The trade off between letting go and not letting go, how to choose between two people who can t let

Updated on Car 2024-04-05
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should talk to her about this mood, and communicating with each other is the best solution!! I've always believed that it's irresponsible to give up easily, either myself or her!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Open your heart, calm down and have a good chat with her!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Both of them are very stubborn and refuse to give in, it is not okay to go on like this, they must often quarrel, otherwise they will be forbearant and too uncomfortable. If your relationship can go on in the future, there must be one person who forces himself to be the other person, to change himself for the relationship, and to make concessions, otherwise it will not last long. My experience has been:

    had a big fight, said all the dissatisfaction, threatened to break up, and then the other party resolutely disagreed, and in desperation he said that he would change, I said didn't you say that you can't change it, it's too difficult to change?! He said yes, if you don't make up your mind to change, there will be a big crisis in your relationship! He said:

    Can you not say those two words (break up) in the future, I can't stand it. Then he did pay attention to some places, and although it was still not quite as I wanted, he finally had the heart to think more about me. I also think that since I can't let him go at all, why should I threaten him to make him sad?

    So I also pay attention to the trivial things in my daily life, and try to make myself less stubborn. There is nothing wrong with making concessions for your loved ones. You might as well have a good talk with your girlfriend to see if she is willing to change.

    But you still have to start with yourself in everything, you think that your character can't be changed, why ask the other party to change? If you are reluctant to break up, you have to endure it yourself, and if you want to be so uncomfortable, you have to change your personality. Look away, although she looks at you a little tighter, but it is also out of love for you.

    If you still think that you won't be able to get along in the future, then you should also make it clear to her and make plans again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There may be communication problems between you.

    Age may just be an excuse for you to comfort yourself with a conflict with your girlfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When quarreling, one party must make concessions, and if two people want to live together, they must tolerate each other, and after a long time, they can find out each other's personalities and know how to grasp the size.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, age is not an issue.

    Secondly, even though you may not fit in, but no matter what you will do, will you do things well? Think about it.

    In the end, I can't let go of her, of course I can't let go, and I will regret it for the rest of my life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not just about the teaching profession. My girlfriend is also a year older than me, and she manages me a lot, and generally speaking, if the woman is older than the man, the woman will be more or less like a big sister. But it's still up to me to decide the big things in our family.

    It's better to take a step back from each other, after all, it's not easy to walk together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't let go, persuading people to dissolve marriage is not advocated since ancient times.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love. Woman" is like that.

    They all want their men to be better than others.

    It's nothing.

    I wish I had a girlfriend take care of me.

    But who told me to die hard???

    It's not pitiful yet.

    Don't give up lightly, otherwise regret it and don't hurry, because it's too late.

    Good z is z 8

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can't accept her treating you like this.

    You'd better give up.

    After a long time, you will be more tired.

    After all, women are not good at managing it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Oh, if you are together, you will gather, and if you don't, you will disperse! As long as you don't regret it, it's OK.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hey, asking what is the situation in the world only makes people promise life and death.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love is not gratitude, not a transaction, not compensation and not a multiple-choice question. Love is selfish and can never have the best of both worlds. Ask your heart and choose your favorite.

    Don't tell me you don't know the answer either. If you know, tell the other one seriously and without being arrogant: I'm sorry, please let go.

    No matter which one you choose, the chosen one will surely feel that you are precious. And the one who is still chirping crookedly after the fate is exhausted is actually not worthy of pity. You'll understand later.

    But remember, don't think of yourself as a random weight, your determination and firmness are important! Otherwise, even if the dust settles in the future, it will be difficult to recover that precious sense of trust. Don't be under the impression that you have to do it as a last resort.

    After thinking about it and understanding it, if you break up, you will break up and break up and be decisive; To love, please love boldly.

    If love, love seriously.

    Think about it, love is not pity, it is not charity! Be responsible for yourself, and it doesn't matter if you hurt or not.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You're in the same situation as I am now.

