others may isolate you.

Two. Offended a colleague.

In the workplace, once you offend a colleague, you may be retaliated against.

And the best way to get revenge on a person is to isolate them.

And some people have relatively low emotional intelligence, and they don't know that they have offended people when they are isolated.

Three. Competitive relationships formed at work.

In some companies, small groups are formed. These so-called small groups are actually composed of interests.

For example, if two employees in a department are competing for a management position, they each look for their own "allies" and try to isolate each other as much as possible.

First of all, you have to determine whether you are really isolated, because some people are too delicate, others or unconscious words or actions, and are too delicate to think that isolation, second, be good at discovering the advantages of colleagues, communicate more, communicate more, examine their own shortcomings, adjust in time, find more common interests and hobbies between themselves and colleagues, and do the entry point of the topic. Third, if it is a colleague's problem, please keep smiling when you meet, don't poke at the colleague's badness, so that the colleague can't get off the table, can't get used to it, keep your bottom line, smile and pass, so that the whole atmosphere is relatively peaceful. If you are a new employee, it is a process from unfamiliar to familiar, and you will find a path that suits you well in the workplace in the future.

In general, the main reasons for being isolated by colleagues in the workplace are as follows:

1.You offended a lot of your colleagues.

If an employee is isolated in the company and has no friends, it is most likely because he has offended all his colleagues.

How can you offend all your colleagues, such as eating some more disgusting food in the office, than stinky tofu or something.

Another example is to become a big man in the office, picking his feet when he is idle.

Another example is to speak loudly, and don't pay attention to etiquette constraints, and when you see someone dragging like two or five, you walk over with horizontal eyes.

2.You offended the leadership of the company.

We can't elaborate on this, we can only say that there is indeed a situation in the company, some employees offend the leader without paying attention, and the leader is very small-minded, like a needle's eye.

We all know that if you offend a leader, and the leader habitually retaliates against employees, it is very likely that the leader will be recorded on the blacklist, once it is recorded on the blacklist, it means that no matter how hard you work in the future, you will not get a good popularity.

If you encounter this situation, it is relatively easy to solve, if you really can't do it, you will apologize to the company leader in private, and then you will leave the company, anyway, such a company may not be able to go far with such a company leader.

3.You've achieved great results.

The next point we need to say briefly, I can't go into details, but everyone can understand it.

There are some people in the workplace, after they have achieved results, their colleagues will speak coldly to them, and they will not even see others well, which we collectively call pink eye in the workplace.

Why are there all kinds of pink eye in the workplace? It can be understood in this way that everyone's promotion opportunities are limited, and if you eat the biggest cake in the limited competitive opportunities, it is what everyone wants.

If this happens, everyone doesn't have to worry about it at all, after all, Mu Xiu will be destroyed by the forest wind, as long as he ensures that he grows into a towering tree, even if a tornado comes, no one can move.

To put it simply, conceit is to think too highly of oneself and think that oneself is great. Self-consciousness related to conceit is also self-confidence and low self-esteem.

There are two reasons for the formation of conceit:

First, life is smooth.

People who have suffered many setbacks and blows in life rarely have a conceited mentality, and if it is smooth sailing in life, it is easy to develop a conceited character.

2. Self-knowledge.

The conceited person minimizes his weaknesses and exaggerates his strengths. Conceited people also lack self-knowledge, and at the same time, they regard their own strengths very prominently, and overestimate their own abilities and underestimate the abilities of others, which naturally produces conceited psychology.

To be conceited is to be self-righteous and to overestimate oneself.

Human self-consciousness mainly includes three aspects, self-awareness, self-will, and self-emotional experience. People evaluate themselves by self-knowledge, and some people evaluate themselves too highly, which is manifested as conceit; Some people underestimate themselves, which is manifested as inferiority.

1. Conceit is often expressed in words, actions, etc. A conceited person makes people feel good. There are some people who also feel good on the surface, but they don't have to be conceited.

2. The essence of conceit is ignorance. It is mainly manifested in unawareness. As the saying goes: "Those who know themselves know", "People have self-knowledge". There are two manifestations of ignorance, one is blind obedience and the other is arrogance. Conceit sometimes manifests itself as hubris.

