Recently, I quarreled with my husband every day, but we had a good relationship before, should I get

I don't think you should get divorced, which couple doesn't quarrel, as the old saying goes, young couples quarrel, bedside quarrels, bedside quarrels, and there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.

I think two people know each other, know each other, fall in love, and then combine together, that is, the fate arranged by God, you have to cherish this fate, how can you file for divorce at every turn, which couple doesn't talk in life, and besides, your relationship was quite good before.

People, you must know how to cherish the people in front of you, don't think about divorce at every turn, if there is a problem in marriage, you should first think about how to solve the problem, instead of using divorce to escape the problem, some things are not so serious that you have to get divorced, always think clearly, don't regret your decision because of a momentary mood.

Marriage needs to be managed, you had a good relationship before, indicating that the emotional foundation is still there, the recent quarrel may be because of the existence of some objective reasons, you find these objective reasons, and solve them, it's okay, don't think about divorce if something goes wrong, you can take a look at whether the pressure on your work has been great recently, or because of different views on something to quarrel, all in all, you have to find the reason for your quarrel, the right medicine, in order to solve the problem.

If you can find the problem, you can find a solution, it's really not good, you two sit down and have a good talk, you have been together for so many years, if you really get divorced, won't you be reluctant, give such a good husband to someone else, are you willing, right, think twice about everything, don't do things that you regret.

A hundred years of cultivation can be crossed in the same boat, a thousand years of cultivation can sleep together, you become husband and wife, it is the fate given by God, if there is a problem in the marriage, then solve the problem, don't always think about divorce.

It is normal for husband and wife to be noisy and noisy, and people can not do the absolute unity of thought, because of the disagreement of thoughts, so there is a collision, and there will be quarrels These are small episodes in life, don't care too much, if you get to the point of divorce because of these episodes, then this state of affairs is a little too serious, some small quarrels are very normal in life, it is precisely because he cares about you and considers your point of view, so he will think that your ideas are lacking, and will argue with you.

You yourself said that you had a good relationship with your husband before, but you have quarreled every day recently, it may be that you have tripped over some troubles in the past two days, your husband did not take into account, you are a little angry, so you will be very angry and angry, but you must know that it is not a joke for two people to live together, it is not that you say you want to divorce today, and you will get married the day after tomorrow, so this kind of thing should be carefully considered and not made a hasty decision.

When you really can't stay by your husband's side one day, at that time you are trying to figure out what to do, and you must always believe that there must be a way before the car reaches the mountain, of course, you can't give up easily.

My opinion teacher does not recommend that you divorce, marriage is a very solemn relationship between Mr. Yi, if you regard it as child's play, then marriage is to go to his original value, plain, there are some other relationships between two people in addition to being introduced, you not only live for others, but also learn to take care of yourself, learn to get along with others, so as not to divorce every time you quarrel, in short, for your future happy life, you take a good idea and then choose carefully.

I don't think there is any substantial fault between the husband and wife, and there is a certain basis in the relationship, so divorce should not be chosen as the last resort. There is an old saying that a hundred years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be repaired to sleep together, although this sentence is more exaggerated, but I think there is still some truth in dealing with the feelings and trust of husband and wife.

Two people walk together, not just because they are in love. If you think about the past path, in fact, the union of the two of you means many things, first of all, the two parents, the four people must agree, and the family environment and values you have behind you must be perfectly suitable for you to come together. It can be said that any marriage in this world is not an accident or coincidence, there is more or less a factor of fate and the inevitable result of hard work.

And after marriage, the relationship between the two people heated up rapidly, which is a happy family. After getting married, a family must face firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, and also have to deal with people. Two people must consult in all matters, and it is not possible for one party to lead the marriage by absolute command or by absolute character of the other.

Marriage is about parity, not command. Some couples often quarrel because two people can't communicate.

Even if there is no communication, there is no need to end this marriage. Marriage also requires two people to study together and work hard to progress. Two people are a whole, just like the two halves of scissors, and no one can do without the other.

Since you are husband and wife, everything can be discussed, because you are born destined to go through this life, not as enemies of class antagonism.

Therefore, in daily interactions, everyone should restrain their temper, try to think from each other's point of view, and take a step back if they can.

You also said that you had a good relationship before, but recently you quarreled every day, and you want to divorce for this? Just because you quarreled recently, you have plans to divorce? Isn't your decision too hasty, is your idea too impulsive?

How old are you, why are you so immature, just the last few days of quarrels, you can't stand it? It is easy to have conflicts when people get along with others, especially two people in married life should tolerate each other. I don't know what you and your husband have been arguing about every day recently, and what has your husband done to be sorry for you?

Did you make a mistake that is said to be something that even a man can make? What did he provoke you about? And what's wrong with you that doesn't please him?

Have you ever thought about any of this? Have you taken a hard look at your relationship?

You've only been arguing lately, but you still have feelings, don't you? Otherwise, you won't say that your relationship was very good before, since you have a good relationship foundation, what can a little quarrel be worth now?

You don't have to worry too much about it. Don't be in a hurry to consider whether to get a divorce. Don't let your impulse make a decision that you will regret in the future.

You're married, you're definitely an adult, and you should look like an adult, mature and rational in thinking. Instead of thinking about divorce at every turn, thinking about giving up and escaping at the slightest quarrel, instead of solving the problem.

Find a suitable time with your husband to sit down and chat, let's communicate, how long has it been since you two have been together and have a good heart-to-heart talk? In fact, there are small contradictions and quarrels between husband and wife, and there is nothing that cannot be talked about well. Give each other time and give each other opportunities, of course, the premise is that please give each other the opportunity to communicate and communicate, and actively work to resolve the contradictions in each other's hearts!

