How to survive those tough days?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-24
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think go with the flow, if you want to open a point, you can't take it away. And then there's patience, and you have to endure. Everyone has difficult days, and they have to go through, no one is always smooth, it's okay to encounter setbacks, this period will always pass, we have to learn to face it and find a way to solve it, we must have a positive attitude, life is like this.

    As the saying goes, it doesn't mean that there is bitterness before sweetness, and bitterness comes sweetly. In fact, it all makes sense, we will be more mature and sensible when we experience setbacks! In the future, you will not be afraid to encounter these again, and if you want to open up, everything will pass.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think that if you want to survive those very difficult days, you should set a small goal for yourself every day, do your own things well, live a more meaningful life, and then the hard days will pass.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In the more difficult days, the more important it is to maintain an optimistic state of mind, and the more difficult the days, the more we must have the spirit of perseverance, so that we can get through those difficult days.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I basically get through these difficult days by digesting it myself, because I feel that my troubles are unnecessary and inconvenient to talk to others, and once I tell others, it will only increase their troubles, so I will choose to listen to ** or read books to adjust my emotions.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Those difficult days are a foreshadowing for the sweet days to come, without difficult days, how can there be happy moments, as long as you have an optimistic heart, you will definitely get through.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tell yourself, don't give up. As long as you don't give up your love and dedication to life, and strive to treat all the trials as gifts, as the best gift for your life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's easy for me to get through those hard days, as long as you can find your best friends, travel with them, and release the stress in your heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I quit my job, went on a trip, went to see the scenery I once dreamed of, and saw how many people in this world are living as hard as we are, but still trying to live a steamy life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In those difficult days, my loved ones were by my side, they comforted me, gave me support, and worked with me to overcome difficulties, and slowly the difficult days came through.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Life is never fair, we all know it, but we must persist in unfairness, and hope to give our children an advantage in an unfair environment in the future! That's where meaning comes in!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No matter how painful it is, don't give up your right to engage with this society.

    I will never forget the scene of my junior year of high school, the pain of knowing that I would not be able to pass the exam, the pain of that thought, the thought that I would never be able to escape from that small town. I smiled at my parents every day, I was afraid that they would worry, and at night I had insomnia all night, crying all night, and I couldn't see the light of my life at all. That summer vacation was a life in which I thought about suicide countless times and completely collapsed.

    When I first entered the university, I was extremely inferior and dissatisfied, I was dissatisfied that I went to such a school, I was dissatisfied that I only had this kind of life, and I lived in my own world and couldn't extricate myself. I just started to decide to change my life in my sophomore year, and I thought it was already so bad anyway, could it be worse?

    Sometimes we have to learn to zoom in a little bit, and we have to learn to zoom out a little bit. Isn't the state of mind a little bigger, and those sufferings, if you think about the vast universe and history, can't you look at it a little smaller? No matter how difficult the time, no matter how dark the time, it will always pass, and after the passage of time, the dilemma that I once thought was big enough to cover the sky is just a joke.

    Regardless of the past, at least I'm glad I realized these problems, and I started to try to change, from arrogance to low self-esteem to regaining confidence, which was a long and painful process. In the future, I will go on a trip, go to the gym, go to the books, go to write, and make more good friends, and I firmly believe that my life will be better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This year in 2020, almost all of them are preparing for entrepreneurship, several times of collapse, several degrees of standing up, facing the pressure of reality, can only be relieved; In the face of the relatives of the original family, all kinds of moral kidnapping, all kinds of rhetoric, several times chilling! Even a few suicidal thoughts and impulses, these really made me really feel it, and the true feelings in the world are nothing more than that.

    But fortunately, I have always had a lover and confidant who silently guarded and supported and encouraged me, otherwise, it would be hard to believe that I could support it. I also believe in myself that no matter what happens in the future, I still have a love in my heart, and only when love is there can everything be possible.

    Time flies, if you don't cherish it, life is easy to gray hair, and in the end it is still your own life that is wasted. Therefore, those bad people and bad things, I have to throw them all away and be the person I want to do! There is no human resource that can stop us from moving forward and succeeding.

    Live for yourself, live once for the people you love, and live up to it in this life!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Difficult days are to be endured slowly. Every time I am in a bad mood, I always try my best to comfort myself, don't worry about it, just take care of the baby, as long as my family is healthy and safe.

    Once again, I realized that a daughter-in-law is not good. I remember that I have never suffered such grievances at home since I was a child, and I feel very uncomfortable, but forget it, who can be blamed, blame yourself for not being able to have such a life.

    I have never talked back, even if I have yelled at me so fiercely, and ridiculed me with such contempt and contempt, forget it, as if I couldn't understand it, as if I couldn't hear it. Who can I talk to? No, tell your family, the family will be worried.

    Tell a friend? I can't, I don't want that. Do you want to vent in the circle of friends?

    This cannot be done, and even more so cannot be done. Neither, neither. I'm just talking to myself here, but that's fine, there's a way for me to say it.

    Talking back and being noisy will only make the neighbors look down on me even more, and I am a small person who does not speak the language, does not know how to do farm work, and is small.

    I don't expect writing to bring me anything, I just want to use this outlet to express the unhappiness that is pressed in my heart. I also have bad points, if I do everything well, do it thoughtfully, and do it satisfactorily, I won't suffer any grievances. In the end, the reason is still yourself.

