Who buys the shroud after the death of the old man, and who wears the shroud after the death of the

1. The old man's shroud.

Who is responsible. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that daughters are intimate little padded jackets for their parents, and the things prepared by daughters are more liked by the elderly. Under normal circumstances, there is only one daughter, and that is she alone in charge of the affairs of the shroud.

If it is several sisters, the shroud is jointly responsible for the shroud. It can be paid for by one person first, and the purchase is complete, and everyone shares the cost. If you sew it by hand, there are several sisters who divide the labor and take their own responsibilities to complete it.

However, the shroud is not all bought by the daughter, if there is only one son, the shroud is handled by the daughter-in-law.

If there are many sons and daughters, it is discussed by everyone, the daughters are responsible for buying the shrouds, and the sons are responsible for the funeral.

In ancient times, there was also a saying about the number of shrouds of the elderly, called "five collars and three waists", which were shirts and trousers, velvet pants, jackets, cotton pants and capes. The velvet pants should be over the back and with white stripes, which is called Lu Lutong.

Men's shrouds are generally blue-black; For women's shrouds, red or fuchsia is generally chosen.

2. Who will wear the shroud after the death of the elderly?

When the old man is alive, he will not wear a shroud, and only when his life is dying, he will wear it. In general, it is worn by the people closest to them, and most of them are the older people.

Some people have weak family manpower and no immediate family members.

Children are young and ignorant, so you can find someone who specializes in wearing shrouds to wear them. In the private sector, some teams responsible for red and white ceremonies can provide such services.

Before wearing a shroud for the elderly, you need to warm the shroud in advance, and the method of warming the clothes is relatively simple, which is to let the person wear the shroud on his body to try it out, whether the size is appropriate.

Dressing the old man in a shroud is to let the old man breathe and leave with peace of mind at the moment when the old man is dying.

Third, the way to wear the shroud.

The way to wear the shroud is also exquisite, the underwear is a white shirt and pants, and then a cotton shirt and cotton pants are worn outside, and the outermost is a black robe. The shroud cannot be buttoned, and it can be tied with a strap after wearing. The string means that there is a successor.

It is generally the other half of the elderly, but it can also be the eldest son.

The shroud of the deceased elderly person is put on with the help of his children or daughter-in-law.

Under normal circumstances, the shroud of the deceased elderly is put on with the help of their children or daughters-in-law. If it is a female deceased, it is generally worn by the daughter or daughter-in-law, and the son or daughter or daughter-in-law of the male deceased is helped to wear it together.

If you don't have any offspring in the family to help, you can ask someone to help you or ask someone else to help you get dressed. This reflects the filial piety of Lafeng's children to the elderly and a kind of respect for the deceased.

The reason why people should wear shrouds after they die

It is a custom since ancient times to wear a shroud after a person dies, which is a kind of respect for the deceased who entered the earth for the wheel of laughter, and also hopes that the soul of the deceased will belong.

According to folk legends, people can also be reincarnated after death, and put on shrouds and food for the deceased, hoping that he can be fed and clothed in another world.

The style of the shroud was made according to the pattern of clothes worn by wealthy people such as wealthy people in ancient times. The style is similar to the daily clothing of the Ming Dynasty, according to legend, when Wu Sangui surrendered to the Qing army at the end of the Ming Dynasty, he specifically asked the Han people to wear Qing clothes when they were alive and Ming clothes when they died.

It is usually a family member, the son or daughter of the elderly, and if it dies in a hospital or a funeral home, it is usually the staff who help.

The shroud will be worn by his own son, and it will also be worn by the people who hold the funeral in the village, because the people who hold the funeral are more experienced and handle this kind of thing in place.

Generally speaking, you have your own daughter, son, and daughter-in-law to wear together, and if you don't have relatives, you can also be helped by ** neighbors to pass it on.

After the death of the elderly, the shroud is generally helped by a designated person, or by asking his children to help.

When dressing the elderly in a shroud, there are usually two people, one person is responsible for wearing it, and the other person is responsible for helping. If the deceased is a man, the shroud is mostly worn by sons and daughters; If the deceased is a woman, the daughter or daughter-in-law will wear it. When dressing, it is not easy for single children to come to the front.

If possible, it is also a good choice to ask other elders in the family to pass it on.

Shroud refers to the clothes worn by the deceased. The custom of wearing longevity clothes for the elderly is not only an important part of the funeral culture, but also an important carrier of the inheritance of filial piety culture.

Shroud wearing time

According to traditional customs, the time to put on the old man's life clothes is usually done when he is not in good condition but has not yet lost his breath. I think that the old man can take all the shrouds he wears at this time. If you can't do this, you should also put on a shroud for the elderly as soon as they pass away.

Try to wear a shroud in advance and not easy to delay.

Before putting on a shroud for the deceased, bathe the deceased and let him walk cleanly. This not only expresses the filial piety of the children and grandchildren, but also entrusts the mourning and reluctance of the living to the deceased, and is to do the last thing for the deceased relatives.

When cleaning the body, you need to prepare a covering towel (to cover the body when changing clothes), two towels, an appropriate amount of alcohol (wipe the whole body, alcohol wipe makes ** smoother and more convenient to wear), nursing pads, cotton balls and cotton swabs (in case of unclean liquid outflow), combs, tweezers, large garbage bags, etc.

Under normal circumstances, according to the tradition of our country, if the wife is still there after the death of the elderly, the benefit should be worn by the wife, of course, there are some traditions at home that can let the immediate family members of the elderly help put it on, if these relatives are not there, then it is the children who help, because the children and the elderly are the closest,Of course, there are also many elderly people in the family who have left their last words before they die, saying that they must let their children help put them on after they leave, which means that this means passing on the family lineage and fully trusting their children. In addition, according to some excellent traditions in our country, the following points should also be paid attention to after the death of the elderly:

1. Try not to cry

Birth, old age, sickness and death is human nature, many people feel very unacceptable after the death of the elderly at home, so they have been crying and making a fuss, in fact, according to the traditional way, this kind of crying behavior from a certain point of view, is not very good for the elderly, because people die like lights out, and the elderly also hope to be at peace after death, so at this time it is recommended that everyone try not to cry, the environment should be as quiet as possible, if possible, the family should also try to be as quiet as possible.

2. Recite Buddhist scriptures

Of course, if there are some relatives or friends who believe in Buddhism, you can recite some Buddhist scriptures in a whisper when you are around, because the ancients in our country believed that after a person dies, if you recite Buddhist scriptures, you may get some serene state, and it can also help us to exceed the elderly, of course, reciting Buddhist scriptures can not take too long, about 1 3 hours or so.

3. Burn incense

After the death of the elderly, it is possible to help clean the body, that is to say, take a bath, and then put on clothes reasonably, which means the past of a thing and the beginning of a new thing, but if there are conditions, try to point some, want to keep the indoor environment as quiet and peaceful as possible, the advantage of this is that everyone can be sober, and the second is that everything can be done step by step.