Why do you have to divorce your husband if you quarrel every day, you also said that the relationship between you is very good, just because of the frequent quarrels recently, in fact, marriage, if you don't quarrel, then what's the point? Like, the dear inn Qingchen couple who have been on TV in the past two days, they spend every day in constant quarrels, just like the girl said on TV, our quarrels are our daily life, if you don't quarrel today, then it seems that you will feel that something is missing today.

In fact, now couples will quarrel more or less, maybe sometimes the more they quarrel, the better the relationship will be, my husband and I are like this, the two of us will pinch each other as soon as we meet, facing the pinch here, not that we are really fighting, but because as long as the two of us meet and talk, we have to raise the bar, although we are sometimes really quarrelling, but sometimes we are just playing with each other, so our relationship will get better and better, and the relationship will be stronger and stronger.

In fact, you and your husband often quarrel every day, but your relationship will be very good, because you both quarrel, just to solve this problem and quarrel, there is no real hurt because of the quarrel, because every small quarrel does not hurt the feelings between two people, and there is not a saying called bedside fight, bedside and.

So if you have to divorce him because the two of you have been arguing a lot lately, but you ignore that the relationship between the two of you is very good, and in such a situation, you want to divorce him, then I think you are doing a little bit of a thing, I think you are making a fuss, because quarrels are normal in everyday marital relationships.

You have to calm down, communicate well, solve the problems and contradictions between the two, don't divorce until you have to, one day husband and wife for one hundred days, one day husband and wife love for a hundred days, you must cherish this marriage.

It's not good to mention divorce every time you have a fight.

Divorce is a very serious decision that requires careful consideration and weighing the pros and cons. If you bring up divorce every time you argue, it is likely that the other person will get tired of it and think that you don't really want to divorce, but are threatening the other person.

In addition, divorce can also have a bad impact on the family, especially for the children. Divorce may make children feel loss, helplessness, anxiety, depression, and other negative emotions. Therefore, if there is a problem between the couple that needs to be resolved, a positive attitude and measures should be taken instead of filing for divorce at every turn.

When solving problems between couples, the following measures are recommended:

1.Communication: Husbands and wives need to strengthen communication, understand each other's thoughts and feelings, and work together to find ways to solve problems.

2.Compromise: When it comes to solving problems, couples need to make compromises and respect each other's opinions and decisions.

3.Seek help: If the problem between couples cannot be resolved, seek professional help, such as a marriage counselor, etc.

Finally, divorce should not be a solution to the problem, but a decision made after careful consideration and weighing the pros and cons.

It's really painful, because some of their behaviors really make you unbearable, and then you don't say this sentence, it's really painful in your heart, but after saying it, you don't really want to divorce, what should you do? This is actually very bad, but if you really say that you want to divorce, then you must be ready to divorce, because men will take it seriously, if they can't bear it one day, you are only cautious that there is a possibility of divorce, I say every time I say anyway, I am ready to divorce.

Qing, so angry that he couldn't speak. In the past year, my husband has either used overtime as an excuse or gone out to drink with friends, and the relationship between husband and wife has become more and more estranged. Recently, we had another fierce quarrel, and in a hurry, I said divorce again, but I didn't expect that this time, my husband was angry and completely broke out:

Leave and leave! Anyway, it's very convenient to get a divorce now, so I'll see you at the Civil Affairs Bureau on Wednesday, isn't it just a matter of changing the book?!He burst out all the grievances that had accumulated in his heart for so many years, and said that he would not live with me anymore.

What should I do? Every time I say it, I just want him to change, I don't want to really divorce, I don't think he will be serious. I regret it so much, thinking about my husband's usual work and conscientiousness to the family, why should I be so angry with him?

Teacher Fei Rin, director of the Psychological Counseling Center and marriage and family counselor in Guangzhou, interpreted:

A woman is a mysterious individual existence, who likes to say the opposite, obviously longing for love and afraid of separation, but she wants to talk about divorce. In reality, there are many women who are arguing all day long and clamoring for divorce, but they don't really want to divorce in their hearts.

The word "divorce" is often mentioned to constantly reinforce a message to the other party: "Our relationship is easy to break down", and its subtext is "I don't love you anymore, you are not suitable for me, you are very bad", which will not only hurt the other party's self-esteem, but also cause invisible pressure on the other party, which is easy to intensify the conflict between husband and wife.

Perhaps, the other party did not care about this matter very much from the beginning and would treat himself leniently, but in the long run, when he found that his spouse repeatedly regarded marriage as "child's play", it would inevitably cause anxiety and doubt in his heart, and he would lose confidence in marriage, and divorce would really happen.

In many cases, conflicts between couples are rarely related to facts. But it has a lot to do with a person's vertical viewpoint, the perspective from which they look at problems, their interpretation of things, and their respective value systems. Maybe the wife needs to reflect on why she talks about divorce when she quarrels?

Is there anything wrong with the way I get along and communicate with my husband? It is recommended that most couples learn more about each other's original family, living habits, their own perspectives on problems, and their reactions when encountering conflicts.

So, what is the mentality of saying divorce as soon as you quarrel?

1. They are emotionally immature, their ability to deal with conflicts is often weak, and they have to use threats to communicate things.

Just like a baby crying when he is hungry, he lacks the coping skills that an adult should have. When they don't know how to deal with the problem, but they want to win the battle and control the whole situation, they will use this method.

If the partner can tolerate this, they can resolve it by coaxing or hugging. The key depends on whether the partner is willing and whether he is willing to continue to be tolerant. In fact, many people get tired and tired and leave.

2. Express demands in disguise.

is the same as many women who mention "breaking up" every time they quarrel, in fact, they are just expressing an inner appeal in disguise, venting their dissatisfaction in their hearts, putting forward a hope, and issuing a warning.