If your mother has changed and you are no longer in your heart, what should I do?

We have received a lot of love from our parents since we were children, and we have become dependent on the selfless love of our parents, thinking that it is normal, so we are used to our parents' selfless dedication to ourselves. Maybe when something our parents don't meet our requirements, we think that our parents don't love us. In fact, it's not that my parents don't love me anymore, but that I am too greedy.

Parents are not allowed to have the slightest bit of badness. denied all the love of his parents for him. Have you ever thought about what parents are selfless to themselves, and they don't have anything in return, but they ask for it.

When you grow up, you must know how to be grateful to your parents and stop blindly asking them. When one day we find that we need to take care of our parents. Don't get too much thought, anyone will go through this stage.

It's the way to grow up. Don't say you're bad. Growing up is the right mindset, and I believe your parents will forgive you.

Do you believe that the question you are asking is true? You said that your mother has changed, and there is no longer you in your heart. No matter what, your mother's love is much more than your love for her! There are many infatuated parents in ancient times, where can they see filial piety to their children and grandchildren?

Love your mother well, you look at your mother like this, it's really unfilial! Even if your mother hates iron for a while, she still loves you!

Generally, no, parents will love their children wholeheartedly and selflessly, does it hurt their hearts? It's better to honor them.

It's so big, you can rent a house outside to start a business (or even eat and live outside), try to leave home for a while and try it.

Personally, I think that everything needs to be fought for, whether it is freedom, respect, independence, etc., you can't gnaw at the old while making people listen to you and give you freedom.

Girl, the old man is also from Tianjin, as a fellow countryman, I want to talk to you about your mother. After reading your post, you have been complaining about your mother, and even have resentment. But he also mentioned that my mother is "a person with a knife mouth and a tofu heart, and would rather get up in the middle of the night to go to the hospital to queue up for me** I have never complained or regretted, and I have not had a word about bearing my medicine money for so many years", which shows that my mother still loves you, but in order to save your own face and do all this against your will, you should take care of your mother.

Second, you are 25 years old, and my mother estimates that you are about 50 years old, which is the high incidence of menopausal syndrome. At this age, it is easy to be stubborn and emotionally unbalanced, so the mother is still mainly to comfort, don't anger the mother, care about the mother, and filial piety first! Mom is not monolithic, with the respect and love of dad and daughter, mom will change.

Thirdly, girl, you have reached the age of talking about marriage, and the days you can spend with your parents are limited. Therefore, my own temperament must also be corrected. As the saying goes, a single slap doesn't make a sound.

I hope the old man's words have inspired you.

Alas! I feel the same way about you.

Bear, this year is also the tenth year that my mother left me, when I heard the news of my mother's death, I was in the field, tears couldn't stop flowing, the whole person sat softly on the chair, there is nothing more important in the world than the existence of my mother, although ten years have passed, my thoughts about my mother have never changed, and I checked all kinds of superstitious things, thinking about whether my mother is reincarnated, I can go to ** can see her again, Even thinking about whether you can use your own year in exchange for a day with your mother, there are really too many sad things, too many memories can not be put down, if you don't think that you still have children, you have to fulfill the responsibility of the family, I really want to go with my mother, I want to tell you, my mother is gone, but if she is alive, or she has a spirit in the sky, she really doesn't want us to be like this, she still hopes that we will live strong and brave, and live better, and take on our own responsibilities as human beings. Don't be too sad, because everything is impossible to turn back, you still have to sort out your mood, try to live, believe that my mother is watching us from a corner, blessing us, my mother worked hard to raise us, teach us to be a man, and hope that we will inherit her last wishes, do more things for the family, and take more love and care for the family, so as not to violate the wishes of the mother, really, live well, and put the thoughts of the mother and the memories of the past in the heart and turn it into motivation.

My mom. Still with me, my mother's mother, is dead. When my grandmother died, my mom didn't come to see her, and she said it was the biggest regret of her life.

I don't know how you feel, but you must be sad. You want to do something happy to make yourself happy, people are destined to die, even if they die, they can't be resurrected, you have to go through this road. Live well!

Don't let your mom down in heaven, she must be watching you silently in heaven!

O sons and daughters of the world! While your mother is still alive, honor them!

I can relate to your words!

Looking at the photo of my mother and me under the computer desk, I couldn't stop crying.

It's been almost two years since my mom died. But I couldn't get out of my mother's world. When my mother first arrived, I wanted to go with her. At that time, I washed my face with tears every day, and every day was related to my mother's past. Even now, I still can't let go.

Mom is gone, leaving us forever. We miss our mother because we still have many things to do, we haven't served them well for a day, we haven't honored them for a day, we haven't washed our mother's clothes, and we haven't kowtowed to our mother during the Chinese New Year. We regret that we reprimanded our mother loudly and blamed our mother, and regretted that we didn't cook a meal for our sick mother; Now, like you, I miss my departed mother in my eyes.

Mom seems to be right next to us and kindly takes care of everything about us.

We can never love enough of the mother has now gone west, the living can only find a variety of reasons to live well, think about it, how difficult it was for my mother to give birth to me and raise me, to live well, is to fulfill the mother's last wish, is to repay the mother's nurturing grace!

Don't forget, in normal times, think more about your mother's earnest teachings, burn an extra handful of paper money on your mother's sacrifice day, and talk about how much we miss our mother forever.