    I'm a man. My former friend broke up with me.

    I don't think I have a future. She's bigger than me.

    Divided into a month. She talked about friends. But I don't think I can forget her.

    Now I'm looking for her again.

    She promised me to break up with her current friend.

    But who knows if it's true?

    Hehe. Look at the opening point. Everything will be fine.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The phone is turned off.

    QQ does not log in.

    Play missing, find a place with beautiful mountains and rivers to stay for a year.

    --If you are pestered again, you can call the police directly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This question is really a bit troublesome, then you have to make a choice among them first, and then, break up with that one; I hope you can learn from this kind trick!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why do you regret the hurt that once hurt you? Does it hurt you deeply? Why will it hurt you, if it's for someone else to hurt you, don't choose him, if you choose him, maybe you will meet him in the future, and let him move, and dump you, if it's for other reasons, it's another matter, oops, the three of you can't be so entangled for a lifetime, sooner or later you have to hurt one, long pain is better than short pain, as long as that period of time has passed, maybe everyone is still good friends, at least it's a familiar stranger!! Hehe.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think this is mostly caused by your personal reasons, the beginning of a new relationship means giving up the past, what if he comes to you, you should be decisive when you have a new boyfriend, you are not a puppet, at the mercy of others, he broke up and broke up, you still don't want to refuse if you want to go back to you, you love the same kind of people, but your depression and fear of loss have led to this status quo. Shall I say that you are reaping the consequences? As long as you are resolute enough and choose a good one, there is nothing that cannot be broken, as long as you are resolute enough.

    If something like this happens again, you should reflect on it, love is a matter of two people, and greed is irresponsible for others and yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's amazing for a man to be moved by his true feelings! There is such a saying: It is not money that is everything, it is love!

    You're so lucky, you have to choose one of two men like this, because you can't guarantee that there will be another man like this for you in the future! Drawing lots is one way to do it!!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    To be now! It can hurt you before! He can hurt you in the future! Woman! Know how to take care of yourself! Don't be unfaithful a hundred times at a time!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you know today, why bother in the first place, the only way is to go to other places to avoid them for a while, and interrupt all external news and emotional things, which will always take time to wear out.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can choose to make them good friends with you instead of boyfriend and girlfriend, which will be better for all three.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Once unfaithful, a hundred times not to use, and the present well, cherish the present.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If I were you, I wouldn't choose my ex-boyfriend, if your ex-boyfriend really loves you, he shouldn't have hurt you in the first place, and it doesn't make sense to choose to turn back after hurting you, isn't it? It is recommended that you cherish the people in front of you and not be dragged down by the past. Wishing you happiness!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Actually, I think the crux of the matter lies with you. You should find a place to quietly think about who you want. As long as you are firm in your beliefs, the unaccepted party will still bless you in the end!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If it were me, I would definitely choose my current boyfriend, and if my ex-boyfriend can hurt once, there will be a next time

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Change places and start anew. Leaving the circle of life now ...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Maybe the first love is the most worth looking back to, but I don't know if it's n, or two!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Calm down and think about it? Who do you want more!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Actually, it feels like I'm in the same situation as you say, but I personally think let's see if there is still a possibility between the two of you, if there is no (of course there is no marriage), just hide her in the bottom of your heart, don't say it, I wish her happiness, if there is (if you have a boyfriend, there is still a chance), then go and realize your dreams

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In Beijing, of course, Unicom is used3G,First of all,Unicom's WCDMA technology is the most mature,The fastest speed,In terms of cost,Telecom is hourly charge,Unicom is traffic charge,There is no traffic on QQ browsing the web,So it is recommended that you use Unicom WCDMA.Although mobile TD is domestic and should be supported, the technology does not dare to compliment.

    Comparison of 3G technology for mobile phones.

    Operator: China Mobile, China Unicom, China Telecom.

