When do you find what you say intimidating?

Speaking has a deterrent effect, first of all, you have to have confidence in your heart, you have confidence in your heart, first of all, most of you need to have personally experienced or understood this aspect of things, otherwise even if you are pretending to be forced, you will not understand it will be exposed by some people with a heart, in that case, it will be a shame and a big shame, you know no, under what circumstances, speaking can be very deterrent, in fact, it is when you have confidence in your heart.

1. It is the most deterrent when you know what others don't know

This is the highest level of pretending, when you just know or understand some fur, but the other party doesn't know too much, at this time you can feel it from his tone and expression, or you have some words to tempt, when he speaks, it means that he may not know too much about this matter, at this time, you can move out of your own family to talk nonsense, and the other party because of the lack of understanding of this matter, you can give him a flicker, This is when you are the most deterrent to others.

Second, when you know others and know them relatively well, it depends on what you can say about what they don't know

When you don't understand what you know about others, if you are instigated by this situation, then your words will not be convincing, so at this time, you should try to say more about the other party's ignorance, for these places, you can appropriately say a few situations first, if the other party shows that you don't understand, that is this place, you can start from this place, enter the talk, and suddenly return to the place where the other party does not understand, then you can pretend again, But you have to be careful not to be caught by others about your loopholes, at this time, you may be counterattacked by others all of a sudden.

3. Don't go head-to-head with him when the other party understands the problem very well

Sometimes I, we can talk nonsense about what we know, but for things we don't understand, when the other party understands it very well, don't talk nonsense, let others catch the handle casually, and then fight back against you according to your problem, in that case, you don't understand this problem, he said the problem, you can't judge right or wrong, you can only be beaten passively, so when you pretend to score points, you want to show very deterrent words, especially afraid of these situations, I hope you will pay attention.

Fourth, if both sides do not understand this issue at all, they must show confidence

At this time, it is strong in the middle, both sides are strong in the middle, so what you have to do must not let others know that you really don't understand this problem at all, you have to show that you know this problem very well, others do not understand the situation, and it is generally difficult to ask some questions to test you, unless it is a person with great experience, so for this situation, a method to be adopted is a word "pretend", so that others think that you are very good, so that when you speak, first of all, psychologically has given a suppressive effect, Speaking is naturally convincing and deterrent.