In Dream of Red Mansions , who is the best at dealing with people?

There are many people who can deal with people in "Dream of Red Mansions", and we mainly choose from the following characters:

One, Xue Baochai.

Xue Baochai is the daughter of the Xue family in the four major families, so the family conditions are very good, plus Xue Baochai has a beautiful appearance and elegant behavior, so Xue Baochai has become the best candidate for many male friends to choose a mate. Of course, from the perspective of our current people, Xue Baochai is indeed good, not only the city is very deep, but also will win people's hearts, so many people think that the most good person in Dream of Red Mansions is Xue Baochai.

In fact, in this huge family, although Xue Baochai does things in an orderly manner and has been praised by many people in Jiafu, Xue Baochai has never been recognized by Wang Xifeng, and of course has not been recognized by Jia's mother, otherwise, why did Jia's mother acquiesce in the love affair between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, instead of supporting Xue Baochai? In addition, Jia Yuanchun also doesn't like Xue Baochai. If it is said that there are also the hearts of these three important characters, how can it be said that Xue Baochai is the person who is the most good at dealing with people in the Dream of Red Mansions?

Second, Lin Daiyu.

Some people also say that it is Lin Daiyu, although Lin Daiyu has not been affirmed by many maids, but Lin Daiyu has won Jia Baoyu's heart, and has also been liked by Jia's mother, is it possible to say that this superior line is wrong. However, in real life, if you have to marry someone as a wife, I think Lin Daiyu is definitely not the first choice.

Three, Ping'er. Although Ping'er is not conspicuous, she feels that she likes it up and down Jiafu. First of all, Jia Lian likes Ping'er very much, because Ping'er is elegant, gentle and lovely, and very thoughtful in dealing with people.

Wang Xifeng is known to the world for being pungent, but the manipulator behind the scenes is Ping'er, but in front of outsiders, he shows a special virtuous and generous. So I think the one who is the best at dealing with people in "Dream of Red Mansions" is Ping'er.

I think the most proficient person in Dream of Red Mansions is Wang Xifeng. There is such a detail that can be reflected.

First of all, friends who have watched the TV series know that there is such a detail, that is, when Lin Daiyu entered Jiafu. Lin Daiyu came to Jiafu timidly, not daring to say a word or take one more step. She was very afraid that she would be ridiculed and slandered by others for her inappropriate words and deeds, and after meeting with her sisters and aunts, she was very polite, and the etiquette was carried out according to the normal of the big family.

Only Wang Xifeng laughed when she arrived, and she had already heard what she said before she saw anyone. In this description, all the Chinese teachers will tell us that this is called hearing the voice of the person before seeing it, and the voice of the person before the person is heard.

Before he could see what Lin Daiyu looked like, he hugged Lin Daiyu and cried, saying that my aunt was so short-lived, leaving my poor sister, and then everyone in the room followed him and cried again. didn't cry two or three times, and then she pulled Lin Daiyu to Jia's mother, and praised Lin Daiyu for her appearance. He said that Lin Daiyu is not like the niece of Lao Jia's mother, but like the granddaughter of her in-laws.

We can ponder the weight of this sentence.

He praised the people in Jiafu with this sentence, and everyone felt that their faces were shining. First of all, Jia's mother thinks that the daughter she gave birth to is beautiful and beautiful, so the granddaughter born to her daughter is also beautiful. And the sisters in the garden will not feel that they have lost their original brilliance because of Lin Daiyu's arrival, everyone's status is equal to Lin Daiyu's ground, and compared to beauty, appearance is not inferior.

And Mrs. Wang and Mrs. Xing will also feel that the girls in their rooms are also very beautiful, which really gives the two ladies enough face.

And after that, she took Lin Daiyu's hand and said, what medicine does my sister want to take, what books have she read, and don't be afraid of anything she lacks and is homesick. These seemingly ordinary greetings, but they have already reflected that she is the real housekeeper in Jiafu, Lin Daiyu announced her status as the hostess, this way of beating on the side makes Lin Daiyu feel warm, and she does not dare to offend Wang Xifeng easily, it is really killing two birds with one stone.

Dream of Red Mansions is the first of the four great masterpieces of ancient China, and its research value is so high that there are still many people studying the significance of Mr. Cao Xueqin's character creation and the microcosm of the society at that time. So there is also a discipline called "Red Studies".

To say that the most successful thing in "Dream of Red Mansions" is undoubtedly its character creation, there are so many classic images created in the whole **, if you want to say who is the best at dealing with people, then it must be Wang Xifeng. <>

Although everyone is more impressed by Sister Feng's ruthlessness, I have to say that she is sleek and can eat well in such a big environment as Jiafu.

Let's take Daiyu's performance when she entered Jiafu, she looked at Daiyu for a while, and said, "There are still such peugeot people in this world, not like the granddaughter of the ancestor to like a granddaughter", don't look at just such a sentence, but at the same time praised Daiyu, the ancestor and other granddaughters yesterday. Sister Feng's excellence in dealing with people can be seen from this point.

Sister Feng can be loved by Jia's mother, which is the highest performance of her superb ability to deal with people.

Dealing with the Dream of Red Mansions is like taking the words of "Four Books" and "Five Classics" and making a big fuss.

That is to say, experts who study the Dream of Red Mansions are very good at speaking and behaving.

This is because Xue Baochai's status is not as good as Wang Xifeng's, and he is more direct in doing things, but Xue Baochai is not as smart as Wang Xifeng, so Jia Mu and others don't like it.

Because many people know Baochai's thoughts, Jia's mother doesn't want Baochai and Jia Baoyu to be together, so she doesn't like Baochai very much.

Because Jia's mother wanted Jia Baoyu to marry Lin Daiyu, she didn't want the other party to marry Xue Baochai, so naturally she didn't like each other.

The character of Grandma Liu has appeared two or three times in total, but she has a particularly deep impression on us, especially when she repays Sister Feng at the end, and it is indeed indispensable to be able to protect Sister Qiao.

For example, in Dream of Red Mansions, the character of Qingwen is easy to ignore, but she is a very important character, and she can show Baoyu's emotions from another side.

Grandma Liu. Third Sister You. Mandarin duck. Jin Chu'er. Purple cuckoo. They are all very good. In feudal society, they also played their part.

Li Gui went from kneeling to reply to Jia Zheng when he appeared, to being submissive, to persuading Baoyu to be both soft and hard immediately when he went out, and then to "shoot when it is time to shoot", he resolved the crisis of the school in a timely and methodical manner.

Grandma Liu, her identity is completely inconsistent with the magnanimity of Daguanyuan, a person who would not have appeared in Daguanyuan appeared, and the rich and noble family took care of her and saved Sister Qiao during the crisis of Jiafu.