3. Conceit is not exactly the same as looking down on others. The conceit is mainly to overestimate oneself, which sometimes manifests itself in looking down on those around you.

The meaning of conceit is twofold:

1. Overestimating one's own ability, thinking that oneself is great, is a derogatory term. "Negative" means to rely on, to rely on.

2. Self-responsibility is a neutral word, such as: cultural responsibility, profit and loss. "Negative" means to take responsibility, to be responsible.

Basic Definition:

Self-righteous and arrogant.,Regard your status and role as very important.,Exaggerate your own value and arrogance.。

Detailed explanation: 1. Self-esteem; Conceited.

Three Kingdoms Wei Cao Cao "Let the County Self-Evident Benzhi Order": "Today is lonely to say this, if you are arrogant, you want people to say everything, so you have no secrets." ”

Song Li handed over the second volume of "Recent Affairs": "In Yuan and Changqing, Zhongcheng's luggage is only half a square, and now it is far away to two squares, which is called the cage street shouting, but with lofty arrogance, do not think of arrogance. ”

Ming Fang Xiaoru "Fu Zheng Haoyi Book" No. 3: "In recent times, scholars and doctors have been arrogant, blind-eyed, and have the attitude of caring for a lifetime, and they have all abandoned Confucius. ”

2. Exaggerating yourself.

The Book of Rites and Tables: "It is the old gentleman who is not arrogant and does not compass himself." ”

Kong Congzi Juwei": "Zi Si said that Meng Ke said: 'Being arrogant and not cultivating it is so big, it is not big.'" ”

Tang Yuanzhi "Yongfu Temple Stone Wall Lotus Sutra": "To the monks of the view, so the scriptures are in the stone, the text is in the tablet, and the cover is immortal, and the desire is arrogant. ”

Song Wang Yuyan "Answer Zhang Fushu Again": "The servant thinks that Xiong (Yangxiong) is arrogant, and it is not a maxim, and it cannot be taken as a law." ”

Conceit often refers to a person who overestimates his or her abilities too much, feels that he is the best, can only see his own strengths, not his shortcomings, pursues goals that exceed his own abilities too much, and overestimates himself.

Conceit It is difficult for you to get along with people who think, behave and behave differently than you do, you feel that your approach is the most correct, and you want others to think of you.

Let everyone else look up to me.

It is a merit for a person to have sufficient self-confidence, but it is not advisable to have too much self-confidence and conceit.

The average conceited person, no matter what the occasion, is accustomed to being self-centered. They always demand that others be able to maintain the same attitude as themselves, they want their ideas, concepts and ways of behaving to be approved or even imitated by everyone, they almost regard their words and actions as the only standard in the world, so they always think of themselves as role models for others.

However, this is not the case, because everyone's characteristics are different, and there are no two identical leaves in the world, and there can be no two identical people, even clones will be different from the prototype. Therefore, even if you are full of good qualities, it is impossible for everyone else to remain like you. You have to know that other people also have their own strengths, and the reason why you ask others to be the same as you is because you don't see the good in others at all, so you will be proud of yourself, because you are comparing your own strengths with the shortcomings of others.

The conceit is self-centered and does not listen to the opinions of others. Always think you're right. Too much self-confidence. Feel like you're the best. In fact, it is good to be confident in yourself. But too much self-confidence can lead to conceit!

First of all, I am a little powerful, to a certain extent. Then be confident. Later, I became unable to listen to other people's opinions and trusted myself too much. And smug. So it's called conceit.

If you are conceited, it means that you are living with you as the center, try to look at the strengths of others, and look at your own weaknesses.

You're almost 18, which means you're not a kid anymore, and put away your conceit for your own future. (Being conceited in your career will not end well).

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Conceited: 1I'm sorry 2Be responsible yourself 3Believe in yourself.

To put it simply, it is self-righteous, everything is self-centered, not listening to persuasion, and one's own standard is the right standard.

Self-righteous and look down on others (derogatory term).