    Standard TDS-WCDMA WCDMA WCDMW2000 uplink (M)

    Rate downlink (m).

    Countries used: China, more than 100 countries, 258 networks, 62 countries, with a user scale of trillions 95 million.

    Market share 77% 23%.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let's use telecommunications. Unicom and China Mobile are garbage. Drop often.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The TD of China Mobile is the slowest, and the CDMA of China Telecom and China Unicom is about the same, and after testing, China Telecom's 3G is a little faster than China Unicom's.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It depends on whether it is suitable or not.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    She is definitely not optimistic about you, and then discuss and discuss, all efforts are for the family

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    For the sake of family stability, I am reluctant to let you suffer.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In fact, maybe your wife doesn't want you to take the risk! With more communication, she may want to live a peaceful and peaceful life with you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Communicate well, how difficult it is to get married, are you afraid that you will fail in your business.?

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You can start a business at home. Kill two birds with one stone, ask me to show you the project.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    She thinks you'll be responsible for her when you have money in the future.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You can take your wife to start a business with you.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    There is such a story in the booklet:

    A father took his three sons to the steppe to hunt hares. Arrive at your destination and everything is ready to go.

    Old Daodao: I saw the shotguns in our hands, the hares running on the grassland, and the endless grassland.

    My father shook his head and said, "No."

    The second child said: I saw Dad. Eldest brother. Brother. Shotgun. Hare. There are also the endless grasslands.

    The father shook his head again and said, "No."

    And the third said only one sentence: I only saw the hare.

    It was only when my father said, "You got it right."

    Oh, yes! The vast grassland is like a long life. There are hares in the steppe. Grass. Person. And our whole life.

    You will encounter a lot of things. But hunters on the steppes only need to see the prey, but what we should grasp is the eye.

    Sign. Only by wholeheartedly moving towards the goal can we achieve a higher ideal.

    For example, in my eyes, I only have goals, and I have to learn to make trade-offs, but I am not a person who is very good at judging trade-offs, and sometimes I am very confused. But I believe that as long as I keep working towards my dream, I will find the rabbit I want.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Don't look at Shenzhou's... No matter how high the configuration is, the hardware performance cannot be brought into full play, and it is a waste to buy it. Brand,Just pay a little attention to it,It's okay to pick a cost-effective one,Don't look at it with the same side or something,There is such a good configuration and you can't play it,Lenovo's cost performance is average,thinkpad5000The model is good,After all, the main high-end,Recommend Acer or ASUS,Cost performance is not to say,Brand,The world ranking of personal computer business is the top five。

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    To tell the truth, the most cost-effective within 4000 is ASUS, and the after-sales service is also the highest evaluation, you can consider it, I personally think ASUS is absolutely good, I just use ASUS, more than 1 year without the slightest hardware problem, all in my bedroom are used ASUS, I think it's good, 4000 is definitely the king of ASUS! Acer is also okay, but recently the company has had problems, and after-sales may not be able to keep up

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    In my opinion, the configuration is much more important.

    The speed of a computer depends entirely on the configuration of the computer, not the manufacturer. Moreover, it is not that the models of old manufacturers are necessarily good, and the domestic models must be poor.

    If you compare a high-end machine from China with a mid-range model from ASUS, who has a longer lifespan? Who's fast?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I support what the 1st floor said!

    Because it is the configuration that is bought. It's not about buying a brand to go back!

    Is there a guarantee that there is no problem with that brand of machine? But Tongfang is brave enough to do a 1-year warranty! Are you bold enough to make a big brand?

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You are used to her resolutely refusing to bow her head even if she gives in, so you either keep your head down, or just suppress her momentum, that is, leave her for a few days, if she keeps ignoring you, then either she doesn't love you, or she doesn't love you enough.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Two people are together to be humble to each other, even if you are married, you will still quarrel often, think about it, love is not something that time can express.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    You spoil her like this yourself, communicate well, love her well!

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