What kind of good book is Say Goodbye to Family Hurts ?

To be honest, this book is really a good book, it can solve a lot of emotional problems and solve a lot of conflicts in the family, I think after reading this book, it is very likely that many problems that you thought were difficult can now be solved.

This book tells people who are in grief, who have lost interest in life, who feel uncomfortable with life, how to get out of their environment and start a new life, and I think this book is particularly useful in many places. In our real life, and there are some places that are very close to real life, that is, the stories that really happen in real life, and it may happen around us.

One of the good things about this book, I think, is that he tells you how to be a filial person, how to be good to your parents, how to make your parents happier, and he also tells you some tips in the family. How to speak can communicate better with the child, know what the child is thinking, how to communicate with the wife more fluently, and better solve some conflicts.

In many of the stories in this book, you will find that many of the problems are the same as the problems that you have developed, so that you feel that you are not alone. This kind of problem is very easy to appear, so just give yourself some comfort in your soul, and then add some advice given in the book, and then follow it, it is likely that there will be some new light in your life, and some problems will be solved.

In this book, I analyze some of the problems that children always have, maybe talk back to parents, maybe they don't understand parents, and then tell some tips so that children can have their own lives, and then parents can better understand children's thoughts. It solves the generation gap between parents and children, so I think this book is really a good book that should be read.

Because the good thing about this book is that it tells us a truth, that really strong people can be brave enough to say goodbye to the past.

Today's society is increasingly emphasizing the role of the original family, and even some people with ill intentions always blame their failures on the failures of the original family. I always blame my unhappiness on the fact that my original family did not provide a good educational environment for me when I was young, because this reason is really impossible for others to refuse, because no matter what you say, it is justified because others cannot evaluate the quality of your family.

A few words of the original family's fault, it has been easy to transfer their mistakes to others!

In fact, we all know that when we enter the society, many problems are dealt with or come according to our own experience, and the acquisition of this experience is after we enter the society, through learning and reflection to obtain these, in fact, there is no participation of anyone or anything in our previous family of origin. And the mode of thinking has little to do with the education of the previous family, in fact, the time that our parents spend with us is very little, and most of our time is in the friction with others, and this experience slowly grows up.

We all know the famous TV star Sun Li, in fact, his original family was very unsuccessful, and his father abandoned her and her mother early. His father restarted the family and gave birth to a half-sister. But why is Sun Li now able to become a film and television drama and a guarantee of ratings?

The fundamental reason is that we have never seen Sun Li always take the quality of a native family as a criterion for evaluating the success of her acting skills! On the contrary, after he became famous, he was very grateful to his father back then, and he generously supported his sister to maintain the happiness of the two families.

This image of a beautiful and generous successful woman has never been heard of! He always talks about his original family!

This book is to encourage us, don't always blame our own mistakes on the family, but the family has made us, what we have to do is to work hard and let our family shine behind us!

Personally, I think this is a good book that is particularly worth recalling, using straightforward principles to explain to us how to maintain an optimistic attitude, eliminate the influence of negative thoughts on family life in the depths of our hearts, face life positively, and be good at discovering the beauty of family life. And in family life, have the courage to express their feelings for each other and enhance the cohesion between themselves and family members. Enhance the perception of the word "home" bit by bit.

At the same time, through vivid examples, it tells us that many simple and clear things in life, although they seem meaningless to us, but they exist for a reason. It's like we communicate patiently with children who are not yet sensible every day, even if they can't understand the meaning of our words, but they can feel our love for them through our expressions and our tone. And for us, this kind of behavior is also a manifestation of our responsibility as parents, and only in this way may we have peace of mind.

Moreover, the positive values advocated and the positive energy advocated by the whole book are particularly worthy of our reference. It is not possible for everything in family life to go according to our hearts. When there are frustrations and troubles, or you are dissatisfied with the actions of family members, don't blindly complain, and let others feel the bad emotions in yourself.

Instead, we should think more about the good of others and use our tolerance to influence others. At the right time, confide in the other person what you have buried in your heart, so that the other person understands the positive impact of his actions on you. At the same time, be in awe and let the other person understand his irreplaceable place in your heart.

In this way, the relationship between the family will be unusually harmonious, and the sorrow will naturally be far away from the family.

So I think this book is a good book that can edify the mind.