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Ha ha. I've met someone like your boyfriend. Actually, it's not unreasonable.
It's just that it was born that way. It's not like he doesn't want to get things done with you. For example, what you said about bringing dates.
He may go to a relative's house. It's embarrassing to take so many bags of dates without dividing them, and it's not good to give you a difference. casually gave you a perfunctory past.
But you have been found out by the attentive. He's not as much as you think. Nothing scheming stupid.
The wooden man is him. Teach him more. Such men are generally more honest.
If you don't think about it, you don't think about it, and you won't explain it. Because he really didn't think about it. That's how the mind thinks.
It's been like this since he was a child, and it's really not good that you can change him all at once. Teach him slowly. If you are patient with dim sum communication, it will improve.
But don't expect the improvement to be as much as you imagined. Loving someone and loving someone to live a life requires a lot of tolerance and understanding. Wait until you get to know him.
Slowly your life becomes a life. You're used to it, he's used to it. There will always be a balance.
Marriage and love are both very delicate things. Be prepared in your heart. A woman can change a man's life.
It's true. I'm a man. I have 2 of them around me.
That's what they do. Isn't it good to think for yourself that everything else is good? Let's live.
People with such a character can marry. You've all reached the point of talking about marriage, don't give up easily. People grow up in different environments.
Lifestyle habits, ways of thinking, and personality factors create a variety of people. So don't force people to become or do things that you take for granted. Actually, let it go.
What does it matter. In fact, everyone understands these truths. I wish you happiness.
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Do you know who he is, and you still need to analyze?
According to what you said, this man didn't reassure you at all.
Do you think you would dare to marry a man who doesn't take you to heart?
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No, trivial things are inevitable, how easy is it for Chai Mi couples.
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There are many topics that can enhance each other's feelings between couples, such as: sharing the fun of childhood, exchanging more beautiful views and yearning for future life, etc., can achieve a more friendly level of communication and get along, so that each other can understand each other better and learn to respect each other. Therefore, it is important to pay attention to the friendly communication style.
1. Learn to empathize with the disadvantages of traveling. When we all know how to empathize, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and the chat will become more pleasant and efficient.
2. Talk about topics that the other party is interested in. When you communicate with others, you have to talk about topics that the other person is interested in, which is also the common language we often say, chatting with common topics is usually more pleasant, and the resulting sympathy will make people expect more communication from us.
3. Learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart. Wise people must learn to praise others from the bottom of their hearts, and it can only be unwise to oppose others, even if you do not agree with other people's views, but it is best not to say it in public immediately, if it is not a very important thing, you can also not say it, learn to praise others from the heart, and the communication will be smoother and happier.
4. Learn to listen to others' opinions. Everyone has the idea of expression, when you meet others who need Shenhong to express the content, you can learn to listen, remember that when you learn to listen, you will become more and more wise, and will be liked by more and more people, pay attention to what others say, Bu Lun listens to other people's words attentively, communication will become smoother, and we will know how to respect others.
5. Approve before making suggestions during the conversation. When we have good suggestions, we must first recognize the other party's point of view before putting forward any reasonable suggestions, and use euphemistic suggestions to achieve better communication results, and communication will be smoother and more efficient.
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This shows that he doesn't love you anymore, so he won't communicate with you.
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If a man does this, it means that he doesn't love you anymore, so it's better to give up and find someone who truly loves you to be happy.
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Hello everyone, I am Teacher Xuanxuan, I have been engaged in emotional counseling for 5 years, helping 5000 families regain happiness, I hope every article of mine can help everyone, thank you for your support.
Recently, a netizen told me that I have been in love with my boyfriend for 3 years, and I have quarreled and broken up during this period, but I have reconciled. Today, the teacher will analyze with you that your boyfriend is not good at communicating, what should you do?