My mom was 10 years old.

Imagine how fast time flies, it's been 8 years. I do want my mom to see my life now and to be able to honor her. However, there was no such opportunity.

I would often go to my mother's grave to see and talk. Life still has to go on, the road ahead is still long, and living well is the greatest comfort to our deceased relatives. Be strong!!

Mom is me, I'm mom. Mom can see it.

No matter where I go, my mother will always be with me.

Nietzsche said: Human life cannot be measured by the length of time.

When the heart is filled with love, the moment is eternal.

People can't come back to life after death, the festival mourns and changes, my mother also left in July this year, and when I left, I really collapsed, good people don't live long, I really want to ask God why I did this, I was really decadent for a long time, but decadence is useless, no one looks down on you if you don't work hard, you can only make yourself stronger, and when you go to the cemetery, you can proudly tell your mother how much money you have earned and how many big things you have done.

I suddenly feel that life has no meaning, others say that I have to live well for my mother, but what's the use of me living well, my mother can't see it anyway.

To mourn and change, my mother is gone, I went to reincarnate, we should be grateful to my mother, but we should also let go, recommend the "Jizo Bodhisattva Wish Sutra", you can read it to your mother, Nan no great wish Jizo King Bodhisattva.

My mom passed away, taking my heart with me, and I couldn't sit still every day, I couldn't stand this blow, and something I couldn't imagine happening again.

Try to adjust it, my mother has been gone for two months, pretending to be very strong during the day, often crying in the bed at night, thinking about my mother's heartache.

If your mother knows that you will not feel at ease when she sees that your life is not good, live your own life well, and your mother can feel at ease, which is the best way to mourn your mother!

My mother struggled with the disease, she wanted to accompany us to the last Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, but God didn't give her this opportunity!

Wouldn't it be okay to let Dad take another Mom?

Why are you crying anything?

A moderate amount of negative emotions can help us adapt to unexpected situations, while persistent negative emotions can harm our physical and mental health.

Seven Lower Paths.

I also feel like I'm dispensable in this world.

Chapter 33 The hands and feet are small, the lips and tongues are small, and all kinds of big promises are tart, and the 34th episode is in love, because of the emotional sister, and the wrong brother is persuaded by mistake.

Mom will be gone eventually.

How old are you. It's time to wean.

From the moment your mother gives birth to you, you should be ready to be independent.

If a woman invests in a man during her most important years, you will be begging him not to leave you for decades to come.

If you invest in yourself, then in the remaining decades, you will be able to harvest the love that truly belongs to you. Only when you are in the best state will you have the best person to love you.

Actually, it's the same for both men and women:

It's not that if you try to be nice to someone, that person will love you desperately. Worldly feelings inevitably have a realistic side: you are valuable, and your contribution is valued. (The better you are, the more people will care about you.) ）

If you don't show your light, you can't blame others for not having a vision.

If you like her (him), you should try to make yourself better.

Love will only make you lose as much as you give.

A woman's change of heart generally can't be pulled back, she should leave, a man still has to be free and easy, and it's not a problem if she can't forget her, time will solve all the problems that can't be solved.

Find a way to reminisce about your old happiness together.

Have children? If you have children, stick to it.

It is likely to be caused by changes in your own heart, it may be that you are now in the rebellious period of youth, and you don't like anything, you have to try to change yourself, your mother has not changed, or you have something in your heart to communicate with your mother in time, don't just be unaccustomed to it, you also have to say it, let your mother know, if you can't communicate face-to-face, then write to your mother, send text messages to make it clear, don't hold a grudge against your mother.

Give her motivation, people will change is caused by the environment, the environment includes emotional factors, your starting point is wrong, she is not changing, maybe she is tired, why can't you take the initiative to be good to her?

Once, Confucius's student Ziyou asked the teacher what "filial piety" was. Confucius said, "The only filial piety that ordinary people can achieve is to be able to support their parents."

However, pets such as cats and dogs are still kept and loved. If there is no submissive and respectful attitude towards parents, then what is used to distinguish filial piety from breeding? Although Confucius's words are a bit contrary, we have to praise the teachings of the sages as being really good words.

Parents and children live in different eras, and of course their ideological concepts and cultural levels will be different, and the perspective of looking at things will naturally be different. This is something that children should understand. The happiness we pay attention to includes the common enjoyment of material and spiritual, now most of the children can meet the material consumption of their parents, so the requirements of "filial piety" will be increased accordingly, if you do not obey the wishes of your parents to do things to make them happy, how to meet their spiritual enjoyment?

After feeding the kittens and puppies, they also know to give them some string balls and other things to make them happy, are the "mourning parents" who "give birth to me and work hard" not as good as them? In fact, do parents make any undesirable demands on their children? It's just that the children are unwilling to do it because of all sorts of things.

With a little self-control, brothers can achieve "filial piety".

When we watched "Journey to the West", when Sun Wukong visited the Tao, he met a woodcutter who was fighting firewood and supporting his old mother all day long on the mountain road of Fangcun Mountain in Lingtai, and praised him as "a filial piety gentleman, and there will be benefits in the future". It can be seen that the gods also appreciate people with high morals, and the consciousness of the brother must be higher than that of the monkey.