    Besides, if I had some ability, I could have lived outside, and I didn't have to stay here to save that little money, complain all day long, and do all this useless work by myself. Therefore, you are responsible for everything.

    I've been dreaming about my dad a lot lately, maybe I'm missing him too much. Our parents love us so much. When I think of my family, I really miss it. In the world, we are the closest people in the world. The guilt is that they gave me so much and I didn't repay them much.

    I believe that everything will be fine, and I believe that after surviving these days, the spring will bloom. I went to read, and after reading all the e-books on my phone, I might be able to leave here and live in a different place. Of course, this is not to say that everything is bad here, I said that I have good and bad and bad.

    I just want to change my lifestyle, less dull, less closed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, when the career is difficult, we should not pay too much attention to other people's mouths. When a person comes out to start a business, or opens a store, or sets up a factory, or co-owns with others to start a company, the initial stage is naturally difficult. At this time, we must not listen to bias and believe partially, we must have our own mind and analytical ability, other people's words, we have to divide it into two, correct, you can refer to it, feel that it is wrong, just laugh it off.

    Don't think this person is justified today and do it; Tomorrow, I feel that the person is talking about experience, and he has changed the direction of his work. As a result, we can only laugh at our generosity and end in failure. So, we need to understand:

    It's easy to start a business, but it's hard to keep a business, find a right direction, study hard, keep exploring, analyze with your own brain, and don't care too much about the cynicism of others, so as to do your own things well.

    Secondly, when life is difficult, we should not pay too much attention to other people's mouths. A person's life, "thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi", yesterday's scenery is infinite, perhaps, today has become a down-and-out loser. When you are down, when you fail, life will definitely encounter difficulties, and at this time, other people's gossip and cynicism may come one after another.

    If we care too much about the attacks of other people's mouths, then we will live in fear all day long, in the eyes of others, in gray tones, such a life, there is no great value. On the contrary, if we have the courage to start from scratch, fall from the **, get up from the **, take the cold words of others, as an autumn rain on the road of life, don't care, just take care of ourselves and move forward, and strive to do a good job in the current thing, perhaps, after the autumn rain, the rainbow of your life will appear in the sky immediately.

    Third, if love is unsatisfactory, we should not care too much about other people's mouths. The love between people is very delicate, and sometimes, a good relationship may be terminated because of some rumor or a made-up story. When two people are together, there is no room for a grain of sand.

    Some people always like to add some kind of lace news; Others may use fuss tricks to find ways to separate the love between two lovers. Therefore, if two people decide to be together, they must understand and trust the people they love, on the contrary, don't care about those gossips that are intentional or unintentional, otherwise, the two people have a good relationship, and they may miss the fate and miss you because of other people's mouths, if so, you will regret it for a lifetime.

    The years of life can be blink of an eye, what you deserve, you can't run, you don't deserve, you don't have to force it. In the same way, the years of life should be earned by yourself, so you should work hard and have it boldly, and don't care about other people's mouths; We shouldn't get it ourselves, we have to know how to stay away, and don't use our mouths to go to the mother-in-law to talk nonsense. Only in this way can we successfully overcome our own difficulties when our lives are difficult.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    For me personally, in my most painful and difficult time, I remembered that those who were worse than me could live strongly, and then I had the motivation to overcome difficulties.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, I don't seem to have experienced too many difficult times in my life, and if the hardest thing is probably when I first took my first job, I was facing a new body because I was not surrounded by some strange people. , so it's hard to accept, but after I persevered, I found that it wasn't too difficult.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In my most difficult time, it was my own strength and will and my wife's perseverance that allowed me to get through the most difficult days.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think that the reason why a person can get through the most difficult days is by determination, perseverance and backbone, with a kind of sonorous ambition and broad mind that does not bend down, and finally can get out of the predicament and usher in a new dawn.

    Hope it helps, thank you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is nothing special, no one accompanies you, you can only face it alone, at this time in one word, it is "boil", the most difficult days will be a person to get through, with two words is "persistence", set goals for yourself, achievable goals, and then a person slowly persists until this period of time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In my toughest days, it was faith and persistence that got me through them. We must be convinced that there are joys and sorrows in life, and we must believe that we will see a rainbow after the storm.

    Believe it or not. When life encounters hardships, settle down and live the present, and the difficult days will pass unconsciously!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The philosophy of life, family harmony, the teaching of parents from childhood to adulthood, the skills to turn around and move forward.

    In the most difficult times, you still have to live a positive life, and the difficult roads are uphill.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hope is the best way for us to get through the most difficult days, as long as you find a hope and feel that this hope can change your life state, then it is your life-saving straw, it is the foundation and belief that changes the destiny of life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let me get through the most difficult days, first of all, is my sense of responsibility, in the most difficult days, thinking of my family, I still need to work hard, so I can only grit my teeth and persevere, and work hard.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Personally, I think it's family affection that helps me get through the most difficult days, because just thinking about having the love of my family will be full of strength.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In order to live, no matter how difficult it is, you have to persevere. Don't be afraid of difficulties, as long as there is a family, rejoice. To live is to live a good life. Life won't always be so hard, and it will get better slowly.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What makes us spend our lonely days alone? This is also a kind of belief, a goal Everyone has different goals and beliefs, but each person has a unique side, that is, she can stick to her own ideals and go down, and it takes more courage to face challenges to get out of this predicament.

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