In fact, your relationship has developed to a dull period, but you still want him to treat you like he used to do to you in love, but you said that you mentioned a breakup in the middle, and then he took the initiative to redeem you, which proves that he still has deep feelings for you in his heart, like this, in fact, you just need to cooperate with him a little, and then don't be too eager to pat and break to communicate with him, that is, to show that he is still very sticky to him, to occasionally spoil him, that's it, he should still find the feeling of being in love with you.
Every time you feel that his attitude is very cold, and then make yourself feel very sad, then you quietly recall how much he loved you before, and you have to tell yourself firmly that he loves you very much now, but in his heart, he feels that you have closed a dull period, you must not panic, and do not show your panic to him in a noisy way, you can use the way of conversation but very calmly tell him, you must not behave very cold, This will make him feel that he is far away from you.
In fact, to sum it up, it is really a sentence, as long as you still love each other in your heart, you must not break up with him because of his so-called indifferent attitude, so that two people will really miss it, the right way is that two people should work together to maintain this relationship, and if only one party is trying to maintain, then this relationship will eventually be broken, and he doesn't love you, he just feels that it has reached a dull period.
You have to believe in him, you have to believe in yourself, really don't wait until you lose it in the end, only to find out how wrong it is, regret it, but you can't do anything about it.
I believe you also know how to deal with your boyfriend's non-communication, I hope it can help you bridge the thicket, how do you manage your relationship in normal times, have you encountered the same problem?
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The other party is not willing to communicate with the countermeasuresThe man who is unwilling to communicate is the most annoying, and living with such a man will only become more and more tired, and he is particularly prone to anger and illness. You talk to him, and he thinks you are verbose; You sulked, he said you were hypocritical and deliberately looking for trouble; You want to have a good chat with him, but it all turns into a quarrel and a cold war in the end. So what should you do when your other half is unwilling to communicate with you and makes you feel wronged?
You only need to do 1 thing well! First, don't try to change him. The reason is simple, because no matter what you do, you can never change what is ingrained in his bones and engraved in his bones.
Changing the search line will only make you more uncomfortable and difficult for yourself. The more he talks, the more annoying he becomes, the more angry you will be, and thus go into a bad vicious circle; He's uncomfortable, and you're too late to go! It will even injure the child by mistake, which will have a bad impact on his growth and grandchildren.
The root of all this is caused by the difference in thinking between men and women. Women usually believe that there is a contradiction that leads to emotional problems between the two, while men usually think that women are the main cause of problems. Men believe that in order to resolve emotional crises and conflicts, they must get rid of women's constraints on themselves, so they are good at leaving or being silent, rather than choosing to resolve conflicts directly. Naive.
You should sit down and have a good talk, tell him what you want to say, and clarify your ideas to each other. If he feels that he is not able to speak, he can ask his parents or his friends to persuade him to correct it. I feel that women are very practical now, and they don't like men who spend money lavishly, because in the future, considering that they can't save money after getting married, they are not very comfortable living a very tight day every day, and they think about spending money in useless places, which is called living. >>>More
Hello, my character is also the type that doesn't like to deal with strangers who don't know each other, and only familiar people can be friends. However, there is an essential difference between your boyfriend, I will not run away from the problem, and I will not leave my girlfriend alone. The problem needs to be solved, it is useless to run away, in my opinion, your boyfriend has a relatively large flaw in his personality, and in the current situation, you can't help him change his personality......So I suggest that you can persuade him to see a psychiatrist and explain your boyfriend's situation to the psychiatrist in advance, but according to personal information, the psychiatrist may not be able to cure all the patients......Therefore, it cannot be ruled out that your boyfriend is not cured, or that your boyfriend does not listen to the advice of a psychiatrist at all. >>>More
I think you should tell him solemnly, and be ruthless, if not, then he doesn't love you!
If you feel tired, maybe your personality is not very suitable. Character is difficult to change, she herself is quiet and doesn't like to talk much, if you like her, you should like her character. And it should always be like this in the future, if you don't feel comfortable right now, it's best to think about it.
Don't use coercive methods to interfere with your child's behavior, especially if you don't pull your child to share your own things with your friends, or let other children play with them.