What kind of people would you be good for?

As for myself, my wariness is more serious, and it is not particularly easy to dig out my heart and lungs to othersTherefore, it is not easy to touch your heart and let yourself treat one person sincerely, but wait until the trust of two people is improved before you can change your mind.

1. People who are sincere to themselves. People get along with each other mutually, if you treat me well, then I must treat you well, so when I find that the other party is sincere to myself, I will also treat a person well with my heart and lungs, rather than hypocrisy. Just like my friends, when the two of us first met, we didn't even say a word, but as time went by, we became more and more tacit and more and more willing to pour out our hearts and lungs for each other.

2. People who have helped themselves. I am especially grateful to the people who have helped me, although it is only a small gesture, but it can warm my heart, so I am especially willing to help the people who have helped me. For example, when I was taking the bus, I once forgot to bring my card, and I didn't have change on me, so I could only ask strangers around me for help, but everyone was afraid that I was **, and they didn't want to change change for me, and I was very helpless.

But just when I wanted to give up, an angel came to my side, she was very small and cute, and took the initiative to give me 2 yuan, which instantly felt very warm in my heart, and also made me determined to be good to her with my heart and lungs.

It is also a very normal situation for people to be selfish, but we should still recognize the reality, after all, people are fickle, we must not only look at one side, but think from multiple angles, so as to be able to better dig out a person's heart and lungs. At the same time, we should also protect ourselves and try not to let ourselves be hurt, otherwise it is easy to lose confidence, and I hope everyone can have such a concept.

Personally, I think I will pour my heart and soul into a sincere friend, because such a friend is worth it, and such a friend can also play a very big role in my life.

I will pour out my heart and lungs to the people closest to me, that is, the people closest to me, and the reliable relatives and friends who are sincere to me.

I will take care of those who care for me in life and can help me when I encounter difficulties.

I will pour out my heart and lungs to the people who are good to me in my life, feel that they are good to me, and I must know how to be grateful.

When I was in trouble, if someone could lend a helping hand, then this person was definitely worth cherishing and allowing me to pour out my heart and lungs to him.

I will be kind to those who know how to be grateful. Because I know they won't let me down. So I'm going to be nice to this kind of person.

I will pour out my heart and lungs to my good friend, because I can feel her sincerity and kindness to me.

1. Dig out your heart and lungs for a person, in exchange for love, or it may be hurt, we treat a person, you may love very much, but don't dig your heart and pat your lungs, this kind of love that is too hard is sometimes too humble, but it can't be exchanged for happiness.

2. Dig out your heart and lungs for a person, in exchange for either a confidant or a lesson. Don't tempt people, it will disappoint you. Some things are good to know, and there is no need to say more.

Do what you should do, whoever is good and who is bad knows it in your heart, don't say it thoroughly, you have no friends when you see it through! Three points for the sharp, three points for the stupid, leave four points for time! There are two things in the world that you should not look at directly, and if you don't believe in it, you are likely to hurt your eyes.

3. You dig out your heart and lungs to be good to a person, in exchange for the other party to you is hot and cold, you tell yourself to persevere, but you are a human after all, or tired, so you slowly calm down, readjust yourself, nothing is taken for granted, people are mutual.

4. Dig out your heart and lungs for a person, in exchange for sincerity, or at least in exchange for gratitude, if the other party has no heart, maybe you can only exchange for the other party's indifference that you take for granted. Sliding stove.

5. Digging out your heart and lungs for a person, in exchange for a little disgust and discouragement, that feeling is really good.

Actually, that's what it means to like you.

This uses a popular Internet meme, because northern Myanmar is very dangerous, and many people who say they want to take you to northern Myanmar to make money are likely to sell you. There has been such news on the Internet, some people were deceived by friends or black intermediaries to go to northern Myanmar, and as a result, they became blood slaves or were sold to take the organs of Paiyuan's body. That's why it's said that digging out the heart and lungs came about.

Putting your heart and soul out of you is, of course, a representation of your sincerity.

Summary. This is not recommended, as it may make you more and more dependent on others, and you will not be able to learn to be strong and independent. You can focus on yourself, learn to take better care of yourself, and learn to accept your shortcomings and put more energy into self-growth.

This is not recommended, as it may make you more and more dependent on others, and you will not be able to learn to be strong and independent. You can focus on yourself, learn to take better care of yourself, and learn to accept your own shortcomings and put more energy into the lack of self-esteem.

I know netizens, and I have a relationship with me in the oral hall, and encourage me well. I would like to be with him, and then the two laughing people will get better and work together. And then pour out your heart and lungs to others, what should you do?

I don't know how to love myself anymore? I've become a love brain, how can I correct myself?

Those who are kind to others should start with contentment, help them solve problems, devote themselves to their families, and participate in the small things in their lives. We must learn to look at problems objectively, put personal interests aside, and do something truly meaningful.

You can try to focus on yourself, learn to accept your shortcomings, and learn to better illuminate yourself, such as eating healthy, exercising, and getting enough sleep. At the same time, you can also try to participate in more meaningful activities to increase your sense of self-worth and regain your self-esteem.

I tend to compromise with others, worry about others, and care a lot about other people's feelings. Is it because I'm not confident?

Don't blindly give, Sen falsely told Zhenchun to take care of himself, take care of himself to have the ability to take care of others, digging out his heart and lungs is often not a wise choice, which has nothing to do with self-confidence, it is often determined by character.

I had an emotional breakdown because of a small incident with a friend. I think my friend didn't argue with me, and I was kind to him, and then I blindly compromised him. But I can always feel guilty because of some of the kindness he used to have to me, feel that it was my fault, and then compromise with him.

I don't know if I can continue to be friends with him now, but I don't want to be a banquet inside. Is it still appropriate for me to continue to be friends with him?

Friends are colder, and I'm the more enthusiastic one. He is slow to do things behind closed doors, but I am very fast. I always seem to have unilaterally expressed to him my love for his sedan oak, he was cold, but he didn't share things with me, I was always sharing with him.

If you want to continue your friendship, you first need to be clear about your relationship. You should first consider your own thoughts, such as whether you want to continue to maintain friendship with him, whether you can still communicate effectively with him, whether you can accept his attitude and tell him your thoughts. If you both want to continue your friendship, you can try to re-establish a harmonious relationship that includes communication, communication, understanding, and avoiding repeating the mistakes of the past.

Otherwise, give up.

Summary. It has nothing to do with your character, it may have a lot to do with your style of dealing with people, and the way you deal with people, including your communication skills.

It's good to pour out your heart and lungs to others + in exchange for it.

Hello, very happy and honored to have your question. What do you get in exchange for being kind to others? is not to understand .........

Why is it that the better I treat others, the less people take it seriously, is it my character problem?

Because there is a phenomenon, which is also the law of science: the better you treat others, the more they think you are currying with them.

The more others feel that you should be good to him, and it is your fault that you are not good to him.

It has nothing to do with your character, it may have a lot to do with your style of dealing with people, and the way you deal with people, including your communication skills.

Yes, to others. You are like a treasure to her, she is a grass, you are a man? You are good to this lady, for what? Is it normal to be nice to her, or do you want to pursue her?

If you're trying to pursue her, I think she's right to ignore you, because this girl may not be interested in you. If it is an ordinary person, or an ordinary person, if you are kind to her, normal words will give you feedback, and even say thank you for it.

But you're pursuing a girl, I think it's normal to ignore it, and you need to continue to work hard, it's a long-term process. I hope I can help you, thank you for using the consultation.