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I don't think anyone's past should be the standard for evaluating a person, because we haven't traveled the road, we can't understand what kind of difficulties, doubts or embarrassments he faced at that time, and the attitude we can give is to deal with it calmly, that is, to continue to walk with his wife with a broad heart.

After all, we have chosen this woman as your wife, and we have chosen the rest of your life, the two of you have to spend it together, if at this time you can't let go of your mind, but choose to hold this matter in your heart and become a stain, and infinitely magnify this stain into a pimple, I believe that this is definitely a challenge to your married life, and it is a very big time bomb that will push your married life to the cliff anytime and anywhere.

My friend's family broke up because they didn't deal with this conflict properly. My friend's father, after getting married, knew that his wife had had a very mixed emotional experience. He did not put these problems on the table in time and talk about them frankly and unfairly, but was always sullen after learning the truth, and kept all these truths and secrets in his heart.

Whenever something unpleasant happened in the family, he always used these things to gag his wife's mouth. But people are dignified, and that aunt couldn't bear this kind of challenge to her self-esteem at all, so she abandoned her children and family in desperation, ran away from home, and never came back. Although my friend's father got the momentary pleasure of paying lip service, he was also a loser in a marriage from other perspectives.

So when we deal with this kind of situation, we have to be calm. And the problem is not in a hurry, it must be dealt with slowly.

Everyone will inevitably experience some irreparable things, and you should only look back, as long as your wife knows how to be faithful to you after marriage, and she also knows how to care for you and understand your words, then you should not mind these things.

You should love your wife, that's all in the past, since he chose you, you have to treat him well.

In the past, it was someone else's who couldn't control it, but now it's your responsibility to be able to bring her to the right path (don't listen to what others say), and you have to be assertive.

The first thing is to figure out the reasons for these experiences, it is normal for people to be involuntarily in the rivers and lakes. The second depends on the essence of the person, the nature is difficult to change. Third, you need to know that there is a cause and effect relationship, and whether you can face the worst outcome.

Filter your mind and you'll know how to deal with it. When there is no continuation, it will be disturbed.

When you become a pick-up man, you either close your eyes or start over as soon as possible. Don't believe what is said to be good ashore.

What I loved before, the key is now.

Her past has nothing to do with you, because you didn't know her at that time, the important thing is that after you know her, she is good, just good for you and your family?

You want her future, not her past.

Maybe I'm in the store if she's in the store.

After getting to know you, she is what you should care about!

See if you love her or not, if you love her, you have to accept it.

Since you are married, the most important thing is your married life, if you are too entangled in the past, then your married life will be unhappy, think about it yourself.

If you take those past seriously, it's a thing, and if it's not a thing, then it's not a thing.

The focus is on whether she is suitable for you now and whether she can get along with you.

Why did you find out after marriage, if you can't accept it before marriage, then just break up decisively, now it's hard to ride a tiger.

Everyone has a past, now that you have accepted her now, don't dwell on her past anymore and get along well.

Everyone will have a more or less black history.

Some people will choose to hide and forget, and some will choose to bask in the sun openly.

No matter what the choice, you must know that the precipice is reined in.

As the old saying goes, the prodigal son will not change his money.

The past, forget about the past, both of them are married, I believe that there must be feelings to get married, live a good life, look forward, the future days are still very long, and the two people on the road of life will support each other more tolerant and understanding!

1 That's all in the past, and it's best not to mention it.

2. If your wife is living with you wholeheartedly, please cherish your current happiness.

3 Give your wife a chance, but also give your marriage a chance.

Simply put, forget the past, and you won't necessarily be able to do it.

I think it's still too idle, hurry up and have a baby, you won't have time to worry about it when you're busy.

There is no way. Ask God to have mercy on us, we are not perfect, we all have bad things.

If she files for divorce, you can consider it. If she doesn't bring it up, cherish it.

May God bless you!

If you truly love her, you should tolerate everything about her.

We're all married, live a good life, don't think nonsense.

When you read a new story, let your wife tell it in detail!

If you love her, don't care so much, if you don't love her, say goodbye early.

It's not a big deal to get divorced, see through the world, be a real man, don't be a wreck.

Ask your wife to tell her a story, analyze what kind of person she is, and then ask yourself what to do.

As long as it's not complicated in the future, who hasn't been in the past yet.

If you can do it and don't mind, get along well, or it's just a thorn in your jaw all the time.

If you think about it too much, don't you look at yourself too? History is history after all, and facing reality is the most important thing.

See what life will be like after living with you. Everyone has a past, does her past have anything to do with you?

Of course, I chose to forgive her.

After all, it's what happened before.

If you really love her, then you have to tolerate each other well.

Since you are married, you should ignore your past suspicions, your wife has changed her ways, just start living a good life, who hasn't had a past.

If you can't get over this hurdle, it's really hard.

We're already married.

So don't worry about the past.

If you really can't accept it, then you can only get a divorce.